It's too realistic, no wonder young people don't want to get married now, it turns out that they think so, young people now, more and more people don't want to get married, let alone have children, if you want to think clearly, they are the only ones, if you are the parents of children, don't rush to get married, let's listen to their voices patiently, maybe they will change their minds, and they will support the ideas of young people now.
Now the vast majority of post-90s feel that choosing to get married is a waste of time and energy, and it costs a lot of money, and finally turns themselves into poor eggs, and life is short, just like that, they don't want to share their time with others, besides, if they get married to have a child legally, what does it matter if they get married or not, they have to worry about each other, whether they are dedicated to themselves, and worry about whether the other half will step on two boats, and there is also the possibility of divorce.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with the young people who are not willing to get married and have children, because they are more thoughtful and responsible, first of all, they will consider whether they are happy at the moment, whether they have a certainty about their future, whether they can take on the responsibility of a family, they don't want their children to live like before, a piece of clothing brothers and sisters wear one by one, there is a big one to eat and let the small one eat first, they must want to provide the best life for their children, if they can't give it, then simply don't get married and don't have children, in fact, this is completely responsible for the next generation。
Secondly, it is also particularly important, that is, the growth of children, they are not sure at all, can they train children well, cultivate a child is not only to meet the material, but more importantly, spiritual, this is not the same as before, before it was to have more children and more pairs of chopsticks, brothers and sisters can take care of younger brothers and sisters, that modern young people feel that this is definitely not good, they feel that this is irresponsible for the child, you have to be responsible for him when you give birth to him, nothing can be compromised, when they feel that they do not have this ability, they would rather choose not to get married, not to have children, rush this, indicating that they are young, more responsibleIf it is said that bringing children into this world is only hard work, and then looking at their children and repeating the same sadness and helplessness as themselves, then not giving birth may be a kind of kindness, and not giving birth may be a kind of compassion.
Compared with those who get married in a daze, give birth to a child in a daze, and then divorce in a daze, those who shirk their responsibilities will cause more damage to the society, so how many children have become single-parent families, and how many children have been ruthlessly victimized, so now young people, live more clearly, more transparently, this kind of thinking of not having children is correct, the purpose of their own efforts, they want to make life better, when they feel that they are capable, they can take responsibility, and naturally they don't need anyone to urge marriage and have children。
Friends, do you think the ideas and practices of young people nowadays are right? Let's discuss in the comment area.