The man gave a red envelope of 1,200 yuan, and the woman exposed and asked what it meant, netizens: Break up
How many red envelopes should a newcomer give for the first time?
Presumably during the Chinese New Year, every old man who has a "prospective daughter-in-law" is worried, giving too much wallet is not allowed, giving less is afraid of others thinking nonsense, how much red envelopes are given, how much is appropriate, there has never been an accurate standard.
The woman went to her boyfriend's house for the first time to collect red envelopes
On February 12, an IP Yunnan netizen posted on the Internet that she went to the man's house to receive a red envelope, and her copy read, "Family, the first time I went to my boyfriend's house, what does it mean that his parents gave 1200, are you satisfied or dissatisfied".
The number 1200 is not much at the moment, but it is okay to say less, the girl is worried about the idea she should have, but netizens in the comment area, reply directly to break up.
Some netizens said that when my girlfriend came to my house for the first time, she hung my parents on the Internet, what does it mean,
Some netizens said that this session of netizens is so sensitive, and I didn't have anything to say about 1200 for the first time, because my hometown will not give 1200 this number, and will pick some more auspicious numbers.
But more netizens replied to the words that hit the soul, I understand you, you either dislike the lack of money, or you want an attitude, and the prospective daughter-in-law who generally looks at it will not give such a point, does that mean?
A netizen in Sichuan said, sister, I don't know where your boyfriend is from, in our Sichuan area, 12 related numbers are the meaning of the moon and the moon, the red envelope of 1,002 is normal in our local area, the engagement is only given 12,000, and the bride price is only given when you get married, sisters don't be confused by the remarks on the Internet, this red envelope depends on the local situation and family situation, I wish you happiness.
I have to say that this Sichuan netizen's comment is the most rational I have seen in the comment area, how can the red envelope of 1200 be misinterpreted into all kinds of undesirable statements, I said I couldn't understand it very much.
Some netizens said that they broke up immediately if they were less than 10,000, this is the standard for testing a boy, in my opinion, it is nonsense, the elders see the prospective daughter-in-law brought by their son, and it is auspicious to give a red envelope, and it will always be an unsatisfactory result when it is discussed on the Internet by some Jimei.
Thinking about it from another angle, maybe the girl is probably not satisfied with this red envelope, so she will expose it on the Internet, in my opinion, the amount of money is nothing, the key is the man's character and family, and the attitude is by no means reflected in a red envelope.
Also today, a Henan girl posted the first time she went to her boyfriend's house, and the red envelopes given by her parents took out two, and the girl said that she had never seen so much money in her own home, and she felt that his family valued me so much, and I wanted to marry him.
Look, the same money, in the eyes of different people is different attitudes, some people give their nephews and nephews red envelopes for the New Year are 10,000 yuan, some people bother for red envelopes, in Guangdong one yuan red envelope is the norm, ten yuan and twenty yuan is a surprise.
The amount of red envelopes has never been the amount that determines the attitude, 1200 yuan if it shows that the man does not pay attention to it, but some people feel particularly surprised when they get 200 yuan, and some people see the man's parents for the first time, and they don't get a penny, which one is the most important?
In my opinion, it first depends on the family, and then it depends on how the boyfriend tells his parents about you, whether he introduces you as a friend, or a particularly grand marriage partner, which are all references for the man's parents to take red envelopes.
I saw a girl in the comment area saying that his mother gave a thousand yuan and took it away from her boyfriend, saying that you still have the face to take it when the time comes?
Look, there is also this situation, most parents attach great importance to their daughter-in-law, but some young people really don't talk about martial arts, and the boy who is looking for a girlfriend to get a red envelope is undoubtedly yellow hair.
Write at the end
The number of red envelopes has no absolute relationship with whether or not they are valued, girls should consider the boy's character, whether he treats you sincerely, is more important than the size of the red envelope.
It is the old man's mind to pack big and small, but this heart has nothing to do with attitude, it has to do with the introduction of his son and local customs.