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There are three kinds of etiquette, no matter how embarrassed you are, try not to follow these three kinds of etiquette, otherwise you will be ashamed!
In interpersonal interactions, courtesy is a way to show friendship and respect. However, there are some situations where you can't bow even if you feel embarrassed, because these three kinds of etiquette may cause you to be embarrassed.
First, don't follow the etiquette that doesn't know the details. In the process of dating, some people may learn about the other party's situation through some channels, such as family background, occupation, etc., but they do not understand the other party's true character and way of behaving in the world.
In this case, if you blindly follow the salute, it may make the other person feel that your behavior is too rash and even make the other person feel uncomfortable. Therefore, before giving a gift, you should try to understand the other person's background and personality, as well as your interaction experience, and avoid making inappropriate actions because you don't know the details.
Second, do not follow the non-required gifts. In interpersonal interactions, some people may make some non-trivial demands, such as asking you to help complete a job, buy an expensive item, etc.
If you meet these requirements in order to please the other person, the act of courtesy may make the other person feel that you are too easy to bully, and may even take advantage of your weaknesses to deceive you. Therefore, one should carefully consider one's abilities and scope before bowing, and do not act beyond one's ability in pursuit of superficial harmony.
Third, don't be courteous and insincere. Some people may say some insincere words when they give gifts, such as "Wishing you prosperity", "Happy birthday", etc. These words, while they sound auspicious, don't actually mean anything.
If you just say some polite words when you give a salute, but do not express your true feelings and emotions, then the meaning of the gift is greatly reduced. Therefore, when giving gifts, you should express your true feelings and emotions as much as possible, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and care.
Gifting is a way to show friendship and respect, but you should pay attention to the above three situations when gifting to avoid embarrassing yourself because of inappropriate behavior. At the same time, you should also focus on sincerity and trust in interpersonal communication, and try to understand the other person's background and personality as much as possible, as well as the experience of interaction between you, so that your behavior is more appropriate and meaningful.