In a bustling city, Ah Xing is an ordinary white-collar worker who lives a 9-to-5 life every day. He always maintains a keen insight into the people and things around him, especially the observation and understanding of women.
One day, Ah Xing attends a party of friends, and during the party, he meets a woman named Xiaofang. Xiaofang has a delicate appearance and good manners, and soon attracts Ah Xing's attention. However, as the party progressed, Ah Xing gradually discovered that Xiao Fang seemed to have some distinctive characteristics.
During a small talk, Ah Xing inadvertently asked about Xiaofang's hobbies. Xiao Fang said lightly: "Well, I just like to look at handsome guys and appreciate beautiful things." Ah Xing's heart moved, and he felt that Xiao Fang's answer seemed to reveal something implicitly.
In the following time, Ah Xing began to observe Xiao Fang's every move, intentionally or unintentionally. He found that Xiao Fang's eyes were always paying special attention to the men present, especially those who were handsome and had outstanding temperament. Whenever a handsome guy passes by, Xiao Fang's eyes will unconsciously light up, as if she is attracted.
In addition, Ah Xing also noticed that Xiao Fang's dress was also quite exquisite. She always wears fashionable, sexy clothes and shows off her body advantage to the fullest. Moreover, she is also very fond of makeup, and she will dress up carefully at every party to make herself look more attractive.
After three rounds of drinking, Xiaofang and a few friends began to talk about the opposite sex. Xiao Fang enthusiastically shared her experience of "hunting for beauty" and how to deal with different types of men. Her words were full of teasing and innuendo, which made the men present feel a little uncomfortable.
Ah Xing listened to Xiao Fang's narration, and couldn't help but feel a complicated emotion in his heart. He began to wonder if these characteristics of Xiao Fang were the nine characteristics of the legendary "lustful woman"? He recalled some articles and books he had read about women's psychology and tried to find the answer from them.
After some thinking and comparison, Ah Xing found that Xiaofang did have some characteristics similar to that of a "lustful woman". For example, she pays too much attention to the opposite sex and is always attracted to her appearance, she dresses too revealing and provocative, as if she is deliberately showing her charm, and she also reveals a kind of provocative and suggestive to the opposite sex in her speech and behavior, which makes people feel uncomfortable.
However, Ah Xing also realizes that Xiaofang can't be classified as a "woman" just because she has these characteristics. Everyone has their own personality and preferences, and these traits are not absolute. Perhaps, Xiaofang just has a more open and straightforward personality, and likes to socialize and interact with the opposite sex.
At the end of the party, Ah Xing and Xiao Fang had an in-depth conversation. He candidly expressed his observations and feelings about Xiaofang, while also asking her what she thought of the traits. Xiao Fang was silent for a while after hearing this, and then said lightly: "Maybe you're right, I do have a high degree of concern for the opposite sex. But that doesn't mean I'm a 'woman'. I just like to appreciate beautiful things and enjoy the communication and interaction with the opposite sex. Everyone has their own way of life and choices, and I just chose the way I liked. ”
Listening to Xiao Fang's words, Ah Xing's heart suddenly brightened. He realized that everyone has their own values and lifestyle, and a person cannot be defined simply by labels. Moreover, whether or not you are lustful is not the only criterion for measuring a person's character and morality. It is important that we respect each person's choices and individuality, and look at others with tolerance and understanding.
This gathering allowed Ah Xing to have a deeper understanding and awareness of the nine characteristics of "lustful women". He understands that these characteristics are not absolute, nor can they be used as the only criterion by which a person will be judged. Everyone has their own uniqueness and value, and we should be open and inclusive to accept and appreciate each other's differences.
In the days that followed, Ah Xing began to pay more attention to the female friends and colleagues around him. He found that each of them has a unique charm and personality, whether they are gentle and virtuous, or enthusiastic and unrestrained, they all deserve respect and appreciation. He began to learn to get along and communicate with them in a more understanding and tolerant manner, which made his interpersonal relationships more harmonious.
At the same time, Ah Xing also realized that he had also gained growth and progress in the process of observing and understanding women. He learned to capture the emotions and thoughts of others more keenly, and to understand the complexity and diversity of human nature more deeply. These experiences have made him more mature and confident, and have also made him more comfortable to cope with various challenges and difficulties in his future life and work.
In the end, Ah Xing understood a truth: everyone has their own uniqueness and value, and we should accept and appreciate each other's differences with an open and inclusive mind. Only in this way can we truly understand and respect others, and can we find our own place and value in this diverse and complex world.