In many families, conflicts are inevitable, and these conflicts often stem from personal behavior or interactions.
The family is a whole made up of individuals, and when problems arise, we should not only focus on the faults of the other party, but also look at whether we have contributed. Sometimes, we magnify each other's mistakes too much and ignore our own mistakes.
Calm thinking and empathy are effective ways to resolve conflicts, and it can help us avoid many unnecessary quarrels and misunderstandings.
The same is true for conflicts between husband and wife, which can often lead to further aggravation if we exacerbate them too much.
Below, I will share a true story, a case of a couple who divorced because of a small incident.
One day, when the couple didn't go to work, the wife wanted to take a break, so she asked her husband to help with cooking. However, the husband is immersed in the joy of playing games and is reluctant to leave.
The wife began to complain about her hard work, getting up early every day to make breakfast, while the husband was able to sleep a little more every day.
She began to use examples from her surroundings, such as how considerate her friend's husband was and bought a new bag, while her own husband was reluctant to do even a normal chore.
The husband felt aggrieved and thought that his wife did not understand his hard work, and that he was working outside every day, and she only needed to work in front of the computer all day, and felt that he was very hard.
In the midst of such a quarrel, the emotions on both sides became more and more agitated, and finally broke out. They started smashing things, and even verbally became more intense.
A cold war lasted from the afternoon to the evening, and the husband gradually calmed down and decided to go grocery shopping. In this way, he hopes to defuse the conflict, but he does not know what the outcome of this action will be.
When he got back to his house, he saw a scene that broke his heart - his wife came out of the neighbor's house, looking a little embarrassed. When the neighbor saw him, he hurriedly closed the door.
He felt angry and desperate, and this scene seemed to be an explosion of all the contradictions between them. Their relationship is irretrievable.
This story teaches us that conflicts in the family often stem from small things, but can lead to irreparable consequences if we don't handle them properly.
Therefore, we should learn to be more tolerant and understanding in family life, instead of calculating and arguing with each other. Only in this way can we have a truly happy family.
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