A son-in-law and a half-son
All sons-in-law should be treated fairly
Rich and poor
Don't do things that are rich in the mountains and have distant relatives, and poor in the downtown where no one asks
Recently, during the Spring Festival in Shangqiu, Henan, the two sons-in-law of an old man accompanied his daughter-in-law back to her parents' house.
Originally, the eldest son-in-law came to buy vegetables and cook as the head chef first, but when he made a table of dishes, the father-in-law found that there was no eggplant on the table that the second son-in-law loved to eat, and the father-in-law was angry and asked the eldest son-in-law to buy it.
The eldest son-in-law was depressed for a while and quarreled with the old father-in-law, the old man felt that he was an elder and he had a reason, and the eldest son-in-law was angry and overturned a table of dishes to the ground.
In the face of such a temper among the elders, especially the father-in-law, it is conceivable how much conflict it will be, and the eldest son-in-law will become the target of public criticism. There are physical conflicts, and finally a big fight, forming a lose-lose situation.
There is no winner and no outcome in the fight between relatives, and perhaps from now on, the two sides will no longer interact with each other and will be okay with each other.
The fuse of the incident was actually just an eggplant dish, and I think it was prejudice and arrogance in the depths. The old man can't have a bowl of water, and prefers the second son-in-law, who is said to be a capable person, so he can naturally please the old man more.
But the preference of the old man is very happy, he does not hide it at all, he relies on the old and sells the old, thinking that he is an elder and completely ignores the feelings of the juniors, which makes anyone feel uncomfortable. In the eyes of ordinary people, the two sons-in-law have their own advantages and disadvantages, so they only fancy one to despise the other, and the old man is estimated to be "snobbish" and of low quality.
At the same time, the eldest son-in-law suddenly got angry and lifted the table, his father-in-law is an elder, and the elders can explain the problem to him if they are at fault, if they can't communicate, they will disappear directly, anyway, they can't see it, and they don't bother.
Since ancient times, it is a terrible faux pas, in the countryside more attention to such a thing, the son-in-law faced the old Taishan directly lifted the table, not to mention whether he was angry, where to put the face of the old man, spread out in the countryside, the old man is estimated to have no face to see people.
Afterwards, according to an informed neighbor, the eldest son-in-law also knew what the second son-in-law liked to eat, but if he didn't buy or do it, he must have lost his temper. The eldest son-in-law may have done it on purpose.
The informed neighbor revealed that not long after the conflict, the eldest son-in-law filed for divorce with his daughter-in-law, and to tell the truth, the eldest daughter had a certain responsibility for such a situation. It is said that the son is the bridge of communication between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law, and the daughter is also the intermediary between the son-in-law and the father-in-law. The daughter has to defend her husband in front of her father-in-law, why should such a conflict lead directly to the result of divorce.
Netizens said that one is held in the sky and the other is stepped on the ground, and it is strange that the family is harmonious! The son-in-law is a brother, and the old father-in-law can't do it, why should the eldest son-in-law serve the second son-in-law.
Some netizens said that who marries his daughter depends on whether he has economic strength. The elderly are immoral, the children are out of harmony, and the family is not harmonious.
Even netizens support the eldest son-in-law's approach, why do you cook at your father-in-law's house, you can't wait, you have your own way, don't bother with your father-in-law.
Ending: Both sides have mistakes, and neither has shown a heart-to-heart attitude towards the other. One is eccentric, the other is disrespectful to elders. The biggest problem is that the daughter (daughter-in-law) does not maintain the relationship between the two parties at all. The second son-in-law who didn't speak out was the culprit!#我来唠家常#