Halfway through the Spring Festival in the Year of the Dragon, everyone is still immersed in the joy of reuniting with their loved ones. However, many netizens who have returned to their hometowns said: Now the changes in rural areas are very great, not only the living environment and economic conditions of rural families have been greatly improved. Moreover, there are "4 strange phenomena" in rural areas, these phenomena are almost present in every village, let's take a look:
First, there are more and more "unmarried people" in rural areas
In the past few years, the "unmarried" people in rural areas were mainly men who were not financially well-off, and they could not afford the high bride price and could not afford to buy commercial housing in nearby cities. Nowadays, the range of "unmarried people" in rural areas is expanding, including female singles and men from economically advantaged families.
This is mainly due to the fact that many people feel that they are comfortable living a single life, and there is no need to get married and have children, which brings heavy pressure to themselves. In addition, some wealthy families in rural areas lack confidence in marriage, and they are worried that within a few days of marriage, the other party will divorce, and the result is that both people and money are empty, so it is better to choose not to get married.
Second, the divorce rate in rural areas is getting higher and higher
Divorce rates are now getting higher in rural areas. There are two main reasons: one is that in the past, when people divorced in rural areas, there would always be people pointing fingers and making irresponsible remarks behind their backs. And now the minds of rural residents are becoming more and more open-minded, they only take care of their own affairs, and when they see other people's families divorced, basically no one cares.
The other is that "flash marriages" are popular in rural areas, that is, young men and women get married quickly as soon as they meet a few times and feel that they are suitable for each other. but ignore the establishment of each other's emotional foundation, as well as factors such as personality and life running-in. Such a marital state is not strong and prone to problems.
Third, there are more and more petite wives in rural areas
Nowadays, there are more and more small wives in rural areas. The so-called little wife mainly refers to being idle at home all day, neither doing housework nor working in the field. Usually the living expenses are supported by the husband's family. In fact, it is not surprising that there are more and more small wives in rural areas, mainly because it is not easy for a rural male family to marry a daughter-in-law.
In this case, the father-in-law and mother-in-law naturally did not dare to offend the new daughter-in-law, so they could only work hard and save the money to support the little wife. At the same time, because they were worried that the little wife would be seduced away by people outside, the parents-in-law did not dare to let the little wife go to work in a nearby village-run factory. Therefore, it is not surprising that there are more and more petite wives in rural areas.
Fourth, the phenomenon of marrying a second-married woman is very common
In the past, rural people liked to marry "first-married girls" and were reluctant to marry "second-married girls". However, the phenomenon of marrying a "second-married girl" is very common now, which is also a helpless choice for rural boys: on the one hand, the marriage requirements for second-married women are relatively low. The marriage requirements of the "first-married girl" are getting higher and higher, in addition to asking for hundreds of thousands of bride money, they also need to have a house and a car in the nearby city. The marriage requirements for second-married women are low, and many rural young men can only marry second-married women in order to reduce the cost of marriage.
On the other hand, after all, the second-married woman has experienced an unhappy marriage before, and she will cherish her new marriage. At the same time, second-married women are more reasonable in dealing with others, and their life after marriage is easier to communicate, and their marriage can be relatively stable after marrying a second-married woman.
A few years ago, the problem of "difficulty in marrying a wife" appeared in the rural areas of the country. And now the problem of "difficulty in marrying a wife" has not improved, but it has attracted the above four strange phenomena, and these phenomena exist in every village. As a matter of fact, the phenomenon of marrying a second-married woman and the increase in the number of unmarried people is the result of changes in society, and every rural resident has the right to choose freely. However, the divorce rate in rural areas is getting higher and higher, and there are more and more strange phenomena such as small wives in rural areas, that is, bad habits in rural areas, which require the joint efforts of individuals, society, and the government to be effectively alleviated.