In this era of fast-paced communication, blind dates have become a common way for single men and women to find a partner. However, not all blind dates end in a carnival, and some turn out to be textbook counterexamples. Just like Ms. Yang and Mr. Lin's seemingly funny but thought-provoking dating rhapsody.
On the road of seeking romantic fate, Ms. Yang chose Mr. Lin who swiped the circle of friends, the "rich second generation" who often shows luxury cars in the circle of friends. Their blind date location is not a cheap small restaurant, but a luxurious restaurant. Just like a grand carnival, Ms. Yang simply ordered lavishly, from king crab to snowflake beef, from 100-year-old Lafite to rare sea cucumber, everything seemed so incredible. However, the revelry did not last long, and Mr. Lin left the table with a stomachache, leaving behind a lonely table full of delicious food and an expensive bill.
Mr. Lin's slip away made Ms. Yang scold angrily on the spot, and there must be a lot of anger and grievances behind it. But what makes us think deeply is not only Mr. Lin's failure to make an appointment, but also people's expectations and sincerity when going on a blind date. It's a story about how appearance and essence, fantasy and reality are intertwined.
Ms. Yang may be looking for a sense of security and dignity hidden deep behind money. What attracted Mr. Lin to her was not his character or personality, but the famous cars and cash in the WeChat circle of friends. In turn, Mr. Lim's false prosperity through the Internet is trying to construct an eye-catching external image.
The reporter's investigation revealed the truth of the facts: Mr. Lin was just an ordinary migrant worker, using other people's luxury cars to decorate his barren reality. Ms. Yang was the direct victim of this performance, because she failed to see through the gorgeous mask.
This story shows us that in the real world, human interactions should be built on the foundation of truth and integrity. While pursuing material life, we should not neglect the exploration and understanding of the other person's inner world. Hasty judgments often lead to misreadings, and there is often an insurmountable gulf between dreams and reality.
Knowing a person is more precious than the magnificent feast in front of you. In this complex world, what we need is a calm and wise heart to distinguish between truth and falsehood and value. When pursuing love, we should treat each other with sincerity, meet people with reality, and feel each other's inner world with our hearts, rather than being blinded by vanity and external materialism.
On the dating stage, we all look forward to a sincere performance, and we don't want to see a scene of dishonesty. As for Ms. Yang in this story, her disappointment may serve as a warning to others: on the way to find a partner, we must weigh the emotional investment and material expenses, and find the sincerity and happiness that belongs to us. And those souls who are drunk and dream of dying under the splendor of matter will eventually be awakened by the reckoning of reality. May we all meet those partners who are truly willing to spend this life hand in hand in the blind date of life.