Text/Flying Fish
In this life, people come and go, and they will meet many people.
Some people have been together for a long time in our lives, but they have left because of some things, and since then they have been less and less connected, or even have broken contact.
Some people used to be neighbors, but after they moved, they didn't talk to each other anymore.
Some people used to be classmates, but after graduation, they also went their separate ways.
Some people used to be colleagues, but after they resigned, there was no news.
Some people used to be friends, but because of different choices, they also parted ways.
In life, there are always some people who come, there are always people who will leave, and there are also people who suddenly contact you again after being disconnected for a long time, maybe a little moved, or maybe surprised.
In fact, most people's feeling now is that when someone who is very disconnected suddenly contacts them, they feel strange, they feel that they are frightened, not surprised.
In the face of people who have been disconnected for a long time, and suddenly contact themselves again, be a little more rational and sober, you know, they are looking for you, generally these three purposes.
1. I want to reconnect with you and be friends again.
In life, it is not excluded that some people will recall you in hindsight, thinking that this person is actually very good, but they haven't contacted you for a long time, and they want to get to know you again, and want to be friends with you again, so they will take the initiative to contact you/
Of course, maybe when you received a call or message from the other party, you were actually surprised, and even thought that the other party suddenly contacted you, would you ask yourself to borrow money?
But after some communication, the other party did not mean to borrow money, but simply wanted to contact himself, because he was thinking too much.
You will also think about what kind of person the other person was before, feel that the other party is not bad, and the relationship between the two people was also very good before, but for some reason there is no contact, and you begin to reflect on yourself.
It's actually not bad to be able to find a friend worth dating in your life, maybe it's fate, people who are destined will meet each other when you go around.
Second, I am looking for you for something and want you to help.
Maybe when a person really encounters a big difficulty, he has no choice, he has asked some friends and relatives around him have borrowed money, but it is still not enough, it may be because he urgently needs money to treat his family, maybe he will call someone to borrow money according to the address book.
In fact, the person who borrowed money is also very tormented and helpless in his heart, and if it weren't for the difficulty, he wouldn't bother those who haven't been in touch for a long time.
When you received his call, the helplessness and sadness in his tone could tell that he was desperate and had no choice, so he mustered up the courage to ask if you had any money.
In fact, most people are like this, who will ask someone to borrow money if they have nothing to do? It is because they have a big event, their savings have been spent, and they urgently need life-saving money, so they will bow their heads and go to contact?
If you meet such a person who has not contacted you for a long time, and the first contact is to borrow money, you are not in a hurry to answer, give yourself a little time, after understanding the real situation, it is really the other party who has encountered difficulties, and the other party's personality can be trusted, then you can help, and you can get by.
3. Uneasy and kind, wanting to take advantage of you and deceive you.
Now there are many people who have been deceived, all because they believe too much that the other party is their friend, classmate, or someone they knew before.
In fact, some people haven't contacted you for a long time, and they suddenly contact you, maybe they know where you are in high school, and they want to ask you to help introduce some contacts and help you go through the back door.
Or maybe they know that you are too honest and kind, so they want to try their luck at you, they have prepared a lot of means, one by one, they want to cheat you out of your money, use your honesty and kindness, let you invest, or help others, or lend money to others.
Once you meet a scammer and you are deceived, then many times, it is difficult to get it back.
The world is complicated, people's hearts are unpredictable, don't be easily taken advantage of, you have to pay attention to yourself, don't easily believe people who have been disconnected for a long time, because time is changing, people's hearts are also changing, I haven't seen you for a long time, maybe the other party has changed a lot, not the person you know.
Be a little wary of sudden contacts.
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