Every Spring Festival, people have to send red envelopes, give the New Year's money, can use smart phones will more or less in the WeChat group to receive some, or send some red envelopes, but the amount is small, send is happy, receive happy, no one cares who receives more, send less, receive are some broken silver, play is the happy atmosphere of the Spring Festival, but in WeChat private chat sent red envelopes!
The amount is generally larger, at least more than 100 yuan, most of them are the younger generations to the elders of the New Year's greetings pro-red envelopes, this is the online situation, but offline is another matter, some elderly people do not need smart phones, children are not allowed to use smart phones due to reading, the elderly elders to the younger children to send red envelopes to the New Year's money, the amount is less seems to be unable to take it, before the reform and opening up, the New Year's money or red envelopes, as little as a few cents, more than a few dollars, ten yuan are very few, now it is one hundred or two hundred, but some young adults, he not only does not give red envelopes to the elderly or children, but also asks the elderly to send red envelopes to themselves！
Or collect the red envelopes of the elderly in disguise, the custom of giving red envelopes during the Spring Festival is becoming more and more tasteful, and it has become not happy and happy, but gnawing the old to collect money, for example, during the Spring Festival last year, Uncle Wang encountered embarrassing things about red envelopes, and a relative came to him with two cartons of milk and two children to greet him. He made a table of dishes to entertain, and after eating, the junior said that he was going home. But the two children refused to leave, especially the little baby was still crying, and he was still saying that he wanted something, Uncle Wang didn't want melon seeds and peanuts for him, and the older child said: "He wants a red envelope"!
Uncle Wang said: "It's all my fault that I forgot about the red envelope", the relatives and juniors hurriedly explained: "Ignore him", Uncle Wang had to take out 200 yuan from his pocket and gave the two children 100 yuan each, at this time the child took the money before crying and laughing, Uncle Wang's younger generation pretended to scold the baby twice, and took them back!
After they left, Uncle Wang went to inspect the milk sent by relatives and juniors, where is this milk, packaged like milk, but actually two boxes of drinks with a total value of less than 50 yuan!
Uncle Wang has diabetes and doesn't like sugary drinks, plus it's winter, this relative is not really coming to visit Uncle Wang, and giving him New Year's greetings, in fact, he brought two children to eat and drink, and looted his money, although Uncle Wang and his wife have some pensions, but not much, plus they are old and frail, often sick and hospitalized, and the economy is not well-off, he is young and strong, and he doesn't understand such a thing, but Uncle Wang is also very helpless!
Now many young people, nominally to see the elders, in fact, take a little elders basically do not need, do not like things, but also with children, the old people not only have to be busy before and after the hospitality, but also to give their children red envelopes, the final result, not to see the elderly, but to pit the elderly, the old people if they have a pension is fine, if not, it is really difficult for the elderly.
There is another case, also during the Spring Festival last year, Ren's mother-in-law has three children, the eldest two are daughters, the younger one is a son, Ren's mother-in-law lives with her son, although the old man has some pensions, usually oil, salt, firewood and rice son and daughter-in-law are buying, she is also buying, but the daughter-in-law is always afraid that the old man gave the money to the two daughters, usually try to let the old man pay for things, the Spring Festival also wants the old man to give a red envelope, this year the old man due to illness some time ago, lived in the hospital for more than half a month, spent more than 10,000 yuan, this time in previous years will give red envelopes to grandchildren and grandchildren, this year there is really no money to send, the second day of the first month, the old man's two daughters with their respective children to give her New Year's greetingsAfter lunch, everyone sat on the sofa watching TV, and suddenly the old man's daughter-in-law said: "Mom, did you give a red envelope to your grandson, but not to your grandson", at this time, I saw the little grandson sitting next to my daughter-in-law, stood up with a sigh, and said to her mother: "Mom, can you not do this, grandma gives me a red envelope, it's my business, I don't need you to help me, the red envelope given by grandma in previous years, just from my hand a little way, was taken by you?" Grandma's money has been squeezed out by you and Dad, and you usually ask Grandma to pay for everything, and then you have to force her to send me red envelopes? Why don't you give grandma red envelopes?" After speaking, he ran to grandma and said, "Grandma, don't be angry!
I will give you all the New Year's money I have collected, and I will provide for you in old age. As he spoke, he took out all the money on his body and put it in his grandmother's hands. Although the child's words seem to be a little naïve, his actions are kind, pure, and clean. The child's behavior really taught his mother a lesson. At this time, the old lady couldn't hold back her tears anymore, reached out and took her grandson into her arms and said, "My grandson is still filial to me." Speaking of which, what I want to say is that as an adult, it is better for a child to know how to be filial, as a young person do not stare at the little money in the pocket of the elderly, if the old man has a pension of several thousand yuan per month, and his body is healthy, he did not spend money on treatment, and the old man is happy to send some red envelopes to his children and grandchildren during the New Year's holiday, which is understandable, but if the old man himself is difficult, no pension, or there is not much at all, and there is no money to treat him when he is sick, as a younger generation, he also wants to think about the old man to send red envelopes, which is inevitably a little inappropriate, what are your views and opinions on the above two examples, please leave a message in the comment area to discuss, thank you for your likes and attention！