Life has been recorded a lot, but it seems that it is all vague, and the most real thing is only age. So I say this because no matter how much you disguise it, the age is engraved on your face and manifested in your posture.
However, this is only on the surface, and on the other hand, do you feel that people will change with age, and they will become indifferent to everything, and what was once will be the past, and even the joys and sorrows will be lighted up. Some people think that this is a relaxed mentality, but I don't think so.
The years are not just a simple superposition of numbers, but after the restoration of the world again and again, and continuous self-improvement, you have today, so calm and calm.
Therefore, despite being old, we can still seriously tell ourselves that being old is not terrible, and there is no need to be pitied, and we can use the accumulation of life to seriously carve ourselves, so that the old self can release the temperament and luster that only the old can have.
Just now, the younger brother and his wife came, and there was an indispensable common saying, although he was a person who never wanted to talk too much. It can be seen that he also tries his best to say some New Year's words and ask some vulgar trivial things. I answered openly, but the focus of our conversation was still on age, and my brother said to deal with things around me as soon as possible and try to make myself live a life of nothing to do. I'm not underestimating him, I guess, my brother can't do it. Therefore, he said, and I listened.
My younger brother and I are next to each other, four years younger than me, in fact, we are both post-50s. However, he is a fifty-tail, and it is true that he is not a young man anymore.
After sitting for a while, he and his younger siblings hurried back under the pretext that there was still important business to be done. I didn't keep it, and I didn't feel a sense of loss, even though I was still in the middle of the year, despite the brotherly complex, despite the reluctance...... However, there are many things in the world that cannot be explained, especially those of us who are born in the 50s, especially the small families we all have, especially when we are relatives who understand each other.
After they left, I fell into deep thought, imagining, reminiscing, I don't know what's wrong, I'm still a little entangled in my age. At the age of seventy, how should I live? (ask yourself), this is something that I have thought about a thousand times, and I really can't find a conclusion, and it's useless. For example, who will live how old they will be, they will not know, what will happen to their old body, and they can't predict it, and so on......
Therefore, in my opinion, it is better not to ask about the depth of life in later life, and not to explore the truth, so it is better to say that you can only live with a good attitude and go with the flow.
All in all, what I want to say is that in today's age, although the things in the world have made us understand a lot, no one dares to speak lightly about the old age......
When I stop writing, I want to write to you and me, who are old:
We must live well, be kind to ourselves, and use the wisdom of life to cherish the rest of our lives.
Written at the end, this is the first manuscript after the New Year, and I don't want to say who it is for, so the title of the writing is "Broken Thoughts of the Year"
On the sixth day of the first month of the first month of the year of Jiachen