Author: Ru Fengjun
Today is the fourth day of the Lunar New Year.
On the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, the three sheep opened Thailand to welcome the god of the stove back to the people.
Legend has it that on this day, the gods will return from the heavenly realm.
The king of the stove is also coming back, so every family will stay at home, prepare rich fruits, burn incense and light candles, in order to welcome the god of the stove and hope that the family will prosper Ding Wang.
In fact, if a family wants to be more auspicious and prosperous, the most important thing is whether there are these four treasures in the family, the sooner you have it, the better luck, see if you have it at home?
1
health
What is the most important thing about a home?
The answer must be health.
The health of the family is the greatest vision of a family.
I've seen a true story:
Both husband and wife are university teachers, and in addition to a fixed salary, some extracurricular income such as writing copyright is also a large amount of savings.
It can be said that the family is quite wealthy, and life is natural and comfortable.
However, one day, the mother-in-law fell ill unexpectedly, which instantly shattered this stable home.
Savings are exhausted, but they are still insufficient, and they are borrowing money everywhere and the foreign debt is piling up.
Even so, the mother-in-law left.
A good home, there is no longer the original laughter, and some are only depressed and bored with debts.
At home, a person's health is the happiness of a family.
Liu Guoen, a professor at Peking University, once found in a survey that the key factors affecting the accumulation of wealth are not the environment, nobles, and luck, but physical health.
An illness can easily make a family full of holes.
Only when the family is healthy can we keep the wealth of the family, and only when the family is healthy can we stabilize the mood of the family.
The philosopher Moore said, "You go all over the world and don't find what you need, but when you come home you find it." ”
The most precious blessing in this world is that the child is healthy and the family is safe. The fact that there is no illness and no disaster in the family is the love given by fate.
2
reconciliation
Cao Xueqin wrote such a sentence in "Dream of Red Mansions": "A family cannot be killed if it is killed from outside, and it must first commit suicide from home before it can be defeated." ”
If there is no harmony in the family, the wealth of the family will be empty, and the family will be harmonious, even if you are poor, you can make a fortune.
Luo Yonghao has been on the road to entrepreneurship, and has encountered many ups and downs, and his career has been up and down.
Even in such a situation, he was irritable and never vented his anger at his wife.
And the wife also understands her husband's difficulties very well and takes care of his life everywhere.
Until Luo Yonghao's business went bankrupt and owed 600 million in debt, his wife did not complain and signed directly on the guarantor.
His wife's understanding and support gave Luo Yonghao the confidence to make a comeback.
Sure enough, it didn't take long for Luo Yonghao to pay off all his debts and his career to the next level.
As the saying goes, "Harmony makes money".
Whose life is not a chicken feather, learn to understand a little more in the trivial stumbling, you can make life less troublesome, and have more confidence to resist wind and rain.
Between family members, don't blame small things, carry big things together, tolerate and live in harmony with each other, is the best feng shui for a family.
The so-called happiness is father and son, brotherhood, husband and wife.
With strength and rain together, life can naturally flourish in a warm and harmonious atmosphere.
3
industrious
As the old saying goes: "If you are diligent, you will not be poor for a long time, and if you are lazy, you will not be rich for long." ”
The prosperity of a family must be achieved by diligent cultivation bit by bit.
In the book "Alive", the protagonist Fugui is a negative textbook.
He was originally from a wealthy family, but he spent all day drinking and not wanting to make progress.
A lazy word is a true portrayal of him at this time.
Too lazy to endure hardship, so dependent on parents to support, lazy to suffer, so addicted to gambling.
Until one day, Fugui was cheated out of his money, and all the land and property that his family relied on for survival were lost.
Fugui's father took a breath.
And Fugui's life naturally plummeted because of this, and he became a tragic figure.
Laziness is the beginning of disaster. If there is a lack of diligence, sooner or later the family will decline.
Therefore, Zeng Guofan once said: "Diligence and thrift, there is no lack of prosperity." ”
Zeng Guofan regarded "diligence" as the foundation of the family, and the Zeng family was also passed down from generation to generation because of this family motto, and the family was prosperous.
The rise and fall of the family is the history of the family's continuous struggle.
Under the iteration of the years, the most valuable wealth left to the children and grandchildren is not the visible gold and silver, but the invisible diligence and hard work.
No pain, no gain. In the hard work, endure all the hardships, and will usher in the enviable people.
4
Atsumichi
"Zhou Yi" has clouds: "The terrain is good, and the gentleman carries things with virtue." ”
To be kind is to make good connections, and to be kind to the family is to accumulate good fortune.
A blessed family must have kept its virtues.
When Sheng Hao (yīng) resigned in the Ming Dynasty and returned to his hometown, he met several neighbors who were being escorted.
After going forward to inquire, I found that the neighbors were all going to be imprisoned because they owed their own money and couldn't pay it back.
Sheng Hao was very ashamed, and hurriedly called the housekeeper to let the neighbor go, and burned all the previous IOUs.
Later, one day, a bandit wanted to steal from Sheng Hao's house, and it was the neighbor who found out that something was wrong and hurriedly called for help, which scared the bandit away and was fortunate to escape.
If you want to see whether a family is prosperous, you need to look at the character and virtue of the family.
To cultivate one's own virtue is to cultivate one's own blessed field.
Everything has a cause, and many times, it seems that you have taken care of others, but in fact, you have also helped yourself in the dark.
Here it is: "Moral heirloom, more than ten generations." ”
Be trustworthy, do things uprightly, have good intentions, and cultivate feng shui for a good family in altruism, naturally the family is harmonious and lucky.
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There is a saying handed down in the Qing Dynasty: "The prosperity and decline of family fortune, heaven cannot control its power, people cannot control its power, and they themselves can control it." ”
With the advent of the fourth day of the Lunar New Year, the happiness of the family is greatly expected by the world.
But the fundamental reason that can really make families happy and prosperous is not God, let alone others, but ourselves.
Only when everyone in the family keeps the four things of health, harmony, diligence and kindness, can the life stay away from the downhill road and become richer and richer.
Click to read, I wish the family and friends who read this article: welcome the god of the stove, the house is prosperous!