For most people, the Chinese New Year is a beautiful moment of celebration and reunion. However, for adults, the rules of the rivers and lakes have always existed, and the Chinese New Year has become the best time to maintain the circle.
First of all, as an adult, you must not only prepare all the necessities such as red envelopes and gifts for the New Year, but also be careful of those complicated "human contacts". Who you plan to give it to and how much you want to give it often leads to endless suspicion and suspicion. And if you are not careful, you may offend a relative, friend, or even a friend of a friend's friend on this day of reunion.
Secondly, the complexity of the rivers and lakes is also reflected in the New Year's party. Countless families visit each other at this time, and each visit may involve various interpersonal entanglements. If you go to house A, house B will be unhappy, and if you choose to drink with house C, family D may have a dislike because of this. Faced with this complexity, adults have to choose carefully so as not to fall into an awkward situation.
In addition, the dinner during the Chinese New Year is also a battlefield for adults to fight against each other. The placement of dishes on each table and the cleanliness of each glass of wine can carefully reflect a person's identity and status. And in this seemingly mundane process, the people at the table are your "enemies". They will observe every detail with sharp eyes, and will even take the initiative to provoke various small talk topics in an attempt to uncover your hole cards between words.
In such a situation, an adult must maintain a clear mind and keen observation. You must not be deceived by those sweet words, let alone by the apparent peace and harmony. Only by relying on one's own judgment and adaptability can one maintain a calm heart in this lively New Year's party.