After reading Yao Yuling's ending, I felt like a fish in my throat, not vomiting or unhappy
"South to North" has come to an end, and I can't let go of it for a long time after watching the ending, for two reasons, one is Ma Kui's death, and the other is the last meeting between Yao Yuling and Niu Dali.
1. Yao Yuling's ending is down
After reading Yao Yuling's ending, I felt like a fish in my throat, not vomiting or unhappy.
Yao Yuling's ending must be downcast, firstly because she is a family member of a drug dealer, and secondly because her criteria for choosing a mate do not conform to the current mainstream values.
Even if she is not involved in drug trafficking and selling, and does not know anything about drugs, her life will still be turned upside down.
As soon as the family's property is confiscated, she has no source of income, she is old, young and young, all of them depend on her alone, and her life is not easy.
But being downcast doesn't necessarily mean miserable, nor does it mean sloppy, unsophisticated, or undignified.
Judging from Yao Yuling's character, even if she is down, she is also a well-dressed and neat little old lady, how can she not be what she is now.
A person's love for beauty in his bones will not change, even if his family is in distress, decency and thoughtfulness are the minimum standards. Yao Yuling's current appearance is more like what the screenwriter and director deliberately did to reflect her tragic ending.
In fact, in terms of Yao Yuling's personal growth, she Yao Yuling is not only not miserable now, but even more dazzling than she was when she was radiant, because she is not only her own sky, but also can support her son.
Yao Yuling chose Jia Jinlong at the beginning, firstly because she liked it, and secondly because he was rich, she wanted to find a rich man to entrust her life, and she wanted to realize her ideal life through others.
Beauty is a great weapon for Yao Yuling, even if she is forty, she can still make Niu Dali, who has not been seen for a long time, shine.
If it is said that after Jia Jinlong leaves, Yao Yuling wants to continue to find someone to rely on, then she must still be able to find it, but she does not, she chooses to raise her children by herself.
She didn't go incognito, didn't run away from all this, and didn't think about relying on others, she chose to support a family alone. It can be seen that she is no longer the silk flower she was at the beginning.
Second, the meeting between Niu Dali and Yao Yuling
Many people say that Niu Dali and Yao Yuling's meeting this time is a diaphragm person, but in fact, Niu Dali and Yao Yuling have the need to meet, and the real diaphragm is not this meeting, but the scene and comparison of the meeting.
1. Relieve each other
Niu Dali always felt that Yao Yuling didn't choose him because he had no money, he always felt that Yao Yuling was a material person, and he thought that as long as he was rich enough, Yao Yuling would return to him.
But Niu Dali didn't expect that Yao Yuling would pull her children to grow up alone, sell skewers alone to support her family, and she never thought of going to him for help when her life was so difficult, nor did she think of going back to him.
Looking at the child she had worked so hard to raise, Niu Dali was finally relieved. He suddenly understood that Yao Yuling left not just because he was poor, but because she really didn't like him.
He put the ring he bought for Yao Yuling on the barbecue stand, drawing a happy end to their relationship.
2. Scene comparison
On one side is Niu Dali, an old husband and young wife, and on the other hand, Yao Yuling, an aunt with vicissitudes of life, I who you looked down on back then, now I have found a person younger and more beautiful than you in front of you...... Who is satisfied with such a picture?
However, the most disgusting thing is not this scene, but the special reminder of Niu Dali's wife before Niu Dali and Yao Yuling met: famous brand.
An abrupt and conspicuous word - a famous brand, with a sense of showing off and deliberateness, the screenwriter's purpose is to pierce Yao Yuling's heart, at this time, it seems that all the lens language is saying, don't bully the poor boy.
The plot of this scene really made me dream back to those cool novels I had read before, similar to Bai Yueguang who couldn't look down on me, and then I came back and slapped her in the face after I had a successful career.
The screenwriter can arrange for Niu Dali to meet Yao Yuling, but such a slap in the face is really unnecessary, Jia Jinlong is not her lover, and Niu Dali is also not her lover.
Niu Dali likes Yao Yuling's beauty and dressing, but he doesn't have the money to dress her up, and he just wants to change her after he gets her. He just wants to keep the swans as geese.
Yao Yuling and Niu Dali separated not only because Niu Dali had no money, but also because after the run-in, they found that they couldn't run in, so they chose to give up.
Having said that, if it weren't for Yao Yuling's departure, Niu Dali wouldn't want to go out, and he wouldn't have everything now.
Poor couples mourn everything, they rely on moving, accommodating each other, torturing each other, and in the end they will only become a pair of resentful couples......
epilogue
Some people say that Yao Yuling cried after seeing Niu Dali, she must have regretted it, regretted that she didn't choose Niu Dali in the first place, but is that really regret?
Yao Yuling's crying this time is more like a show of weakness when she meets someone close to her, so many years of hardship, suffering, sadness, and predicament have been swallowed by one person, and one person has endured it, and there is nothing to do, but if a person suddenly appears at this time to care and comfort herself, the tears can't be stopped at all.
But fortunately, all sadness is in the past, and all good things are in the future, as actor Jiang Yan commented on the barrage, "There is light in her eyes, life is not panicked", her eyes are full of rush.
The fireworks in her hand are not only her past, but also a sign of her and her son's future, and their future life will be as brilliant and dazzling as fireworks.