In the new year, 60 little things to enrich children at low cost
The best "wealth" for children is not material, but life.
Education according to the book cannot raise fresh children, and positive and happy days can nourish the soul of children.
Author | Malt Mom
When I returned to my hometown, I found that a neighbor who hadn't shown up for several years had come back with his son this year.
His family is well-known for their concern for children, and according to past conventions, there is a high probability that they will arrange some research activities, winter camps or something for their children.
Parents make some money in business, and they all make hard-earned money, and almost all of them are spent on their children's learning.
When chatting with the child's mother, she said with regret: "We have figured it out, what are we going to do? It is incomparable with a family with real quality education, and it has caused the child to lose a happy childhood." ”
She also said that after giving up the idea of lifting the child with hard support, the whole family was much more relaxed, and the child was much more cheerful. As long as the son is happy and healthy, it is better than anything else.
When I heard this, I was filled with emotion.
In the past two years, more and more parents from ordinary families around them have gradually realized that school district houses and cram schools cannot determine their children's lives, and sound personality and inner wealth are the best gifts for their children.
Educator Tao Xingzhi said: "Life is education. ”
Parents who want to nourish their children do not need to be drastic, but should be tricky.
Good education is hidden in every drink, food, word and deed in daily life, and they almost cost nothing, which is the best "enrichment".
The new year is coming, do these small things at low cost to enrich the children, and the children will naturally get better and better.
Rich upbringing
The educator Sukhomlinsky said: "In the garden of the human mind, the most simple, beautiful and ordinary flower is the upbringing of man." ”
Everyone wants to be with people who make them comfortable. A child's life will meet thousands of people, and a good upbringing is the best business card for him to interact with others.
A child who is well-behaved, polite, and has a clear bottom line, with a warm heart and bright eyes, is naturally more popular.
The Chinese New Year is a good time to guide children to respect others.
Enrich character
Thousands of high-rise buildings rise from the ground, and a person's long-term future needs a good character as the foundation.
Ignoring the construction of foundations, the higher the child climbs, the more likely he is to fall.
The highest level of education is not to cultivate top students, but to cultivate children to become kind, warm, and grateful people.
Those who help others will always help them, and those who are good will always be good.
Good character is a soft but strong armor for a child to walk in the world, which will make his life path smoother.
Enriching the mind
What should children look like? I think they should be innocent, pure, carefree, running freely, curious about the world, with light in their eyes and dreams in their hearts.
But over the years, the children around them have become more and more silent, they are not interested in anything, or they plunge headlong into the virtual world, they don't like to talk and are not good at communicating, and their childish hearts have quietly withered.
Professor Xu Kaiwen once put forward the concept of "hollow heart disease": children have no goal, no meaning in life, no sense of value, and can only lie flat in a daze......
It is said that the involution is now, but in fact, the most important thing to roll is the child's heart.
With a rich and strong heart, a cheerful and optimistic personality, children can move forward bravely and unstoppably when facing setbacks and confusion in life.
Enrich knowledge
A few years ago, parents gathered, and a group of elementary school students piled up together.
However, after listening carefully, the children opened and closed their mouths with "bolt Q", "you old six" and other Internet rotten stalks, asking about popular words such as a few treasures, and asking who the words and sentences on the wall are not very clear.
In the 5G era, it is more convenient for people to obtain information, but there is less valuable in-depth thinking.
Children, in particular, are born in the world of the Internet, and if there is no deliberate guidance from parents, they will be corrupted by low-level culture.
With books as a companion is always the lowest threshold of nobility, in the new year, we must grasp the correct posture of "increasing knowledge" with children.
Rich and loving
There is a famous and true saying about the family of origin: a happy childhood heals a lifetime, and an unhappy childhood takes a lifetime to heal.
Children who have not been loved well when they are young will not be able to love themselves and others well when they grow up, and going through a long life of struggle may not be able to heal themselves.
Children who grow up in happy families have enough sense of security, and no matter how far they go, they can absorb the energy of the family, and they can be unswerving every step of the way.
In the new year, let's turn our "good for you" heart into "love" expressed in words and deeds.
End:
What can ordinary families give their children? A netizen replied like this:
Stew a few more pots of meat, and when he came back hungry after playing football, he put hot rice, wrapped in soup and rotten and sticky, bowl after bowl, and ate so much that he put down his chopsticks and fell asleep.
Wrap a few more dumplings, let him invite his classmates to come to the house, and after playing around, he will go underground one drawer after another.
Looking at the few of them, their mouths were full of dumplings, and they were still eating more than anyone else.
Encourage him a few more words, let him not be so angry with himself, no one has to force him with a gun, tell him that more often than not, emotions are just useless things that he blindly fights with himself and tosses.
A normal, warm, and relaxed childhood is actually the most precious gift you can give him. Far more precious than money.
Because it even gives children the opportunity to learn the secrets of happiness and courage.
It's the best thing in the world.
A good education is not a material package, but the construction of the soul.
As a parent, you can't give your child a lifetime of food and clothing, but you can create a full heart for him.
I always believe that a child who is upright and kind, rich and strong in heart can reap the benefits of an ordinary and fulfilling life even if there are no flowers and glory.
Education is inherently invisible. In the new year, let's talk more kindly, focus more on a positive life, and nourish the growth of children.