Introduction: "The third day of the first month is not out, and the first one is empty", today is the second day of the first month, what are the 3 things to come out?
On the second day of the first lunar month, the flavor of the year is strong. In the folk, there is an old saying handed down by the ancestors - "If you don't come out on the second day of junior high school, you will be empty in the end". This simple proverb contains profound traditional customs and cultural connotations. So, what exactly does this "3 out" refer to?
"The second day of the first month is not out, and the first one is empty", today is the second day of the first month, what are the 3 things to come out?
One has to leave the house
Back to his parents' home, the family affection is strong
For the daughter who has already married, the second day of the Lunar New Year is a special day. On this day, they will take their husbands and children back to their mother's home, the home where they were born. Carrying large bags and small gifts, my heart is full of thoughts and gratitude to my parents. Back at her parents' house, the family sat together, eating the meals made by her mother, chatting about some family things, and enjoying a rare family time. This custom not only reflects the daughter's filial piety to her parents, but also deepens the bond between mother and daughter.
Prayer and Fortune
The second day of the Lunar New Year is also the day when the people worship the God of Wealth. Whether it is a merchant who opens a shop to do business, or an ordinary family, they will worship the God of Wealth on this day and pray for good fortune and prosperity in the new year. People will set up a shrine to the god of wealth in their homes, place offerings, and burn incense to pray for blessings. Although modern life has become more and more diversified, this traditional custom is still followed, and it is also people's expectation and sustenance for a better life.
Visit the New Year to increase friendship
In addition to returning to their parents' homes and worshiping the God of Wealth, the second day of the Lunar New Year is also a day for people to visit each other to pay New Year's greetings. On this day, people wear new clothes and bring gifts to the homes of relatives and friends. The blessings of "Happy New Year" and "Wishing you prosperity" came one after another, filled with a strong taste of the year and human touch. By visiting the New Year, the friendship is increased!
Second, we have to pay for it
New Year's money, pass on blessings
The second day of the Lunar New Year is still one of the days that children are most looking forward to. Because on this day, they can also receive New Year's money from their elders. New Year's money is not only a simple red envelope, but also a blessing from the elders to the younger generations. After receiving the New Year's money, the children's faces were filled with happy smiles, and their hearts were full of longing and expectation for the new year.
New Year's greetings to enhance friendship
The second day of the first lunar month is also a time for people to greet each other and give gifts. Whether it's visiting the homes of relatives and friends, or meeting acquaintances on the road, it's best to give a gift generously to express your blessings. Although this New Year's greeting may not be precious, it can reflect one's heart and make people live in harmony in the new year.
破五前不借钱，初二却要出钱
Before the second day of the first lunar month, there is a saying that "don't borrow money before breaking the five", which means that it is not advisable to borrow money a few days before the new year, so as not to break the wealth. However, on the second day of junior high school, he had to "pay". This may seem contradictory on the surface, but it reflects people's different attitudes towards wealth. The reason for not borrowing money before the fifth day is to avoid the leakage of wealth, while the money for the second day of junior high school is to pass on blessings and increase friendship. This custom reflects both the value of wealth and the importance that people attach to family and friendship.
Third, we must eat
Family dinners, shared reunion dinners
The second day of the Lunar New Year is the "New Year's Dinner". The meal is usually more sumptuous than usual, and the family sits around to share the reunion meal. The dishes include auspicious dishes such as fish (more than every year) and chicken (auspicious), as well as home-cooked dishes that families love. At the dinner table, the family members served each other's dishes, toasted, laughed and laughed, and enjoyed a rare reunion time.
Visit relatives and friends, and convey affection at the dinner table
The second day of the first lunar month is also a good time for people to visit relatives and friends. On this day, people bring gifts to the homes of relatives and friends to pay New Year's greetings. The host, on the other hand, will enthusiastically prepare a sumptuous meal to entertain the guests. This meal is not only a courtesy to the guests, but also a way for the host to express their friendship and blessings. At the dinner table, the host and guest toasted each other, served dishes, talked about the bits and pieces of the past year and the plans for the new year, and the relationship deepened unconsciously. So this meal, you must not be sloppy, it is best to generously take out good wine and good food!
"The second day of the first month is not out, and the first game is empty", today is the second day of the first lunar month, and I have to go out of the house, pay money and eat.
Worship the God of Wealth today, and may the golden light of the God of Wealth be sprinkled in every corner of you, bringing full wealth and good luck. May you have a prosperous career, a prosperous family, and good health in the new year. Let's welcome the gift of the God of Wealth and share this wonderful time!
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