Hello, I'm Xiaoqian~
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In life, some people like to post on the circle of friends and give a lot of time to their mobile phones. And some people have already quit the circle of friends and rarely post content in the circle of friends.
However, few people reflect on what the mobile phone has given them and whether it is worth paying so much precious time.
Most of those who have long quit the "circle of friends" have lived like this.
01. I encountered the storms in my life and had a bad time
Aunt Li, one of my mother's best friends, often posts some pictures and videos on Moments.
Go hiking today, go on a spring outing tomorrow, and the smile on your face is as bright as the sun.
However, for a long time, I didn't see her message in the circle of friends. Occasionally talking to my mother, in exchange for her long sigh.
It turned out to be Aunt Li's wife, who had a car accident, and the person disappeared before she was sent to the hospital.
She can't accept this blow, let alone post on Moments, everyone is like a serious illness, depressed, and has no contact with anyone.
Romain Rolland said: "Life is an endless, unrestless, merciless battle, and whoever wants to be worthy of being called a human being must always fight against the invisible enemy." ”
Posting on Moments also requires a good mood.
A person who suddenly stops sharing his life is likely to have encountered a major change.
The spirit was hit hard and I couldn't recover from the low mood.
People always have happy things to have the desire to share.
02. The heart is very strong and I have learned to reconcile with myself
Si Qing in "The Most Cannibal Fireworks" often brushes the circle of friends, and when he sees others showing luxury cars and bags, he will be very envious.
After making money, buying new clothes and new bags, it will also be posted in the circle of friends.
Everyone compares with each other, and it has become a kind of atmosphere.
She fell into the cycle of comparison, thinking that if she packaged herself in a luxurious and gorgeous manner, she would be able to compete for breath.
When she and Jingchen were together, she gradually saw the truest appearance of life and gradually recognized herself.
"Fighting for wealth" with others in the circle of friends, comparing clothes, boyfriends, cars and houses, in addition to satisfying a little vanity, other times are surrounded by exhaustion and emptiness.
Sometimes, a table of steaming home-cooked food posted in the circle of friends, a boyfriend who knows cold and hot, and a simple but full of fireworks are the real spiritual destination.
People who quit the circle of friends no longer step into the hypocritical and pompous world of the circle of friends.
Haruki Murakami said, "Perhaps, living up to the time is the best effort, and hard work is the best self." ”
Inside, on the contrary, it will be more peaceful and powerful, and it has already learned to reconcile with itself. Since then, I will no longer be blinded by the outside world and forget my original intention.
03. Keep your happiness and no longer live in the circle of friends
Lin Qingxuan said: "After sweeping today's fallen leaves today, tomorrow's leaves will not fall today, don't worry about tomorrow, and work hard to live at this moment today." ”
People who quit the circle of friends, who are sober in their hearts and know what they want to do, will quit their mobile phones.
For life, he knows that he has nothing to show off.
Whether life is good or bad doesn't have much to do with other people.
So, don't want to share anything more. Knowing what you love, others may find it worthless. Someone cheers you on, but it's just a polite perfunctory.
Life is very short, it's too late to enjoy life and do what you like, and I don't want to waste time on posting on Moments.
I don't want to send out my privacy so that everyone can judge it and take the time to respond.
Whether you are happy or not, there are a few people who will really care.
People who don't post on Moments have a calm heart in their hearts. Be able to protect every inch of time and do things that make you happy.
Living the life you are living well is the wise choice.
04. Conclusion
Everyone has their own life.
Don't post something false in your circle of friends to satisfy your vanity. No matter what you post, in fact, others are just passing by and not paying attention.
It is more meaningful to manage the real life, let the faces of your loved ones show a heartfelt smile, and sincerely manage the relationship between friends.
Take the road under your feet, don't care too much about others, forget about the circle of friends, and face your true self.
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Xiao Qian: A writer who loves words, loves words, and codes words for ten years. In his spare time, he will meet friends with words. For the rest of my life, with you by my side, life will be steaming.