Ah Xing is a warm-hearted old man who is always helpful, especially good at giving gifts. However, one day, he got into trouble because of the gift-giving.
"Ah Xing, I heard that you have a good set of gifts, can you help me pick a gift for the leader?"
Ah Xing frowned and shook his head: "Xiao Wang, that's not how gifts are given. There are some things that cannot be sent. ”
Xiao Wang was stunned for a moment, a little puzzled: "What can't be sent?
Ah Xing sighed and said slowly: "The old man said, don't give away ten gifts." These ten are not sent, but the wisdom passed down by our ancestors. ”
Xiao Wang became interested, and hurriedly asked: "Which ten will not be sent?"
Ah Xing smiled slightly, and began to tell the story: "This is the first thing that is not given, it is a valuable thing." Gifts that are too expensive will make people feel that you are stammering and losing your sincerity. ”
Xiao Wang nodded thoughtfully.
"The second is not to send, it is something with an unknown meaning. For example, some strange ornaments, the meaning of which is unclear, may make people misunderstand your intentions. ”
"What about the third?" Xiao Wang asked curiously.
"The third is not to send, it is an obsolete thing. Gifts should be up to date, and giving something outdated will only make people think that you are not paying enough attention. ”
Xiao Wang nodded again and again, feeling that what Ah Xing said made sense.
"Fourth, don't give it, it's someone else's thing. Giving someone someone something as a gift is not respectful to the original owner, and it also shows that you are not sincere enough. ”
"What about the fifth?" Xiao Wang asked impatiently.
Ah Xing smiled slightly: "The fifth is not sent, it is something that involves privacy." For example, some private photos, diaries, etc., these should not be used as gifts. ”
Xiao Wang listened to it with relish, and admired Ah Xing's wisdom so much that he threw himself to the ground.
"Sixth, if you don't give it, it's a useless thing. Be practical in your gifts, don't give things that are useless, as that will only make people think that you are perfunctory. ”
"Seventh, if you don't give it, it's something that harms your health. For example, some foods or supplies that are harmful to health cannot be delivered. ”
"Eighth, if you don't give it, it's against the law. Giving gifts must not violate laws and regulations, otherwise it will only harm others and yourself. ”
"The ninth is against morality. For example, some items involving pornography, violence and other bad content cannot be sent. ”
"What about the tenth?" Xiao Wang was completely attracted by Ah Xing's words.
Ah Xing took a deep breath and said slowly: "The tenth is not sent, it is a forced acceptance." When giving gifts, respect the wishes of the other person and do not force the other person to accept your gift. ”
After listening to Ah Xing's narration, Xiao Wang was full of emotion: "Ah Xing, you are so right! I used to give gifts as I wanted, and I never thought about it so much." In the future, I must choose gifts according to what you said. ”
Ah Xing smiled with satisfaction: "Xiao Wang, gift-giving is not only a courtesy, but also an expression of emotion. Only by choosing the right gift can you truly express your heart. ”
The story spread in the town, and people asked Ah Xing for advice on gift-giving. Ah Xing always answers patiently, using his experience and wisdom to help people choose the right gift.
As time went on, the culture of gift-giving in the town gradually changed. They no longer pursue luxury and luxury, but pay more attention to the practicality and heart of the gift. The relationship between people has also become more harmonious and the affection for each other has become deeper.
Ah Xing looked at the changes in the town, and his heart was full of relief. He knows that his wisdom and experience have been passed on to the next generation, and they will continue to carry on this wonderful tradition.
In the end, Ah Xing sat in front of his house, looking at the town at sunset, and his heart was full of hope and expectation. He knows that as long as people feel and express their emotions with their hearts, the world will be a better place.
The wisdom of "giving away ten will not be given" will continue to be praised in the town and become a precious cultural heritage, inspiring people to care for and respect others with their hearts, so that the world is full of love and warmth.
In this story, we see the image of Ah Xing as a wise old man. He used his experience and wisdom to help people understand the true meaning of gift-giving, and let people understand that gifts are not only material giving, but also emotional transmission and spiritual communication.
At the same time, this story also teaches us that in interpersonal interactions, we should respect, care and understand others. Gift-giving is just a formality, what really matters is the sincerity and kindness of our hearts. Only by treating others with heart can we reap true friendship and affection.
In this materialistic society, Ah Xing's story brings us a breath of fresh air. He makes us re-examine our own behavior and attitudes, and makes us understand that the true value does not lie in the amount of material things, but in the goodness and sincerity of our hearts.
Finally, let us remember Ah Xing's wisdom and teachings together, care for and respect others with our hearts, and make this world full of love and warmth.