Legend has it that the sun and the moon are two sisters
Legend has it that the sun and the moon are two sisters, the moon is the older sister and the sun is the younger sister. The younger sister was shy and told her sister that many people looked at her, so much so that she just wanted to fall into the West Mountain and not come out. My sister said, "No, if you don't come out, the world will always be dark." "Saying that my sister gave my sister a bag of embroidery needles, and said that whoever looks at you again will prick his eyes with embroidery needles. With the embroidery needle, the sun began to shine goldenly, and from then on, people did not dare to look directly at the sun. Because if you keep looking at the sun, your eyes will be scorched by the sun's rays and you will cry.
However, with the sun, the world is bright and warm. Even if you can't look at it directly, people love the sun so much. People often compare the sun to a lover, some people write in a poem: "The winter sun is so gentle, like a lover's crisp hand caressing my forehead", people also often compare a lover to the sun, some people sing in songs: "Lover, you are like the sun, warming my cold heart".
However, people cannot look directly at the sun. Looking directly at the sun, you will cry, you will sneeze, you will be dizzy. Maybe it's the excitement that the sun brings us. In the embrace of the sun, even if you are dizzy with excitement, it is a pleasure. However, in addition to the sun that cannot be seen directly, there is another thing in the world that cannot be looked directly at either, and that is the human heart.
The last thing in the world that cannot be looked directly at is the sun and the human heart
Shao Yong of the Northern Song Dynasty has a poem dedicated to "People's Heart": "Brothers are still passers-by, and others are safe to follow." People's hearts are square inches, mountains and seas are thousands of miles. Gently ask a friend, opposite the nine peaks. Many flowers will fall early, and peach and plum are not as good as pine. Guan Bao has been dead for a long time, who will follow him. The gist of the poem is: Those who call themselves brothers and sisters are still the same as passers-by, and they should not be trusted, let alone others? Maybe his thoughts are a thousand miles away from ours. If you lightly ask a friend to do something, you may have to wait at the opposite Jiuzhi Mountain, then you don't know what year of the monkey you will have to wait for. Friends of life and death like Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya are true friends, but unfortunately it has been so many years since their deaths, and there has been no one who values love and righteousness like them.
Shao Yong's poems may be a bit biased, as we often say, "There are still many good people in the world". However, I have to admit that the hearts of Shao Yong are still very realistic.
The time people work together, their shortcomings will be exposed. It's good to be able to correct your shortcomings, and you can continue to work together and even become good friends. I'm afraid that people who go all the way to the black, stubborn, self-serving, don't listen to good words, and finally hurt their feelings, maybe they will hurt their careers and lives. It's not completely terrible just to be stubborn, but I'm afraid that the villain's dark psychology will make you unable to prevent it, and eventually cause a monstrous disaster and an irreparable tragedy.
The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time
As the saying goes: "The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people over time." Although the words are good, who can afford the time cost of this "long time"? Perhaps by the time we see people's hearts, a catastrophe has already been caused.
Mothers teach their children, "Don't talk to strangers outside." However, when strangers want to deceive children, they are often smiling and sweet, and they don't look like strangers, so naïve children are still easy to be deceived. Because the bad guy didn't write the word "bad" on his face, even though the heart was black, the human heart couldn't look at it directly, who could have imagined that?
Not to mention naïve children, even highly educated college students and graduate students, in a mixed society, are there fewer people who are deceived? Think about those female college students who have been sold to poor rural areas, in addition to feeling sorry for them, they also feel sad and worthless for them. In the face of the temptation of flowers, do they not have any psychological precautions at all? Although it is said that people's hearts cannot be looked at directly, at least they must not be so mentally retarded in terms of figuring out people's hearts, right?
It is difficult to draw dragons and tigers, and it is difficult to draw bones, and knowing people and faces does not know their hearts
After we have a clear understanding of a person's true face, we often sigh with emotion: "It is really difficult to draw a dragon and a tiger, and it is difficult to draw a bone, and we know the face but not the heart!" These two sentences, we all understand, but none of us analyze and understand the samadhi. The key reason is that we believe in our own intelligence too much, and we like others too much to see us proud. It is precisely because we believe in our own intelligence too much that it is difficult to hear the slander of others, and it is precisely because we like others too much to see us proudly that we do not reject the slander of others. Although we all know that "good words are good for deeds", anyone who can say a few nice words in our ears will still make us smile. As everyone knows, sometimes the beginning of disasters often starts with these nice words. It wasn't until tragedy struck that it dawned on us. But, when it's late, what else will you do except sigh that "it is difficult to draw dragons and tigers, and it is useless to know people and faces, but not hearts"?
The poem of Chao in the Northern Song Dynasty said: "The people's hearts can be seen, when will the horses rest?" What is the reason for this? It is the greed of the human heart. The ruler was greedy, so he used military force, and as a result, the common people suffered. If people's hearts were not greedy, wouldn't the world be peaceful?
It can be seen in people's hearts that when will the horses rest
Li Baishi of the Tang Dynasty said: "Two grasses are still one heart, and people's hearts are not as good as grass." Li Bai saw the two grasses growing together, intertwining with each other until they withered together, and couldn't help but sigh in his heart. And the hearts of the people in the world are not as good as two grasses, for the sake of fame and fortune, you can abandon your former lover, how ungrateful and ungrateful it is!
Liu Yuxi, who is later than Li Bai, also has a poem that says: "Long hatred is not as good as water, and waiting for the idle ground to make waves." Liu Yuxi went to Kuizhou to take up his post and passed by Qutang Gorge. Qutang Gorge is famous for its beaches and water hazards, so you should always be on guard when walking the waterways here. But Liu Yuxi believes that this is not terrible, because the water risk is clear and can be avoided. But the career is dark, who knows where to shoot a hidden arrow at you? There is a saying that "an open gun is easy to dodge, but a hidden arrow is difficult to prevent." What needs to be watched out for is the heart of a villain!
Liu Yuxi's friend Bai Juyi hit the nail on the head in the poem "Taihang Road": "The Taihang Road can destroy the car, if it is smoother than people's hearts." The water of Wuxia can overturn the boat, if it is more peaceful than people's hearts. People's hearts are full of likes and dislikes, and they are prone to feathers and sores. "It seems that Bai Juyi is deeply affected by the hearts of the people, otherwise he would not be so insightful.
The sun can't look at it directly, we can endure it, and the result of forbearance is that the more we endure, the closer we become. The human heart cannot look directly, and we can endure it, but the result of forbearance is that the villain will be successful. Don't look at the greasy smiling face that hangs in front of us, maybe there is a knife hidden in the smile. Behind this smiling face, I don't know how to calculate us, so it's still the same sentence: "You can't have the heart to hurt people, and you can't have the heart to prevent people." "Because the world is unpredictable!
You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people