#精品长文创作季#
A group of children were playing with rubber bands, and one of Jiang Yafei's friends told Jiang Yafei that her mother bought 10 packs of peach cakes, and when she heard the news, Yafei and her sister Yaning ran away, met Wei Dong and Wei Min on the road, and immediately told them the good news. So they ran back like crazy.
At about the same time, Sun Shaoan in "Ordinary World" was even worried about not being able to eat thick food, An Jie could buy 10 packs of peach crisp for children at a time, and the economic foundation was not ordinary.
The four-and-a-half-year-old child trotted all the way, and was found by Jiang Weidong's friend and told him, Jiang Weidong also ran back quickly, as the eldest in the family, he first felt that something must have happened at home.
It's a good thing to find out when you get home. An Jie said: "Don't you think that my aunt and I are in charge of too much, from tonight onwards, each person will have a pack of peach crisp per month, each in charge of their own, and pull it down after eating." "It's a lot of fun for the kids.
After the 10 packs of peach crisps were distributed, there were still 5 packs left, and An Jie said that it was left for her, Jiang Defu and Dehua. The children felt that they ate more and occupied more, and the three of them got 5 packets of peach crisp. But there was no way, An Jie used his prestige to suppress this matter.
But the unopened 5 packets of peach crisp were like an introduction, making it difficult for the five brothers and sisters to sleep. Especially Wei Dong, he said, "I can't sleep until the peach crisp in the cabinet is wiped out." One night, Wei Guo used the "special key" he made to open the cabinet for peach crisps and prepare a big meal. This movement woke up Yafei, Yaning, and Wei Guo, and everyone ate happily until they were all wiped out.
is the only one who didn't call Weimin, is it just because he slept in the same room with Dehua. This reason is not ruled out. Because the Jiang family has 5 children, the eldest and the second are of the same age, they live in one room, Yafei and Yaning are both girls, living in one room, and there is only one Jiang Weimin, who can only live in one room with Dehua, on the night of the incident, Jiang Weidong's voice woke up Yafei and Weiguo, which is about equivalent to calling the people in these two rooms at the same time.
And Wei Min, who was in the same house with Dehua, naturally missed this most important opportunity and did not eat peach crisp.
The angry Weimin had no choice but to tell An Jie that the peach cake was stolen and eaten, and his complaint was actually human nature.
01
The people do not suffer from few, but suffer from inequality
Confucius said, "The people do not suffer from few, but from inequality", which means that when dividing things, we should pay attention to each person's share. But for the matter of stealing peach cakes, none of the four children of the Jiang family called Weimin.
Everyone ate the peach cake, but he didn't eat it, which caused Wei Min's heart to be unbalanced, so he wanted to sue, he hoped that An Jie could punish the person who stole the peach cake, so that his heart could feel better.
But he never thought that An Jie not only didn't clean up the brothers and sisters who stole the peach cake, but also beat him heavily: "It's you who beat you." ”
This made Wei Min feel very aggrieved.
02
Children who lack love use complaints to get attention.
Jiang Weimin is the fourth, with two excellent elder brothers Wei Guo Weidong above, and a well-behaved and sensible sister Yaning below.
In order to prevent Wei Min from being high-profile, she even pressed him to the ground and beat him hard, and Wei Min had no choice but to tie his hands and arrest him.
Born in the Jiang family, where the four children are very individual, Wei Min has no sense of existence, the two elder brothers think he is unproductive, and he doesn't take him when he goes out to play;
Therefore, Weimin, who has no sense of existence, has no choice but to use the method of complaint to attract the attention of adults and siblings. Hopefully they'll pay a little more attention to themselves.
So, at the dinner table, I often saw Wei Min being scolded and beaten, because Jiang Weiguo was beaten for stealing meat, and because he didn't eat peach crisp. In fact, these are just the inner cries of a neglected child, but An Jie didn't hear it, and Jiang Defu didn't care, and even joined An Jie and beat him together.
This makes Wei Min, who has grown up, extremely anxious, has no goals, is not confident, and just wants to escape when he encounters problems.
He chose to go back to his hometown to the mountains and countryside, facing this family that once gave birth to him and raised him, but I just wanted to escape. However, his ability and vision were not good, so he found Xu Hong, who worked in a factory, and later became a laid-off worker.
All his life, he was healing the unloved and neglected in his childhood, and it was not until he opened a teahouse under the persuasion of An Jie that he made up for a little regret at the beginning.
Parents with a second child should pay special attention to the distribution of material and care for their children, otherwise, it will lead to a child's insecure childhood, and bring more hidden dangers in life when he becomes an adult.