People always want to be perfect, and if they don't think it's perfect, they don't want to do it. But when I looked back, I realized that what I didn't do was done by others. I didn't get the result myself, others got it, and I regret it alone, but everything is useless.
I didn't chase what I wanted, I always wanted to wait for better, and what I missed was the best. When you hear a beautiful song in a wood, you want to see what kind of person can have such a natural sound.
Your footsteps are getting closer and closer to this sound, and the song is getting more and more beautiful. You feel the beauty and you are afraid of losing it. You want to continue this goodness and make it beautiful. So, you stopped, not daring to come any closer.
You are thinking, if you don't walk in at this time, then this beauty will always remain in your heart and become an unforgettable memory. If you walk in, it is an image that you don't like, and this beautiful moment dissipates. Wandering left and right, you eventually choose to stop.
Not long after, the singing stopped. You're ready to get out of here, too. At a bend, you can't help but glance in that direction. Just this glance, you regret it. You've missed out on the beauty perfectly.
Because I am afraid, I lose, and then I regret it.
It is human nature to pursue perfection and seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. Your hesitation comes from the expansion of desire, hoping that everything will go well and that everything will be good. But the best state of life is to be semi-satisfied. For example, you have a good encounter, although it does not live up to your ideal expectations. You have a good feeling, although you have not revealed the true face of Lushan. You want everything and end up getting nothing.
If you want to be better, then manage yourself well. If you like beautiful butterflies, you can't chase them, you have to plant a sea of flowers, and beautiful butterflies will naturally surround you.
This sentence is simple to say, but not easy to do. What you have to overcome is not the difficulties of the outside world, but to be able to endure the loneliness of the heart, the hardships of learning, and the confidence to persevere.
It may take a year, it may take ten years, this sea of flowers belongs to you alone, and no one can steal it. However, if you are in a hurry and pull out the seedlings to help grow, then you will not see any flowers bloom. Only when you have a good fortune in your heart can you tolerate everything in the world, including your slow growth.
Pursue what you want, not perfection. This is very crucial, one is that people have to pursue something, which is part of a good life. The second is to learn to make trade-offs, know what you want most, and let the rest be. This way your choice is the best.
In addition to your goals, you have a much wider world. When you are attracted to something, you are controlled by something, and you can't see other beauty. To avoid this, it is necessary to look at your own gains and losses in a more relaxed mood, and see the people and things around you. Not everything is necessary, what people need is basic living conditions, clean water, food, and warmth.
If you are afraid of disappointment, you will have regrets, don't think so much, and move forward bravely. You never know what you'll end up seeing until you get to the last step. Instead of leaving regrets, it is better to go with the flow.
