My son called me and said, "Mom, I'm divorced!"
I feel very bad in my heart, I want to say that I am leaving, but I am afraid that my son will be sad, but this is really what I say in my heart, my daughter-in-law is really not a person who lives a life!
My wife and I are both farmers, and we have only one son, when my son and Xiaoya got married, we gave a bride price of 100,000 yuan according to her request, bought three gold, and made a down payment on a house in the county.
A total of more than 600,000 yuan was spent, and all the savings were spent, but the daughter-in-law married into the door, and the son's lifelong event was completed, and we are also happy!
When my daughter-in-law came in, she said that she couldn't cook, and I thought I wouldn't do it if I didn't do it! I'm young, I can do it, and when I'm old and can't do it, she will do it.
After the son got married, he went to work in the place where he used to work, and the daughter-in-law did not go out, but wandered around with the little daughter-in-law in the same village.
My wife and I planted more than a dozen acres of land, but my daughter-in-law didn't go to the field to work, saying that she had never done farm work in her mother's house!
If you don't go, don't go, when the farm is busy, my wife and I get up early and rush to plant and harvest, you can always cook some food, right?
No matter how late we come back, we have to wait for me to cook, and then when I come back late, my daughter-in-law will look at her face and say that I only care about work and don't care whether she lives or dies!
My daughter-in-law gave birth to a big fat boy, and our whole family was very happy! I thought that with a child, my daughter-in-law would change her previous temper.
As a result, she didn't even care about the children, and ran out to go shopping as soon as she was confined, and it was a whole day to shop!
My grandson was so hungry that I cried, so I had to feed him milk powder, but I didn't expect my daughter-in-law to be angry when she came back and saw me feeding milk powder, saying that the child would not eat milk after drinking milk powder!
I said, the doll that has just been full moon, you don't come back all day, you don't answer the phone, I don't feed milk powder, can he hold it?
The daughter-in-law made a lot of noise, called her son and said that she wanted a divorce, and the child didn't want it anymore, so you can drink milk powder if you can!
The son was in a dilemma, and he didn't coax his daughter-in-law to compensate us, and he didn't dare to say that his daughter-in-law was wrong.
The daughter-in-law doesn't care about the family or the children, and when she says it, you can take care of the grandson of your Li family! The child was just six months old, so he threw him to me.
It just so happened that the house in our county town also came down, and my son and I said that you should come back, you should find some work in the county seat, and it happened that our house also came down, and your family moved to live in the county seat.
I thought that my daughter-in-law would not live with us, they would live as a family of three, and my son would go out to earn money, and my daughter-in-law would be able to take care of the children and the family.
Not long after the son and daughter-in-law moved out, the daughter-in-law sent back her grandson, who was just over a year old, saying that she was looking for a job.
I had to work while taking care of my grandchildren, and I had to take care of my elderly parents-in-law, and I was tired all day long, and my back hurt.
More than a year later, the son called and said that he was going to divorce his daughter-in-law, and said that he couldn't go on!
When I asked my son what was going on, he said that his daughter-in-law didn't go to work, and she didn't care about her family every day, she just wandered around, and she didn't earn enough money to spend a month, so she couldn't get by!
I said, it's not easy for you to become a family, we are ordinary people, and we really can't afford to divorce!
You spent hundreds of thousands of dollars to buy a house with a wedding bride price, and you have already emptied your family, and if you get divorced, the family property will be divided equally among her.
There are also children, we don't worry if she takes them away, don't take them away, we don't have money to take a child, there are so few girls now, how many good guys can't find a daughter-in-law, do you plan to be single for the rest of your life?
To put it mildly, I went to my daughter-in-law again, and the daughter-in-law said that her son thought she was lazy and that she didn't want a divorce.
Although I'm not satisfied with this daughter-in-law either, divorce is not a trivial matter, so let's live well if I can get by!
The son and daughter-in-law took the grandson to the county seat, and I thought that the daughter-in-law could change it, but in fact, she was fine for a few days, and it was the same as before.
My son often complains to me, saying that when he comes home after a busy day, sometimes he doesn't even have saliva, let alone food!
I advised him that as long as they don't need your service, you can leave it alone and buy something to eat outside.
My son said that she gave me a few hundred yuan a month, and it was not enough to buy water and drink, so how could I buy food?
My wife and I saved our own money and secretly gave money to our son, hoping that the two of them would not be angry and that our grandson would have a complete home.
Unexpectedly, such days did not last long, and my daughter-in-law became more and more excessive, and every time she came back, she told us that her son was incapable and could not support the family.
I looked at my daughter-in-law who was dressed brightly and beautifully dressed like a flower, and my son with a vicissitudes of life and a gray face, which was really indescribably distressed and angry.
Last year, there was another trouble, the cause was that my daughter-in-law wanted to use a knife on her face, cut her double eyelids, and what else to do to brighten her skin, slim her face, and ask my son for money.
My son didn't have it, so she asked him to ask us, saying that if we didn't look at the child, we would have to give money!
My son didn't agree, and my daughter-in-law ran to my house and made a fuss, and my son was angry at that time, saying that since you entered the house, you haven't earned a penny, and you are still comparing this and that all day long!
My son wanted a divorce, and I persuaded him to live or die, so I gave my daughter-in-law 5,000 yuan, hoping that they could stop arguing and live a good life.
Now that I think about it, it was my cowardice and cowardice that helped grow my daughter-in-law's arrogance and make her feel that we dare not divorce.
My son said that she disliked me for having no ability and making less money, and said that even if she was divorced, she would be a hundred times better than me if she closed her eyes and looked for it again!
I work hard all day to earn money, I can't eat or drink well, she doesn't care about me, even the children. You want me to serve her like a princess!
The son said that divorce was his deliberate choice, and it was better to divorce than to be a cow and a horse for her all day long and not get a trace of warmth!
The son said that their family had not saved a penny for all these years, and only one house was left.
My son is divorced, my wife and I are worried, he is divorced with a son, can he still find a daughter-in-law?
I brought my grandson back, and my son couldn't go to work and take care of the children on his own.
I really don't know how the future will live, my son is divorced, I don't know if I can find a daughter-in-law in the future, even if I find it, can our family afford it?