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After I retired, my life became incredibly colorful. I started traveling and often showing off my scenery on my social media, thinking that the photos I took were beautiful, but I didn't realize how much damage these shows off could do to myself and others.
For the first time in my life, I have had enough time to achieve my dreams. Everywhere I went, I would use my camera to capture the gorgeous scenery in front of me, add a self-righteous description, and then post it to my circle of friends without hesitation. Soon, my circle of friends became my landscape exhibition hall, and I was always so confident and proud in the photos.
The likes and comments in the circle of friends have become a part of my life, and I feel that I have value and a sense of existence. I even showed my travel plans to my friends and scared them into saying that I was a well-informed person who asked me for travel tips. Looking at the more and more likes in the circle of friends, I felt an inexplicable satisfaction.
However, everything changed when I least expected it. One day, I posted a set of photos of what I thought was a beautiful sunset in my circle of friends, accompanied by a text such as "The most beautiful tenderness awaits at the end of the world". But what happened next took me by surprise.
I got a private message from an old friend who said, "Where did you shoot this? I'm going to travel to that place and want to ask you for advice." I was stunned because I downloaded the photo from the Internet, not at all. I replied humbly: "Oh, that place is really beautiful, but I took it when I was passing by this time, and I also looked for the guide on the Internet, you can search for it." The old friend continued to ask some questions, and finally said to me, "Thank you, I'll go search for a guide." ”
At that moment, a crack instantly formed in my heart. I realized that my actions were not only showing off things that I hadn't personally experienced, but also misleading others. I used online photos and tips to pretend to be my own travel experiences, and my friends believed them.
This incident plunged me into deep self-blame and guilt. My retirement life was supposed to be colorful, and I was supposed to be happy for myself and others, but I let that show-off hurt. I deeply reflected on my own behavior and my attitude towards life.
I decided to stop showing off my so-called beauty in the circle of friends, because I understood that it was only a manifestation of vanity, and that what was really valuable was the purity of heart and true kindness. Now, I prefer to share with my friends my real life and real feelings, the natural scenery, the taste of life that does not need to be flaunted. As a line in the movie says: "No matter how beautiful the scenery is, it can't match the sincerity and true feelings." ”
After this introspection, I began to appreciate the scenery in every corner more attentively. I no longer pursue those enviable scenery, but enjoy and cherish every trip even more. I began to feel and experience with my heart, instead of using my travel experience as a bragging rights. I have become more calm and authentic, and my circle of friends is no longer a show, but a display of truth and authenticity.
At the same time, my life has become happier and more colorful. Every trip, every experience, I will feel and record with my heart. I slowly understood that the real scenery is not to show off in the circle of friends, but to the peace and satisfaction in the depths of the soul. I also understand that everything we do will affect others, so I cherish and treat my own actions even more.
After I retired, I no longer showed off my scenery in the circle of friends, because I knew that it would only hurt others and myself. I began to appreciate every inch of life with my heart, to experience and feel with my heart. I found that the real scenery is not in the distance, but in my own heart.
I once went on a trip abroad with an old friend. We were in an old town and found an old bell tower. The old bell tower was right on the edge of a garden full of bright flowers, bright and bright, blooming with infinite beauty. I was so fascinated by the beauty that I couldn't help but take a picture of this beautiful moment with my phone.
"You're so lucky to have such a beautiful photo. My old friend looked at my photo and said enviously.
"Yes, this garden is so beautiful, I can't believe it's real. I replied satisfied.
"I'd like to go too, but I'll probably never have the chance in my life. The old friend said with emotion.
At this time, I suddenly realized that I used to be like this myself, always brushing my presence in the circle of friends, wanting to show off my luck and scenery. However, I didn't realize that what I did might have a negative impact on others. Doing so is not what I really want to do in life.
I decided I wanted to change myself right away, and I toured this beautiful garden with my old friends. In the scented air of flowers, I talked to my old friend about many topics that I hadn't talked about in a long time, and I apologized to my old friend for what I used to think was beautiful.
After listening to my explanation, my old friend suddenly laughed: "I have long seen that you are showing off, but I know that you have good intentions. But it's really not good for you to do this, because many people will be hurt by your actions. ”
I nodded silently, feeling a little guilty and embarrassed.
The old friend continued: "But more importantly, you should also feel unworthy of what you are doing. In fact, your real experience and real emotions are the most valuable, not those false show-offs. ”
I was deeply moved by my old friend's words, and on the way back home, I decided to re-examine myself and face my life with sincerity and humility. So, I started to make my travel experience real. I use my phone to record every beautiful scenery, every unforgettable experience, and share it with my friends with my real feelings. I no longer care about the number of likes and comments, I just want to sincerely share my happiness and emotion with my friends.
And this kind of change has really made me happy. In the circle of friends, there is no longer false ostentation, but real communication and sincere greetings. My friends were also happy with my new changes and started sharing their life and travel experiences with me.
In the days that followed, I continued my travels, visited many beautiful places, and saw many strange landscapes. At the end of each trip, I share my thoughts with my friends, not just landscape photos. Some people say that I have changed a lot and become more grounded, and I myself feel more and more relaxed and at ease, because there is no burden of showing off, only real joy and satisfaction.
I am no longer proud of my scenery, but I know how to cherish the touching of these scenery even more. After retirement, I enjoy every trip and cherish every experience, because this kind of life is the most real and beautiful.
My changes have also made my circle of friends more warm, real and beautiful. When my friends encounter difficulties, they are willing to confide in me, and the joys and sorrows in life are shared with each other in the circle of friends. We are no longer busy in vanity and ostentation, but together in care and sincerity. This kind of life is what I really want.
When I changed my behavior, my life changed for the better. I began to experience every trip with my heart, never losing sight of the beauty and truth around me. On a trip back home, I was in the verdant countryside. There, I met an old grandmother, who was a local.
"Hello grandma, I am traveling here from the city and the scenery here is really beautiful. I smiled at my grandmother and said hello.
"Thank you for the compliment, little friend. In fact, there are still many unknown places in our scenery here, if you want, I can take you to explore. Grandma said to me in a gentle voice.
Of course I agreed, and under my grandmother's guidance, I saw the real scenery of this land. She took me to places where you can barely find a guide online, but I was amazed by every single one. My grandmother showed me her home with sincerity and warmth, and I am very grateful for her sincere hospitality.
My grandmother said to me with a smile: "Do you know, our usual life is not rich, but this land has the most real beauty, every inch of land has a legend, and every flower has a story. These beautiful memories and scenery are what I cherish the most. ”
Listening to my grandmother's words, I felt a shock in my heart. It turns out that the real scenery is not about showing off, but about experiencing and feeling with your heart. I felt as if I had understood a lot of things that I hadn't understood before. Instead of chasing illusory scenery, it is better to cherish the real beauty in front of you, because this is the way to get closest to the essence of life.
When I got home, I shared my story with my grandmother in my circle of friends. My friends praised me, and many asked me about the places my grandmother had taken me. Instead of showing off my scenery, I share with my friends the real beauty and stories I experienced. It's what really infects and inspires people. I am also very happy that in my circle of friends, more and more people have begun to uphold this attitude and cherish the scenery and life in front of them.
After retirement, my life has become more colorful, and I can feel and record every time I travel. I no longer aim to show off, but hope to infect and inspire others with my own experience and perception. This change has made me enjoy my life even more, and it has also filled my circle of friends with the power of sincerity and warmth.
Occasionally, someone will ask me why you don't show your scenery anymore, and I will smile and reply: "Because I have found the most authentic scenery, it is hidden in every corner of our life." "And this kind of life is what I really want.
However, my actions were not supported by everyone. Once, I shared a trip on my social media, using some exaggerated words to describe the grandeur of the scenery, but I was left by an old friend.
"It's not good for you to do this, you know, your behavior like this is a kind of falsehood and disguise for many people. My old friend said to me.
"I don't mean anything, I just want to share my joy and goodness. I replied with some confusion.
"But your actions will mislead others and make people mistakenly think that your life is the best, which is irresponsible to yourself and others. The words of the old friend were full of seriousness and spiciness.
I was silent for a moment, reflecting deeply on what I had done. I realized that my actions were not harmless, but misleading and harmful. I began to reflect deeply on my actions and my attitude towards life.
Since then, my circle of friends has become more real and warmer. What I share is no longer showing off, but real life and insights. I apologized to my old friend and hoped she would understand that I was changing my ways.
"I see, I'm not blaming you, I just want you to be aware of the impact this behavior can have on others. My old friend said to me.
"Thank you for your admonition and understanding, I will face life more authentically and humbly. I responded honestly.
This reflection made me deeply aware of the importance of the support and understanding of others. I learned that my authenticity and sincerity are my most valuable treasures, not those illusory show-offs. After I changed, my circle of friends became warmer and more real, and more friends began to share their lives and insights with me.
I began to learn to cherish every trip, every experience. I no longer aim to show off, but hope to infect and inspire others with my own experience and perception. This kind of life makes me feel happier and more fulfilling.
My life has truly become colorful, and I deeply feel that real emotions and experiences are the most valuable. My circle of friends has also become more real, warm and beautiful. This change makes me feel more mature and peaceful inside.
Changing what I do, I found the most authentic scenery, which is hidden in every corner of our lives. I feel happier and more fulfilled in such a life. This kind of life is what I really want.
Therefore, I decided to continue to face life with a true and sincere attitude from now on, including my circle of friends. I no longer pursue show-off and vanity, but hope to use my real story and insights to influence more people.
One day, I started another trip, this time to an ancient town. I saw a painter on the street corner, immersed in the world of painting.
"Hello, are you painting?" I greeted the painter.
"Yes, I'm capturing this moment of beauty. The painter replied with a smile.
"How long have you been painting here, the scenery here is really beautiful. I continued to ask.
"I've been here for a week now and this place is so inspiring. The painter explained to me.
"There are so many beautiful views in this land, maybe you can capture the most authentic scenery here. "I tried to talk to the painter.
"Yes, I feel like I've found some beautiful landscapes that are so real and moving. The painter said calmly.
The dialogue with the painter also gave me some insights. In this world, the real scenery is the most valuable, because only this can let us touch the most real beauty in life. I deeply understood that this was the state I had been looking for. I want to use my real experience and insights to inspire and influence more people.
After returning home, I wrote a sincere travelogue about this trip, without exaggeration and ostentation, just heartfelt feelings and sincere emotions. I shared this travelogue with my friends, and soon, my friends left messages one after another, and everyone began to share their lives and insights.
"Your travelogue is really well written, and after reading it, I feel that I have some experience of life. "A friend said to me.
"Yes, indeed, your travel experience is so authentic and romantic. Another friend also left a message expressing his feelings.
I'm happy because my change has had a positive impact and my friends are starting to focus on more real life. This result has strengthened my determination to continue to face life and my circle of friends with a true and sincere attitude.
After retirement, I no longer want to show off my scenery, but I am willing to share my real experience and insights with my friends. This kind of life is what I yearn for, and it is also the most beautiful thing I think. I believe that authenticity and sincerity are my most valuable assets. I hope that my circle of friends can also become such a real, warm and beautiful garden.
Therefore, in the days that followed, I no longer regarded the circle of friends as a stage to show off, but as a platform for real communication. I share the bits and pieces of my life, and I also appreciate the life insights of my friends. Life is gradually becoming more real and beautiful.
One day, I received a private message from a friend, she said: "Your recent post on Moments is very beautiful, I was very touched to read it, thank you for sharing." ”
My heart is warm, because my changes and intentions have affected my friends. Gradually, I felt fulfilled and happy in my heart.
One weekend, I went to the countryside again, this time on a solo trip. Being in the midst of a peaceful idyll, I felt a sense of inner peace and comfort. I took a picture of this tranquil beauty, and added my sincere feelings, and posted it in the circle of friends. Soon, friends left comments.
"It's a beautiful picture, it's so refreshing. ”
"The words you wrote are really touching and resonate with me. ”
"This kind of life is really beautiful, thank you for sharing. ”
Every comment from my friends gave me praise and encouragement. I know that I am using my truth and perception to influence the hearts and minds of others, and this is the original intention that I will continue to adhere to in the future.
As a result, my life has become more fulfilling and enriching. In my travels, I enjoy feeling and recording the beauty of each time, and no longer pursue show-off and vanity. My circle of friends is also full of sincerity and warmth, and everyone shares the most authentic life and emotions. This change makes me happier and happier.
Now I am more relaxed and authentic, and my life has become better. After retirement, I enjoy vacations, travel, and even more authenticity and warmth. I have learned that authenticity and sincerity are my most valuable assets.
In my circle of friends, there are also more friends who feel life with their hearts, and we are creating such a real, warm and beautiful garden together. I firmly believe that this kind of life and this kind of circle of friends is what I really want.