My name is Zhang Xiaoming and I am 40 years old this year. I am an ordinary office worker living an uneventful life. My family background is also very ordinary, my parents are ordinary workers, and although the family is not wealthy, it is still warm and harmonious.
One day, I saw a netizen sharing on social media, titled "The ancestor said that the loss is Fucheng does not deceive me!", after reading it, I felt a little uncomfortable, as if I had touched something mysterious, but I couldn't understand it.
The content shared was very brief, and netizens said that he suffered a lot in life, but in the end, he benefited a lot. He said that sometimes we seem to have suffered a loss, but in fact we may be laying the groundwork for future happiness.
I'm reminded of some of my own experiences. Sometimes, I also feel that I have suffered a lot and feel that life is very unfair. But in retrospect, those experiences seem to have quietly changed me.
As a child, I was always bullied by my classmates at school and criticized by my teachers. I always felt that it was unfair, why did I always have to get hurt, but gradually, I found myself stronger and more confident. Those experiences taught me how to deal with setbacks and how to protect myself.
Growing up, I went through a failed romance. I used to think how unlucky I was, but then I realized that that experience taught me how to cherish true love and how to deal with relationship issues maturely.
At work, I have also suffered a lot of losses. Sometimes, I have to deal with a lot of pressure and responsibility for the good of the company. But those experiences have sharpened my will and ability to grow into a better person.
I suddenly understood that it is not terrible to suffer losses, because suffering losses is a kind of growth. Every loss is a valuable experience that helps us become stronger and more mature.
As a result, I began to face the challenges and difficulties in life more positively. I learned to gain from losses and experience from failures. I began to feel the beauty of life, because I knew that even in the face of difficulties, I could persevere, because suffering losses is a blessing, which is something I deeply realized.
Now, whenever I face difficulties and challenges, I think of the netizen's sharing, and the sentence "The ancestor said that suffering is a blessing and sincerity does not deceive me!". I know that as long as I work hard to face it, suffering will bring me greater happiness and gain.
Every setback in life is an asset, and every failure is an accumulation. Suffering losses is not a bad thing, but a kind of growth. Now, I finally really understand the deep meaning of this sentence, and I am grateful for every loss in life, because they have made me stronger, braver, and more cherished every minute of life.