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On the second day of the Lunar New Year, Jiang Xin and her husband Pan Duming took their two children back to their parents' house to pay New Year's greetings, and happened to meet their sister's family.
A big family is so lively.
During the dinner, the whole family chatted while eating.
Halfway through the meal, everyone talked about this year's employment situation, and by the way, they complained about their work.
"It's really hard to do work this year, I've been tired for a year, and I haven't earned as much as last year. The brother-in-law said.
My brother-in-law and sister opened their own small shop, specializing in selling girls' trinkets, and the physical store business is not good, so they will take care of selling them together online.
Last year's business was good, but this year's e-commerce business has also been hit, so the money is not easy to earn.
Jiang's mother looked at Pan Duming: "Du Ming works in a state-owned enterprise, it shouldn't have much impact, how much has the year-end bonus been distributed this year." ”
Pan Duming glanced at Jiang Xin, and Jiang Xin was not worried at all.
"50,000 yuan!"
Pan Duming said a little proudly.
When 50,000 yuan came out of his mouth, Jiang Xin was obviously stunned.
She hurriedly made up for it: "I originally had 50,000 yuan, but the situation was not good this year, and only 5,000 yuan was issued." ”
"5,000 was the first batch to be issued, and it was sent several times one after another, and a total of 50,000 yuan was issued. ”
As soon as these words came out, Jiang Xin couldn't make up for it.
I can't wait to give Pan Duming a big-eared melon seed! Why is this person so untaught!
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has been married to Pan Duming for five years, Jiang Xin has always known that he has a better face and loves to brag, and he is a middle-level employee in a state-owned enterprise, so Jiang Xin always told him to keep a low profile and not let others know his income level, especially his mother's family and mother-in-law's family.
The difference you have has has looked down on you, and if you have a good life, everyone else wants to come and get a piece of the pie, even if it is a relative.
Fortunately, they bought a house in the city, and they don't live with their in-laws, and they rarely go back, so they have less contact with their in-laws and their mother's families.
When she went home for the Chinese New Year last year, Jiang's mother inquired about her and Pan Duming's salaries and bonuses, but Jiang Xin fooled her.
In order to prevent asking again this year, she had already told Pan Duming before returning to her parents' house that no matter who asked about the salary or year-end bonus in her mother's family, she would have to cry poor, and the year-end bonus of 50,000 yuan should also be said to be only 5,000, and she must not be honest.
Pan Duming said that she made a fuss, as if no one had ever seen this amount of money.
Jiang Xin hated him for being very arrogant, looking like he didn't have a city, seeing that he didn't take it seriously, he hated iron even more, and finally forced him to agree.
has already said good things, so when Jiang's mother asked, she didn't panic at all.
But who would have thought that Pan Duming was not reliable at all!
After two glasses of wine, I started bragging again!
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When Jiang's mother heard that he had given out so many year-end bonuses, she was overjoyed, and shouted in her mouth: "It's still the core of the core, I don't make much money, and I'm really capable of marrying a husband!"
"Mom, the core is not bad, and her year-end bonus is also 20,000 yuan!"
Jiang's mother was even more happy when she heard it.
Jiang Xin couldn't help but tremble in his heart several times when he saw Jiang's mother like this.
After eating, Jiang's mother quietly pulled Jiang Xin and Pan Duming into her room and said: "In the afternoon, my brothers and sisters from my mother's side came to visit, and they also brought their grandchildren, you can't see them a few times a year, I thought that this child's red envelope must be given."
Xinxin, you are doing better this year, and the red envelope can't be too cheap. ”
Jiang Xin had a headache when he heard it.
She couldn't help but glance at Pan Duming.
This guy is going to pull his legs.
Pan Duming didn't realize the problem yet, so he agreed.
Jiang Xin was speechless and asked Cangtian.
Pan Duming has been married to her for five years, and for the first time he went back to his parents' house for the New Year, he met Jiang's mother's relatives, so he didn't know what the situation was.
When Jiang's mother heard him agree, she immediately put her mind at ease.
tentatively proposed, when the time comes, give the children's red envelopes 200 yuan per person?
Pan Duming has no opinion, Jiang Xin can't stop him if he wants to.
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In the afternoon, Jiang Xin's aunts and aunts brought their grandchildren.
Pan Duming was dumbfounded.
Don't you be dumbfounded!
In the past, there were many brothers and sisters of the older generation, and Jiang's mother's family did not count the uncles, there were four aunts and aunts alone, and they each gave birth to children, each bringing two or three grandchildren, this number is 10 children, 200 red envelopes per person, and there are no more than 2,000 children.
Although Jiang Xin also has a son, the red envelopes given by her aunt and aunt are small, and each person only gives 20 yuan, and together they all have a total of 80 yuan, which is purely a loss-making transaction!
2000 is enough for their family's living expenses for half a month!
If it weren't for Pan Duming's good face and bragging, this money wouldn't have to be paid at all.
Their salary is okay, but the monthly mortgage and car loan expenses are not small, how can they boast of any strength!
Pan Duming probably also knew that he had learned a lesson, and he laughed very far-fetched when he gave out red envelopes.
And that's not all.
After dinner, it was already past bus time.
Jiang's mother asked Pan Duming to send her aunt and aunt back.
My aunt lives in the county seat, and it is an hour's drive back and forth from the town, counting that other cars can carry some along the way, and Pan Duming himself has to run twice to send people off.
Pan Duming came back and complained to Jiang Xin: "Your aunt heard that I mixed well, and said that if I have difficulties in the future, let me definitely reach out to help." ”
Jiang Xin teased him: "That's what you have to help, who made you have the ability!"
Pan Duming had a constipated look on his face.
He doesn't know what's going on at home.
He didn't expect that a little bit of bragging, others would be able to magnify it ten times.
"Now I know that I regret it, right? I told you earlier, who told you not to listen. ”
"This, I don't know it's going to be like this, aren't we all relatives? ”
"Knowing that your relatives have something to brag about, to put it bluntly, don't you just want them to hold you? What about relatives, if you have money and they don't have it, won't they look at your pocket!"
Pan Duming hurriedly admitted his mistake: "I will definitely listen to you in the future, and I will never dare to brag again." ”
"Look at what you can, I don't know that I think you earn millions a year, the key is that we don't have the strength!"
"Yes, yes, my wife said yes. ”
Jiang Xin glanced at him, and the anger in his heart disappeared.
These thousands of dollars should be used as a lesson.
Who let him die so much to save face?
When a person brags, he should think that when you are bragging, others may only stare at the money in your pocket and will not think you are amazing.
What you think you have face is actually just adding bricks and tiles to others.
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Extended reading:
I gave my daughter a house of 1.2 million yuan to marry, and my husband asked me to give it to his nephew, saying that he would rely on him to support his old age in the future: dreaming
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