Recently, the video of a couple of junior high school students getting married and holding a wedding banquet in Tai'an, Shandong Province rushed to the hot search, which is also outrageous!
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据了解,新郎是初二学生,两人在去年9月份认识,经过双方父母商量同意,于2024年3月23日在村里办酒席。
Now the post-00s are really good at playing, they got married at the age of 13 or 14, and the old aunts in their thirties around me are still single, and the terrible thing is that this marriage has been arranged by the parents, which is simply harming the children.
It's only the second year of junior high school, and it's only thirteen or fourteen years old, and the physical and psychological maturity is not enough.
When we were in the second year of junior high school, we only had endless homework in our minds, endless classes, and occasionally talked about which star released a new album in our spare time, and we would also discuss which class was handsome, and we had no interest in falling in love at all, let alone getting married!
Netizen: When I was a child, I watched adults get married, and when I grew up, I watched children get married. This sentence is not very hurtful, and it is extremely insulting! The people who watch children and adults get married are all the same people.
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有网友调侃:初二为什么不能结婚?我们初二、初四、初六双数都可以!不管是初几结婚,初二结婚就不行,年龄没到!
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网友:两个孩子生了个孩子,三个人生病一起挂儿科。 laughed to death, and some netizens ridiculed that this family of three would definitely not be able to play the game, because minors don't have ID cards!
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Netizen: Gave birth at the age of 17, became a grandmother at the age of 34, and became a grandfather at the age of 38...... These people are still very proud, and they don't understand where the pride comes from?
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这才是正常人的做法,初二的孩子还在处于义务教育阶段,就这么着急结婚吗?是怕孩子以后找不到老婆吗?
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Follow-up: Both parents were educated, and the girl has returned to her home.
I don't know if I can stop it in the end, I am in such a hurry to get married, the woman is very likely to be pregnant, according to their meaning, even if they can't get a marriage certificate, they have to get a banquet to show that they are married.
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This phenomenon is not an isolated case, it is common in rural areas, especially some students with poor grades, who get mixed together at the age of fifteen or sixteen, and their parents can't stop them, and finally get a child, and you can't do it if you don't give them alcohol.
To be honest, this kind of marriage is difficult to last long, teenagers don't even understand what to live on, so they fall in love early and have children, and when they reach a certain age, their awareness has improved, and they have experienced more people and things, and there are a lot of people who have gone to divorce, and in the end it is the children who are pitiful.
中国的婚姻法规定,男方未满22周岁、女方未满20周岁不允许结婚,而且民政局也不会发结婚证,这种私自结婚的现象,不仅不受到法律保护,而且还受到道德的谴责。
I still hope that today's children can receive a good education, read more books to improve their awareness, broaden their horizons, and give people more choices in life.
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