This era is too fast, it is changing rapidly, everything comes and goes quickly.
The wind passed without a trace, and the clouds and smoke passed by, leaving nothing but a pale.
When people reach middle age, they will want to "slow down" more and more.
After the age of 40, people with the same frequency of "chronic children".
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The slower the days, the more time passes
Working, not working, as if everyone is living like a war, like a spinning top being pumped and unable to stop.
A time management expert said:
"We are in an era where health is sold to time and stress. Busyness, especially the psychological busyness, can be more harmful than we can imagine, and that kind of sleepless work is a suicidal life. ”
How heart-wrenching.
Feng Zikai wrote that in the past, the sun became slow, cars, horses, and mail were slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime.
He's a slow life. Traveling back and forth between Hangzhou and Shimen, others traveled for two or three hours, but he chose to take a boat and spend two or three days. The boat will pass through Fuyan Temple, Chongfu, Hemp, Bolu, Wuhang and other places, he enjoys the scenery on the boat during the day, and goes ashore to hang out at night, and he can play for a day if he is in good spirits.
Other people's journeys are "rushing", but Feng Zikai is not, the journey is enjoyment, he feels that this slowness is better than the meaning of arrival.
The real life is not to be exhausted, but to slow down and let the body go hand in hand with the soul.
The day is slowing down, the grass and trees are beautiful, the soil is breathing, and the birds and beasts are affectionate. A flower and a tree, a drink and a peck, you can taste the good taste of life.
Let time stand aside for a while, listen to the wind, and watch the sunset.
If you meet such a chronic person on the road of life, it is also very good.
The years are long, people, slow down to live.
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The slower the temperament, the lighter the steps
This era is very impetuous, and the people in the shadow of the times are also impatient. I'm anxious about everything, and I'm anxious about my temperament.
As everyone knows, in life, many things cannot be rushed.
If you want to hurry, you can't reach it.
The well-known Mr. Jin Yong, the martial arts life he wrote was a happy enmity. But in his life, he is a slow man, speaking slowly and walking slowly.
But he is such a slow and leisurely person who has created countless classic works and become a generation of martial arts novel masters.
He once described himself like this: "My temperament is very slow, everything I do is slow, and in the end I do it well, optimistic and open-minded." ”
Temperament, only by slowing down, can you unload the heavy burden on your heart, can you walk briskly, and live calmly.
Chronic child, not to support laziness or procrastination, but to allow people to find balance in their lives.
Writer Jiang Xun said:
"The most beautiful life is not a life that is constantly accelerating, but a life in which speed is balanced between acceleration and slowness. When we find the balance between fast and slow, we will probably explore the rhythm of our own life. “
It's okay to be slower.
I am self-sufficient in flowers and gentleness.
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The slower the spirit, the more stable the core
Bi Shumin said: "Happiness is not synchronized with wealth, status, prestige, marriage, it is just the feeling of your heart. ”
In life, in fact, there is no such thing as winning or losing, it is the superposition of various experiences.
The slower a person's spirit, the more stable the core and the farther they go.
Guo Jingjing has created the miracle of diving platform again and again. When the reporter interviewed her, she once said that she has her own rhythm, and what she wants is not to surpass someone, but to take her time, and she breaks through herself step by step.
You see, although Guo Jingjing is now married into a wealthy family, her spiritual height has always been simple and calm, and her core is extremely stable.
Everything, take your time and have concentration. Whether it is a career or a marriage, it is to maintain one's own "inner growth".
Feng Tang said in "It is not easy to be blown away by the wind in the universe":
"Everyone needs to have a stable nucleus, so that it is not easy to be blown away by the wind in the universe. ”
When you are stable at the core, you will truly understand what you want, and life will develop the way you envision.
Flowers are not opened for flower shops, people also have their own moons, just take their own path, just go steady.
In life, the most important thing is to slow down, do what you want, and find the most stable self in an unstable fate.
The Tao Te Ching says:
"Who can live for a long time?"
Taoism pays attention to the fact that people do everything without being irritable, not "chaotic" or "turbid", and everything should be leisurely "Xusheng" and come slowly.
Although the times are getting faster and faster, keep patience, take care of your "chronic children", and slowly accumulate strength. If you pay a lot of money and walk slowly, you will gain more.
The rest of your life is long, slow down, and so on soul.
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