My husband gives you 100,000 a month, and he doesn't come home, are you willing?

As a middle-aged girl, what kind of day do you dream of?

Seeing a netizen's comment, I couldn't help laughing:

The husband went out of the house,

With millions of fortunes in hand,

Children can enter prestigious schools,

I laugh in my dreams.

Isn't this a proper winner in life?

I showed this passage to the girls around me, and they sighed:

Just thinking about such a day, I can't help but raise the corners of my mouth.

Haha, it reminds me of another joke:

If your husband gives you 100,000 yuan a month, but he doesn't come home and doesn't let you take care of his business, are you willing?

The three responses with the highest likes were:

Don't say 100,000, 50,000 can wake up with a smile;

It doesn't matter if you have money or not, as long as your husband doesn't come home;

Let me serve the junior confinement!

Hahaha, if you want me to say, this kind of idea is still too extravagant, and it is too difficult to implement.

Let's talk about something practical and achievable.

 As an ordinary middle-aged girl, the happiness we really want is actually very simple.

And those moments that make us feel comforted, sweet, warm, and beautiful are hidden in the subtleties of life.

Today we are going to talk about the happy moments in trivial life.

Part.1

About the husband

There is a question on Zhihu:

What are some of the moments in your marriage that make you feel particularly happy?

I looked at a lot of answers and found that they all had one thing in common.

@夏了了

Once I woke up in the middle of the night in a daze and found that my husband was covering me with a quilt, carefully helped me tuck the corners of the quilt, and then picked up a blanket and covered my son next to me.

 At that moment, I felt very happy, and my status in my husband's heart never changed because I had children.

 @美美的梦呀

I have a husband who can cook, and I think the best moment in my life is when he is chopping vegetables and cooking in the kitchen, and I move a small bench to sit at the kitchen door, eating snacks and chatting with him.

Listening to the sound of the collision of the cutting board and the kitchen knife, smelling the fragrance of the vegetables into the oil pot, and chatting with him about the shortcomings of the parents, the peace of mind and happiness is really wonderful!

 @豆豆妈咪

When I was pregnant, my feet were swollen so much that my husband massaged my feet every day.

 On the night of giving birth, I tossed and turned in pain in bed and couldn't sleep at all. My husband took my feet in his arms and kept pinching me......

Pinching and pinching and accidentally falling asleep, as soon as I moved, he suddenly woke up and hurriedly comforted me: "Don't be afraid, daughter-in-law, I'm here!"

 Then continue to pinch.

 At that moment, I felt very happy.

 @悦悦要开心

My happiest moment was when he kissed me and my two babies before going to work every day, and when he came back late from overtime, he would gently kiss us while we were sleeping!

 @小仙女

After ten years of marriage, I still have a very sense of ceremony, whether it is my birthday or various festivals, I will take the initiative to take me to a big meal, sometimes give flowers, sometimes give other gifts.

My husband also likes to hide gifts, and once he bought me a necklace at a discount on Double 11, and quietly hid it in the closet to prepare for my birthday.

I accidentally found it when I was cleaning up my closet, and I was so happy that I put it on immediately.

Later, he changed the location of the gifts, often placing them under the mattress, and I found them many times, but I didn't debunk them again.

This romance and surprise always makes me feel happy and sweet.

 @咚咚咚

After having children, the happiest thing for me is that on weekends, my husband took the initiative to let me go shopping with my girlfriend, and he was at home with the children.

@丸子麻麻

Seeing that I was not sleeping well, he offered to ask him to take the child to sleep at night and let me go to another room to have a good rest.

For me, this thoughtfulness is worth a million words I love you.

@土豆和番茄 

My mother-in-law is a very controlling person, and she is involved in everything from naming my children to arranging the clothes in my closet.

Fortunately, my husband is on my side and respects my decision every time, which makes me feel very warm and happy.

No, out of so many answers, none of them were about money.

What can really make us feel happy and satisfied is not how much money our husband can make, but his understanding, thoughtfulness, responsibility and love.

Part.2

About the children

What is the most gratifying and happiest moment for you after having a child?

The mothers' answers, each of which can make people's hearts warm.

@晶晶妈咪

I want my child to be a well-bred person, and what I am most proud of is that my son has been very polite and generous to everyone around him since he was two years old.

 Seeing that children are often praised for their quality and responsibility, I am very proud and relieved to be a mother.

@霹雳无敌 

My daughter is a very caring little padded jacket, and since she was in kindergarten, every time there is something delicious at school, she will secretly bring it back to me.

 Sometimes it's a piece of sugar, sometimes it's a cookie.

 No matter what it was, the old mother was very touched in her heart.

 @漫漫迷途 

Once, when I had a quarrel with my husband and was angry and crying, my 3-year-old son saw it and asked me vigorously: "Mom, what's wrong with you? Why are you crying? Who bullied you? I'll help you get angry......

 I choked up and couldn't speak, so my son quickly ran to the side to help me get a tissue and wipe my tears.

 Seriously, at that moment, no matter how big the grievances in my heart were, they all disappeared.

Seeing the child so sensible, I am really very gratified, satisfied, and happy.

@橙橙爱叨叨

My happiest moments are when I see my child's bright smiling face and watch her fall asleep peacefully.

I don't ask her to grow up well, as long as she is healthy and safe, it is my greatest happiness and satisfaction.

@朝阳一枝花 

My son was very nervous when he was sick, and he touched my forehead for a while, took a thermometer for me to measure, and asked me if I wanted to drink water......

 Once I accidentally cut my finger while chopping vegetables, my son cried in distress when he saw it, and asked his father to call an ambulance to take me to the hospital.

My son's love for his mother is my greatest source of happiness.

@球球爱洗澡

The happiest thing I get home from work every day is that as soon as I open the door, my daughter will happily run towards me, while helping me with my slippers, while hugging my thighs and saying, "Mom, the baby misses you so much, the baby loves you......"

This feeling of being needed to be confessed is really beautiful and happy.

Raising children is a long and arduous road, and in the process, we will inevitably feel tired and broken.

But there are also many moments of happiness and joy that have never been seen before.

Part.3

Some netizens summarized the 7 criteria for the happiness of contemporary people:

There is a home in the countryside;

There are suites in town;

Have a car you like;

Although he is not rich, he has savings after daily expenses;

Although the parents are getting older, they are in good health;

The partner is not necessarily good-looking, but he is very family-oriented;

Children are not necessarily successful, but they are very filial.

For mothers, we don't want to fully meet these 7 criteria, as long as the husband is strong, the children are healthy, the parents are safe, the economy is not to mention the family wealth, as long as there is surplus, it can already be called happy.

Everyone's life is full of different difficulties, and your husband may sometimes be too lazy and can make you angry;

Your child may sometimes be too naughty, which can make your blood pressure soar every minute;

The work may not go well and can overwhelm you.

Everyone's life is a piece of chicken feathers, but we should not always focus on the things that frustrate us, but also remember those moments that make us feel comforted, sweet, warm, and beautiful.

The days are ordinary, the family is happy and healthy, and the life is full of small touches and small blessings, which is the truest appearance of happiness.

Girls,

Leave a message to tell me,

What are some of the moments in your life that make you feel happy?