My name is Liu Qi, I am an ordinary office worker, and my family is my most precious support in my ordinary and busy life. I have an uncle who loves me dearly, and he cares about me like his own brother. My aunt and uncle were a woman who was gentle on the outside and strong on the inside, and I always admired her.
Family is a warm harbor for me. However, one day, a sudden illness shattered the peace. My uncle suddenly fell seriously ill and was admitted to the hospital. When I heard the news, I immediately decided to visit him and send him some money to help him with his treatment.
I withdrew 50,000 yuan, although this money is not a small amount for me, but for the sake of my uncle's health, I think it is worth it no matter what. I hurried to the hospital, full of worries and expectations for my uncle. When I came to the door of the ward, I happened to hear my aunt's words.
"Over the years, my uncle has been very good to us and has given us a lot. But we really can't afford to pay so much medical bills now, I don't know if Liu Qi will help......"
When I heard that, I was shocked. I'm not particularly rich, and 50,000 yuan is not easy for me to get, and I always thought that my uncle's illness was very serious, which is why I was in such a hurry to get the money. Unexpectedly, they didn't put me first, but instead discussed whether to lend a hand to me behind my back.
I stood outside the door, feeling conflicted, and for a while I couldn't decide whether to give the money to my uncle. I began to reflect on my relationship with my uncle during this time, and although he was very good to me, did this mean that I should give to him unconditionally?
In the end, I decided not to go in to see my uncle, and I didn't leave the money behind. I felt like I had been betrayed, and although my heart hurt, I felt even more wronged. I don't want my kindness to be taken for granted, and I don't want to be seen as just a tool to help.
Back home, I began to re-examine my values. I don't want to be a passive person who accepts the use of others, I want to learn to protect my own interests and not let others easily hurt me. Maybe it's a bit cruel to my uncle, but I believe it's also for my own good.
A few days later, I heard that my uncle's condition had improved, and although I still felt a little guilty, I believed that I had made the right decision. I will not give up my bottom line because of other people's expectations, I will protect myself, and I hope that my uncle can understand my choice. Life goes on and I will continue to work hard, grow and become a stronger person.