#冬日生活打卡季 ##天南地北大拜年#老人言是老年人长期生活的经验积累 is the crystallization of the wisdom of life. Most of the old people's dialects have been handed down in the simplest, direct, popular and simple language way, covering all aspects of life and everything in life. Therefore, everyone must listen to the old man's words. Today, the author has prepared a few words for friends about family style and family teaching, all of which are warnings and advice, and I am willing to share and encourage you together.
"The family style is unhealthy and the family is not connected with the disaster. "The mainland is an ancient and civilized traditional country, and since ancient times, it has attached great importance to family customs and family precepts, and passed on the fine culture in the tradition from generation to generation, so that the family can be happy and prosperous. Because if the family style is not good, there will be undesirable offspring in the family or family, and disasters will follow. And if a family is not harmonious, and there is no peace all day long, disasters will continue one after another.
"Spoiling the offspring has boundless regrets, and people don't go far on the oblique road. "A family, as parents, must not be overly pampered and doted on by its children and their offspring, otherwise it will not be love, but harm. Because children are overly spoiled by their parents, they will act willfully, be selfish and arrogant, and learn bad but not good, so that they will not only become talents, but also adults, and eventually even become useless and troublesome "waste people", which is regrettable. And pampered children are easy to walk on the slope, if that's the case, this life's life will be ruined.
"The two words of settling down are forbearance and letting, and the words of prosperity are diligence and thrift. This is an ancient precept, and it is also a well-known family motto. If you want your family to live a peaceful and peaceful life, then you must be calm, don't be impulsive, endure if you can, and let it go. Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky. And if you want your family to prosper, you need to work hard and be thrifty. Only by hard work can you get rich and make a fortune, and only by suffering hardship can you become a superior person. Diligence and thrift, saving everywhere and not wasting, in order to achieve a long stream of water and happiness.
"The word heirloom is cultivated and read, and the word prostitute and gamble are lost. This is also a well-known family motto. The ancients said that farming is fundamental, and poetry and books are passed down from home to family. From ancient times to the present, it is very important to attach importance to agriculture and reading and studying. If you want to have a full stomach, you must do a good job in farming, and if you want to have a way out in life, you must study, so that you can better pass on the family. And the ruined family action is nothing more than prostitution and gambling, once contaminated with such bad habits and behaviors, even if there are thousands of furniture, it will be completely ruined.
"The habitual son must be like a murderer, and the family and the family can prosper. "In family education, the most taboo thing is to pamper your children. Once the children are spoiled, it is very likely that the children will go down the crooked path, so that they will be idle, do not do their jobs, or be a "second-rate son" or "loser". Therefore, spoiling children excessively is harming them. Family harmony is the key to prosperity. A family, a family living in harmony, harmony and coordination, love each other, all members can respect and understand each other, everyone works together, then the whole family will be happy, prosperous, prosperous. What do you think?
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