Xiaoyun is 25 years old, born in a rural area in Anhui Province, like a flower like jade, slender figure, is recognized as a village flower.
It stands to reason that Xiaoyun is beautiful and very young, and she doesn't have to worry about getting married on her terms, but Xiaoyun's marriage is not going well, because Xiaoyun's mate selection standards are very high.
Xiaoyun has been on a blind date more than 20 times, and each time she asked the man to have a house and give her a dowry of 280,000 yuan. For those men with average economic conditions, she was even more disdainful, as if they didn't even have the qualifications to stand in front of her.
Time flies, and the age of the village flower gradually increases. She began to feel anxious and confused, not knowing what kind of man she was looking for. Those rich men can meet her material needs, but they can't give her sincerity and warmth. Those men who had no money were sincere to her, but they could not meet her material requirements and were rejected by her.
Introduced to Muraka, she met a handsome man, he didn't have a gorgeous house, and he didn't have a huge bride price, but he had a sincere heart and was willing to give everything for her. At first, Muraka was not interested in him, thinking that he was too ordinary to be worthy of himself at all. As time passed, she gradually discovered that this man, although ordinary, could give her a sense of peace and warmth that she had never felt before.
Xiaoyun begins to re-examine her values, and she realizes that her pursuit of money and material things is actually a superficial performance. True happiness does not come from material satisfaction, but from inner peace and the company of loved ones.
Muraka let go of those vanity thoughts and chose to be with this guy. Their lives are not rich, but their love is full and wonderful.
This case teaches us that true love cannot be measured in terms of money. We should cherish those who treat us with sincerity, rather than blindly pursuing material satisfaction, only then can we find true happiness.
Sentiment analysis
For Xiaoyun's emotional analysis, it's really mixed!
First of all, we can feel Xiaoyun's persistence and self-confidence. She went on blind dates more than 20 times, and each time she insisted on her own demands and did not compromise easily. This persistence and self-confidence is somewhat appreciated, as she has the right to pursue the life she wants.
On the other hand, we also have to see her being too critical and materialistic. Her pursuit of money and material things makes her constantly sift through the blind date process, and eventually she will miss out on those who really understand her and love her. This kind of overly materialistic pursuit will make her go further and further on the emotional path.
At the same time, we can also feel the loss and helplessness of those men who have no money. They have sincere feelings for the village flower, but they are turned away because they cannot meet her material needs. The emotional blow was undoubtedly heavy for them.
To sum up, this case is full of mixed emotions. This is both an appreciation of persistence and self-confidence, as well as a criticism of being too materialistic and critical. It also makes us think about the role of money and material things in emotional life, and how to find balance in the pursuit of happiness.