There is a saying: "Why should life be as it first is, but never get tired of seeing each other." "This is an emotional state that many people are emotionally desired.
When you don't want to fall in love, you can still get tired of each other after getting along for a long time.
When two people first started together, they always had a lot of curiosity and freshness about each other, and they couldn't wait to stick together every day. But as you spend more time together, your relationship will start to fade. She used to be obedient to you, but then she always went against you, once she was tender to you, but then she lost patience with you.
When she is tired of you and does not want to stay with you any longer, she will instinctively resist contacting you. When a woman annoys you, she will use these behaviors to tell you: stop taking the initiative.
1. I saw it, and I didn't reply to your messages
Sometimes you want to talk to her, but you send a message and you don't get a reply from her for a long time.
So you tentatively send a few more messages, and then she may reply to you with a short emoji, or a few words. At this time, you should understand that it is not that she didn't see the news at first, but that she just doesn't want to contact you for the time being. After two people have been together for a long time, they will be prone to "emotional boredom".
Your relationship was too close at first, so that the other person had no room to be alone, so I was bored with you for a short time and didn't want to deal with you.
It's like eating too many desserts and getting tired after a while, even if you see a new dessert, it's hard to swallow it. When she starts to distance herself from you and finds you annoying, you might as well give her a little more space to herself and stop disturbing her.
Give her time to enjoy her life and also give her time to face herself. Stopping the initiative does not necessarily mean giving up, but retreating as advancing.
2. I won't meet you when I have time
If a woman is tired of you and doesn't like you that much, then even if she has a weekend off, she may not necessarily want to meet you.
Because at this time, she will feel that she will sleep well at home, wake up and have breakfast, and do her own things in her spare time, which will make her feel extremely relaxed and happy. Meeting you may not make her feel so happy. So in her instinctive choice, she avoided the option of meeting you.
When you try to ask her out to meet her, but she refuses many times and is reluctant to go out anyway, it's time to stop. She has made it clear with her behavior that you stop taking the initiative, she is not interested in you. In that case, then don't bother anymore.
Silently withdraw from her life and leave a decent exit for the other party.
3. Let you know that there are other members of the opposite sex around her
If you have been pursuing someone for a long time, but she has never agreed to you, or even has politely refused, then you should stop the loss in time, otherwise she will take other ways to make you retreat.
When you are entangled with her all the time, she will feel that you are a little annoying as a person. So she will agree to date someone else, and post photos of her and other members of the opposite sex in the circle of friends, so that you know that there are already other members of the opposite sex around her.
Rejects you also because her heart is indeed not in you. She has shown it so obviously, after understanding her mind, let's let it go as soon as possible, stop taking the initiative with her, and stop pestering others.
Emotional matters can't be forced, and when you like someone, you have to stop in moderation. If she annoys you and wants to keep her distance from you, then she won't give you too many opportunities to contact her in life. Some words are too clear and easy to hurt.
Maybe it's to maintain your self-esteem, and it's also so that you don't be too embarrassed to meet in the future, so she didn't say anything too ugly, but just used the behavior of alienating you to let you know: Don't take the initiative anymore, there is no result between you.
Since she annoys you, then let it go.
The world is so big, you will always meet the person who is in love with you.