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Sentence No. 2 Explorer
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A person's personality and three views are inseparable from the influence of the original family.
Living in a loving family means that you have the ability to love and be loved.
If the original family is not harmonious, or does not feel the praise and support of parents, it will be more indifferent to feelings than others.
There are some celebrity parents in the circle, who have missed their children's childhood, and only think of making up for it when their children don't need it.
Today, let's talk about these "turned against each other" father and son in the circle, and see what they have experienced?
Zhang Ruoyun
2019 is Zhang Ruoyun's most unique year.
This year, he became the "first person on the male frequency" with "Celebrating More Than Years", and also entered into marriage with Tang Yixin.
Although his career and feelings blossomed, his father hit him hard.
If he didn't attend the wedding, he also inexplicably became his father's guarantor, and was involved in a financial dispute of 140 million yuan with Great Aim .
In addition to being interfered with by his father's career, according to people familiar with the matter, Zhang Jian also used him to support his little wife.
Because there were too many riots, Zhang Jian was finally sued by him in court.
Since the father and son went to court, many people who don't know why have scolded Zhang Ruoyun for being unfilial.
However, those who really know his past will understand that he is tolerant enough of his father.
Once on his social platform, Zhang Ruoyun fantasized about his future family.
However, the last sentence "You are not worthy" exposes the love that he lacked in childhood.
Zhang Jian's first wife was Zhang Ruoyun's biological mother Huang Ming.
The two fell in love vigorously at the beginning, and they were also chicken feathers when they separated.
At the beginning, in order to fight for the custody of their son, the two sides "fought".
Since the divorce, his mother has taken him with her.
However, the night before he was taken out of the country by his mother, he was carried back by his grandmother overnight.
In desperation, her mother had to go abroad to work alone.
Since his parents divorced, he was taken care of by his grandparents, on the other hand, Zhang Jian played a very small role in his childhood because of his busy work and constant relationships.
When Zhang Ruoyun was four years old, his father and actor Liu Bei entered into marriage.
Later, because of filming, Liu Bei kicked his father and fell in love with director Zhang Li.
It's a pity that Zhang Li is not a good person.
When cooperating with Song Jia, there was a scandal between the two, and then he ended his fifth marriage.
It is worth mentioning that not long after Liu Bei's divorce, she remarried Zhang Jian with her children with Director Zhang, and later the two divorced for various reasons.
Among them, there were going around and around, and Zhang Ruoyun's feelings were not asked at all.
What's even more outrageous is that Zhang Jian later found a post-90s actress to get married.
Seeing that his stepmother is 5 years younger than him, he must be even more bitter and unspeakable.
Zhang Fengyi
In the long river of domestic film and television dramas, Zhang Fengyi definitely occupies a strong share.
He is not only a first-class actor, but also a director of the China Film Association.
Especially his excellent works such as "Farewell My Concubine" and "Age of Peace" are still remembered.
Although his professionalism is undeniable, emotionally, he has been criticized.
His first wife was Lu Liping, and the two fell in love because of the play.
When they first got together, many people advised Lu Liping to stop losses in time.
After all, she already held the Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Awards at that time, and Zhang Fengyi was still a newcomer in the circle.
But reason can't withstand emotion, she not only loved, but also married each other.
Not long after marriage, she gave birth to her son Zhang Boyu.
In order to take care of the family, she sacrificed her career and became a housewife.
In order to take her husband's career to the next level, she gave away all her resources.
With her assistance, Zhang Fengyi's acting career has progressed rapidly, and at the same time, the relationship between the two has begun to have problems.
As their careers became busier and busier, the husband and wife got together less and left more, and the two who did not communicate often began to quarrel frequently.
In the end, the two went to divorce.
After the divorce, the child followed the mother.
Although she was on the show, Lu Liping revealed that she easily proposed to break up, and then did not give her children a complete family.
But in fact, in this marriage, she is the one who was "cold and violent".
After all, he has a very different attitude towards her than his current wife.
Not only that, but his attitude towards his son is also "indifferent".
Since his parents divorced, whenever Zhang Boyu misses his father, he rarely can call him.
Even if he later learned that his son chose the path of an actor, he would be very shocked and said: "Your image is not as good as mine, and you can't perform." ”
Later, Zhang Boyu was admitted to Chinese opera with his own efforts, but what he was waiting for was his father's blow.
In the face of his father's repressive education, Zhang Boyu's temperament became more and more introverted.
Later, he finally found true love, and when he was preparing for the wedding, Zhang Fengyi disappointed him again.
At that time, he planned to hold 27 tables of banquets, but Zhang Fengyi felt that the 27 tables were too big, and one table was enough.
In addition, he was even more afraid of the embarrassment of meeting his ex-wife at the wedding, after all, the two had not been in touch for many years.
It is also this kind of free-range education that makes Zhang Boyu sigh many times that the shadow of childhood needs a lifetime to heal.
He had the same experience as Batu.
If he was free-ranged by his father, then Batu was not even qualified to be recognized by his father.
Batuu
Since his parents divorced, Batu could never have imagined that the first half of his life was paid for the failure of his parents' relationship.
At the beginning, with an interview admitting cheating, Song Dandan and Yingda ended their marriage.
When the two divorced, Batu was just a babbling child.
It's just that at this age of longing for love, what he encountered was the lack of father's love.
In addition to not being treated by his father, he was not qualified to attend even his grandfather's funeral.
In 2003, he learned about his grandfather's death in the media.
After learning the news, he immediately decided to give his grandfather a ride.
If he could, he would also like to use it to ease his relationship with his father.
It's just that what he didn't expect was that his father would be so ruthless and drive him out of the funeral scene without any regard for his feelings.
Not only that, but when the media asked Batu about his son, he said with disdain: "First of all, we have doubts about whether his surname is Ying." ”
One after another, Batu was discouraged and lost hope for his father.
Of course, what hit him even more was his father's double standard.
Although he refused to admit his eldest son, in the face of his younger son Ying Rudi, he was afraid of melting in his mouth.
In addition to expressing his father's love in public many times, he has never been absent at every important stage of his son's life.
Because his youngest son loves to skate, he spends time and energy to customize the best sports equipment for him.
Not only that, but he gave up his job and accompanied his son to train abroad.
It can be said that she is also a son, but her attitude is diametrically opposite.
It was this kind of double-standard behavior that made Batu reject his father's overtures.
Later, after he got married and had children, Yingda faintly revealed his attitude towards peace.
He said that it was the media that exaggerated the words, and that he had not ignored Batu's growth over the years.
He has always treated everyone equally, if it weren't for Song Dandan's "privacy exhibitionism", their family would not have stood at the peak of public opinion at all.
However, this attitude is: "It doesn't have to, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter."
Jackie chan
As a legend of martial arts films, it is not an exaggeration to say that Jackie Chan is a pioneer of action movies.
Relying on his "desperate" acting skills, he won the Oscar Lifetime Achievement Award, and became a sought-after big brother in and out of the circle.
It's just that the eldest brother's acting career and love life are completely different evaluations.
At the age of 37, he met 18-year-old Wu Qili, and the two gave birth to Xiaolongnu.
Because Jackie Chan already had his son Fang Zu's name at that time, in the face of Wu Qili's forced palace, he chose to hold a press conference to express his attitude.
Seeing that she failed to force the palace, Wu Qili, who fell into depression, began to become moody.
And she also vented her grievances and anger on Xiaolongnu's head.
It is reported that when Wu Zhuolin was a child, she grew up in the sound of suppression and abuse, and her mother not only burned her with cigarette butts, but also often beat and scolded her, thinking that she was born a mistake.
Growing up in this extremely distorted environment, she also became extremely rebellious, and even wanted to commit suicide at one point.
On the other hand, Fang Zuming, not only through his father's identity, has given the green light all the way in the entertainment industry.
Later, after the scandal, he managed to get out with the help of his father and lived a good life.
Seeing the completely different lives of two people, I can't help but feel embarrassed!
epilogue
As the saying goes, parents are their children's best teachers.
It is difficult for an emotionally volatile parent to have an emotionally stable child.
In the same way, it is difficult for children who grow up in love to lose hope in life.
As a parent, no matter what the state of the relationship is, you should not let your child pay for it.
We should not treat children as ATMs in life and trample on them at will.
Take Mao Xiaotong as an example, because she is a girl, she was thrown into the garbage heap by her father not long after she was born.
If it weren't for her mother's frenzied search, she would have frozen to death on the side of the street.
Later, his father's feelings changed and he cruelly abandoned their mother and daughter.
For decades, she ignored and ignored it, and it wasn't until she became famous that she came to the door to recognize her relatives.
She didn't agree to this sudden "pension request", who would have thought that her father would directly appear on the show and start complaining.
completely ignored her thoughts and identity, and said that if he didn't give him 50 million, then they would go to hell together.
As long as the money is in place, it is okay not to get along with each other in the future.
Faced with his father's unreasonable request, Mao Xiaotong still refused.
But because the matter was too big, she could only promise to give him 5,000 yuan a month in alimony, and the matter gradually subsided.
Giving birth without raising, raising without teaching, is the biggest dereliction of responsibility as a parent!
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