In 2011, a Young Pioneer named Huang Yibo became popular on the Internet because of a photo. In the photo, he is carrying the "five bars" representing honor on his shoulders, and his expression is very proud and proud.
It turned out that Huang Yibo had shown extraordinary interests and talents since he was a child. Since he was 3 years old, he likes to watch "News Network", and when he grew up, he often read "People's Daily", and published many articles in newspapers and magazines. He studied at Wuhan Huapo Road Primary School, was elected as the deputy captain of the Wuhan Young Pioneers, and won the honorary titles of "Wuhan Caring Children" and "Wuhan Top Ten Filial Piety Stars" many times.
For a while, Huang Yibo became the focus of everyone's attention, and everyone had high hopes for him, believing that he would definitely become an excellent talent. That Internet celebrity photo made him popular overnight, and many people knew and paid attention to this versatile and high-achieving teenager.
However, the good times were short-lived. The impetuous Internet era has brought tremendous external pressure to this growing child. After becoming popular, Huang Yibo became a little proud, and his learning status began to have problems......
In this materialistic and competitive society, we must protect the innocent and kind hearts of every child, and guide them to grow up healthily with love and wisdom.
Something is coming: stepping into mediocrity
After the scenery, the changes of the teenager quietly came.
After becoming popular, Huang Yibo gradually became a little complacent and proud, and his learning status and grades were also affected. Since junior high school, Huang Yibo's grades have been significantly less outstanding than before, and his schoolwork has become very mediocre. By the time he reached high school, his grades had slipped even more, and his exams were almost always at the lower middle level.
During the college entrance examination, Huang Yibo performed very poorly in the exam, and finally failed the college entrance examination and did not get into the key university of his choice. The people who had expected him to shine were silent at this time.
In the end, Huang Yibo could only choose to enter a not-so-well-known private college. The teenager who was once noticed and discussed because of a photo is now silent, and few people mention him anymore.
What kind of pressure and negative impact has become popular overnight to a growing child, Huang Yibo's changes are embarrassing. Perhaps premature fame and fame are not a fortunate thing, and it may affect the correct direction and values of a teenager.
We should guide our children to establish lofty ideals, but we must also cultivate their correct understanding of values, not to be confused by the achievements in front of them, and to forget to base ourselves on reality and move forward in a down-to-earth manner.
Improper homeschooling
The sharp turn in Huang Yibo's fate is also inseparable from the family environment in which he grew up.
After Huang Yibo became popular overnight, his parents' requirements and expectations for him became higher and higher. They are anxious for Huang Yibo to emerge and get ahead as soon as possible, and they have many unrealistic dreams for him. In this process, the parents' education methods have become more and more strict, and the situation of beating and scolding Huang Yibo at home has happened from time to time.
Under the wrong education methods of his parents, Huang Yibo's learning status deteriorated even more. He lived under tremendous pressure and lacked the love and guidance of his parents. The parents' high expectations and strict education have become an important reason for Huang Yibo's mediocrity.
Parents are the first teachers in a child's development, and the way they educate directly affects the fate of a child. Huang Yibo's parents' impatience and erroneous education methods became the key factor in reversing his fate. Parents should not be anxious about their children's overnight success, but should pay attention to the improvement of their children's inner qualities.
It takes time for a child to grow up, and it needs loving guidance and encouragement from parents. Only by allowing children to grow up spiritually and healthily can they live out their own value in their future lives and create more value for the society.
The status quo is deplorable
Seeing Huang Yibo's experience from becoming popular to finally mediocre, many people can't help but feel sorry.
We can't simply define a person's value by temporary fame and popularity, nor can we position a child's life by it.
Huang Yibo's experience also reminds parents once again to pay attention to cultivating their children's correct understanding of the world and establishing correct values. Don't be fooled by the false name in front of you, and ignore the cultivation of your child's inner character.
At the same time, it is a wake-up call for educators. Schools need to adjust their educational methods, not only focusing on grades and progression rates, but also on the all-round and harmonious development of each student. Use positive values to guide your child instead of putting extra pressure on them.
On the road to growth, each of us must maintain a humble and positive attitude. Don't get carried away by momentary achievements, be down-to-earth and strong inside.
Although Huang Yibo's experience is regrettable, it also brings a wake-up call and a lesson to our growth. We will learn from these valuable lessons and continue to improve ourselves as we move forward.
The importance of homeschooling
Looking back on Huang Yibo's growth process, we have a deeper understanding of the importance of family education.
Parents are a child's first teacher, and their education style will profoundly affect a child's destiny. Parents should not be anxious for their children to become famous overnight, but should cultivate their children's inner qualities with heart.
We should guide children to grow up with love, give affirmation and encouragement, and accompany them patiently. It is not possible to create a "successful" model in a deliberate way, but to provide a reasonable education according to the characteristics of each child.
When children are in adolescence, they need the understanding and guidance of their parents the most. At this stage, dreams and passions should not be wasted, parents should understand their children with a positive eye and strive to stimulate their inner potential.
At the same time, parents should also lead by example and use their own stories to inspire their children, rather than setting too high expectations for them. Children need time to grow, not to be forced to take on undue pressure.
On the road to growth, we compare patience and perseverance. There will inevitably be difficulties on the road, but don't give up easily. Stick to the belief in your heart, and there will be a bright dawn ahead.
Every child is unique and precious, and deserves to be nurtured with all love. I hope that every child can grow up healthy and happy, and shine on their own stage of life.
The experience of the five-bar teenager is embarrassing, and it reflects that fame and honor cannot determine a person's worth, and the key is to maintain a humble and upward attitude.
This story also reminds us of the importance of homeschooling. Parents should nurture their children with love, accompany them patiently, and guide them to grow up healthily.
The needs of each child at each stage of development are different, and educators should teach them according to their aptitude and pay attention to the uniqueness of each child.
There will inevitably be ups and downs on the road to growth, but we will not be afraid. Stick to your inner beliefs, and there will be a glimmer of hope on the way forward.
Let's focus on the growth of each child and nurture their abilities and qualities with love and wisdom. I believe that every child will bloom with unique brilliance in the journey of growth.