Yesterday at noon, my cousin came to my house as a guest, and during the banquet, he pushed the cup and changed the lamp, and talked and laughed. When it comes to the fact that it is difficult for men to marry today, and that it is difficult for older men over the age of 30 to marry daughters-in-law in my hometown, there are about 200 or more of them, which sparked a heated discussion among the guests.
I was incredulous at the time, thinking it was my cousin's eavesdropping. He said that he learned the number when he went to his hometown to say goodbye to the grave a year ago and chatted with the team leader in the village, and this number is said to be the number of people in the village through statistics.
As the number of singles in rural areas continues to increase, whether or not they can marry a wife, have children, and start a family is not only a family issue, but also a serious social issue. In an ordinary family, a boy is an ordinary worker, and if he wants to start a family before the age of 30, it is difficult, even more difficult, and it is difficult to go to the sky.
Carefully calculating the current cost of marriage, many ordinary families are helpless and sighing. Now a girl's criteria for choosing a boyfriend are probably as follows: first, there must be a wedding house in the county, about 800,000, which is not only to enjoy the two-person world of the newlywed honeymoon, but also to avoid the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future. More importantly, in order for the children to receive a better education in the county later, so that the children will not lose at the starting line. In addition, 100,000 yuan in cash, 200,000 yuan in bride price, about 200,000 yuan in wedding car, hardware and wedding dresses, as well as tobacco, alcohol, fish and meat for each ceremony and various other expenses, the lowest is about 100,000, and the total is estimated at 600,000. The cost of marriage and the wedding house add up to 1.4 million, which is unattainable for many ordinary families.
It is incredible that some boys from wealthy families, who have houses, cars, savings and careers, are over 35 years old, and they are still the fifth king of diamonds, and they don't talk about marriage. His parents were in a hurry to turn gray hair, but he was at ease. Is it caused by the fact that there are more men than there are fewer women? Yes and no. Today's leftover women are not a few, and boys who have no material foundation and no stable income can't get into her eyes. She does not wronged herself and does not compromise others. Without the appearance of Prince Charming and the rich second generation in her heart, she would rather be single.
Affected by the economic environment, the unemployed people have spread to all walks of life, leaving them with nowhere to go. Many older young people do not see their hopes, and they do not want to work 12-hour day and night shifts with that low wage. So he was negative and misanthropic, and simply lay down at home to gnaw at the old, playing mobile phones day and night, and thought that this was the life he wanted. In the face of their son's unmotivated behavior, parents really hate iron and steel, so they have to go with him.
The number of singles continues to increase, not only in rural areas, but also in urban areas. This has led to the extinction of many families, the decline in the birth rate, the decline in the number of young people, the growth of the elderly who are lonely and widowed, and the shrinkage of the national economy.
How to solve this unsolvable problem of this equation is for government experts to answer in detail.
