Recently, a woman posted a video on the Internet saying that her son was on the first day of the Lunar New Year, because he did not go to his stepmother's house to pay New Year's greetings, and was beaten by her ex-husband, who is also the child's father.
So, what is going on, is it possible to beat up your own children just because of New Year's greetings?
The woman accused her ex-husband of beating her son on the first day of the Lunar New Year for not giving New Year's greetings to his ex-wife
Recently, a woman posted on the Internet, saying that her 18-year-old son was beaten by his biological father on the morning of February 10, that is, the first day of the Lunar New Year, because he was unwilling to go to his stepmother's house to pay New Year's greetings.
From the video released by the woman, it can be seen that the beaten child, the blood from the entire back of the head was beaten, and the whole body was covered with blood, which shows that the child's father is also ruthless enough.
The woman who posted the video said that she called the police at that time, but considering the identity of her ex-husband, in order not to leave a record of the case, she could only choose to settle in the end.
According to the woman, her ex-husband was a teacher at a school in Enshi City, and for the sake of her current position, she directly beat her son like this.
On February 11, the local police also responded to the incident, saying that the child's father had been criticized and educated, and the two sides had reached a settlement.
After the video was exposed, it can be said that netizens really can't understand the father's approach, you must know that the child is 18 years old, he doesn't want to go to his stepmother to pay New Year's greetings, and he shouldn't only find the reason from the child, but more from the stepmother.
The big reversal, the beaten party sent a video response
However, just when people condemned the father and the child's stepmother, the person who was beaten also released a video to explain the incident.
It turned out that the incident was not as expressed in his mother's video, and the cause of the incident was not caused by not going to his stepmother to pay New Year's greetings, the real cause of this incident was because he made his first move and made disrespectful remarks to his father, so it can be said that the whole incident has taken a big turn.
In the video, the boy explained why he wanted to shoot this video, because this matter is fermenting more on the Internet, so it is necessary to explain this matter, the incident is not as his mother said in the video, as for the cause of the incident, the boy mainly said the following:
1. On February 10, that is, the first day of the Lunar New Year, my grandparents and my father discussed going to my stepmother's side, but my grandparents said that they wanted to go to their grandmother's house to pay New Year's greetings, but their father did not agree, so their grandparents walked over directly after eating to pay New Year's greetings.
2. After learning about it, when his father drove his grandparents, he was angry with his grandparents, and he shouldn't listen to his own words and go there to pay New Year's greetings, because the child's parents were a little contradictory when they divorced, so their father was also angry.
3. When he was in the car, the boy thought that his father had done something wrong, and he also said some unpleasant things verbally, and when he got out of the car, the boy also pushed his father and pushed his father to the ground, which was their first conflict.
4. After receiving his grandparents, his father let the boy get into the car, and the boy glanced at his father contemptuously, and said that he didn't get into the car, and his grandparents also protected themselves at that time.
In the end, the boy said that he had suffered a little skin injury, and the father and son had reconciled, and they talked a lot, there was nothing to give New Year's greetings to his stepmother, and he forced himself to go, his father has been very good to him for many years, I hope you don't believe the poisonous chicken soup on the Internet.
Answer questions from netizens
Of course, the boy was also in the comment area, replying to some netizens' questions.
In the boy's video comment area, the boy's top comment reads: I hope this matter will end soon, and I also hope that everyone will have a good year, and the family will always remember that it will never be separated, which is better than anything else.
It can be seen that the boy is actually very concerned about the divorce of his parents, of course, he also hopes that this matter will end soon, and it can be seen that he is an empathetic child and does not want this matter to affect other people.
Some netizens said: I am probably afraid that this incident will bring trouble to my father and will make my father lose his job.
The boy said: It's just a little skin injury, do you still want to break up the family relationship?
Some netizens questioned this matter, in fact, even if he clarified, many people still believe that this matter has a lot to do with their stepmother, after all, in many cases, as long as such a thing happens, people will think that it is the problem of the stepmother, and they will condemn the stepmother.
The boy also refuted the rumors for his stepmother: In fact, his stepmother was really good to him, and after the incident, she was also very patient to channel her mood.
So talking about this matter, the boy also expressed his understanding of his mother, and his mother was too nervous about himself, so he sent out such a video, of course, this incident is a quarrel between father and son, it can be said that it is a matter between men, and it is normal.
In fact, it can be seen from a detail in the boy's video that when the boy said that he went to his stepmother's house to pay New Year's greetings, he actually wanted to use the word "mother", but it is estimated that he took into account the mood of his biological mother, so he changed his words again, which means that the boy actually admitted his stepmother from the bottom of his heart.
After all, when she divorced the child's father, the two parties were not happy, and even had some contradictions, so the mother deliberately released such a video, and accompanied by some copywriting that deliberately created public opinion.
Of course, the boy did not blame anyone in this matter, did not blame his father for beating him, nor did he blame his mother for creating public opinion, it can be said that the boy is a kind person.
However, to borrow a sentence from the boy, the family must never be separated, because when a family breaks down, it is always the child who will be hurt the most in the end.