This Spring Festival is of great significance to Cai Lei and Duan Rui. Cai Lei's body has deteriorated severely, and no one knows what the situation will be next year.
But they didn't make any special arrangements. On Chinese New Year's Eve, the family simply had a reunion dinner. After dinner, Cai Lei returned to the office and worked until 11 o'clock. That's his norm, racing against time to promote ALS drug development.
On the second day of the Lunar New Year, Duan Rui took his son on a trip. She also hesitated, but finally chose to travel. Because the child is growing up too fast, she is busy with work on weekdays, and it is rare for her to have time to spend with the child.
When you go out, you have to have fun. She took her son to watch fireworks and animals, and was pleasantly surprised to find that the alpaca's eye holes turned out to be square. At that moment, she should have laughed happily.
And Cai Lei, who can no longer take care of himself, is still busy in the office.
On Valentine's Day, he was asked if he was ashamed of his wife. He said that he was ashamed of all his family members, he was sick, paralyzed, unable to take care of his mother and father-in-law, unable to accompany his wife to live a normal life, and unable to play with his children, he felt ashamed.
But there's no point in dwelling on feelings of guilt, guilt, and sadness. He still wants to fight aggressively, and maybe his success is the best way to be worthy of everyone.
Their home, because of ALS, has endured too much suffering, and too many people feel sorry for them. However, judging from the way the New Year is celebrated, the couple is not emotionally exhausted. Live your life as you should. Cai Lei was busy with work, and Duan Rui took on the responsibilities of the family for him, accompanying the children, and taking care of himself and both parents.
Cai Lei is very good, but Duan Rui is also very good. Even in the light of the elite of the husband, it is not inferior. It is because of her that the family can still maintain normal operation in this difficult period, and let the child's childhood have laughter. They never thought that they should always be "bitter and hateful".
Duan Rui's body can actually see the most direct consequences of raising a rich daughter.
Of course, this kind of enrichment does not make her spend money, but spiritual enrichment, teaching her to have a strong heart and rich knowledge. No matter what kind of predicament you face, you can have confidence, do not have internal friction, do things calmly, always know what you should do, and try your best to do the best no matter what you do.
When questioned, you always have your own confidence
Duan Rui's background is actually very wealthy, and his parents are big entrepreneurs in Beijing. She is an only child, and since she was born, she has money that she can't spend for a lifetime, and even the money for the child is enough.
But she didn't do nothing, but with the support of her family, she has been improving her inner knowledge and cultivation. She likes to read, and her grades are also very good, all the way to Peking University graduate school. She majored in pharmacy in college, and studied for 6 years, and those boring medical knowledge are as interesting to her as history.
After graduating from university, she changed careers to work in overseas companies in Shanghai, often traveling and working under pressure, but she tried her best to do her best, and was once responsible for the product business in 8 provinces.
She has a very strong learning ability, and later started her own business, and spent more than 2 years to complete the certified public accountant and certified tax agent exams, and became a partner of an accounting firm, with an annual salary of millions.
However, these brilliant experiences are obviously not worth mentioning in front of Cai Lei, the former vice president of JD.com. So, a reporter asked with bad intentions: "You married him, not for his money?"
Duan Rui could smile and reply: "I don't need it, because I'm fine." ”
Yes, she has enough confidence to face these doubts, and these confidence comes from herself. Her experience, her knowledge, and her ability to learn all determine that she doesn't have to bow her head for anyone. The wealth of the family gave her a strong inner body that was strong enough to resist all doubts.
Don't be introverted, and do the right thing firmly
In his short life span of more than 20 years, Duan Rui has crossed many professions, from pharmacy to business to accountant. The unconditional trust and support of her parents gave her the cost of trial and error.
After Cai Lei suffered from ALS, Duan Rui crossed fields to the live broadcast industry, and at the same time returned to the drug research and development profession. No matter what she does, she can do it well. Her experience is enough to prove the saying: excellent people, excellent in everything.
And why is that? Because she never has internal friction, she rises to the challenge when she encounters problems, and she doesn't consume herself too much on unnecessary emotions. If she learns that her husband is ill, she washes her face with tears every day and regrets getting married back then, how can she join hands with Cai Lei to fight against ALS, the "first of the five terminal diseases"?
This is actually the characteristics that she has been educated since childhood, with a strong heart and stable emotions, but not too much to consume herself and her family.
Calm and confident, with a clear understanding of yourself
Duan Rui has always had a clear understanding of himself, and he doesn't care about other people's evaluations and labels.
Some people say that she is a "good wife and mother" or something, and she only laughs it off. She knew she wasn't, she was just seriously doing what she thought was right.
Some people questioned that they made money through live streaming. She did not stop, but donated 100 million yuan to ALS research with her husband.
Some people think that it is very difficult for her to marry Cai Lei. She said no, she was because her husband had encountered the most meaningful thing in his life.
Fate is a random card, and there are many things in life that you can't control. And the spiritual enrichment from childhood will make people confident, calm and strong.
Until now, Duan Rui is still working hard for what she believes in, she said: "I'm doing my best, and please don't grieve for me." ”