Parents must know the 3 benefits of bringing their children back to their hometown for the New Year!

During the Spring Festival, no matter how busy we are, those of us who have left home at a young age will fly back to our warm hometown from all directions with our families like migratory birds.

Only in my hometown can I relive the boundless land and the strong family affection of my relatives in my hometown.

I wonder how many parents have returned to their hometowns with their children, and how many parents who work outside the home have finally met their children?

In fact, the period when you go back to your hometown for the Chinese New Year is the best time for you to get along with your children. You only need to observe the state of your child's holiday to touch your child's inner world and help you better educate your child in the new year.

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1. Let children experience the sense of ritual

The Spring Festival that we thought about when we were children was just a dull and vague day on the calendar for children.

Behind the fading of the New Year's flavor is actually the lack of a sense of ritual.

As it is sung in a song:

"Children, don't be greedy, children, after Laba is the New Year.

Laba porridge, drink it for a few days, and it will be twenty-three.

Twenty-three, sugar melon sticky. Twenty-four, sweep the house.

Twenty-five, fried tofu. Twenty-six, go and cut the meat.

Twenty-seven, go and kill the chickens. Twenty-eighth, put the face hair.

Twenty-nine, steamed steamed buns. Stay up for 30 nights, and twist and twist on the first day of the new year. ”

The Chinese New Year requires a sense of ritual, and this lively sense of ritual can only be found far away from the city and in the hometown.

The Spring Festival in my hometown is a big red color that can be seen everywhere.

Grandpa's handwritten couplets, grandma's cut window flowers, pasted early on the door, on the window.

Even the pigsty and chicken coop are pasted with "Six Animals Prosperous", the rice bowl is also plastered with "Five Grains Harvest", and the well in the yard is also pasted with "The River Flows Endlessly".

The adults are busy with the arrival of the new year, and the children are playing in the wild, noisy and hot.

The fireworks "smack", the firecrackers "crackle", and from time to time they are accompanied by the sound of gongs and drums, which is not lively.

These are all rituals that are difficult for urban children who are confined to the lattice and rarely come and go in the neighborhood.

This Spring Festival, take your children back to your hometown for the New Year, and feel the strong "New Year's flavor".

These fireworks will be injected into the child's heart and warm the child's future life path.

2. Let children learn to be grateful

The Spring Festival is not a festival for parents to spend on their children:

I work so hard all year round, it's all for you; if you don't study hard, you will know how to play, play, play! How can you be worthy of me; you want to buy this and that every day, and your parents make money very hard......

The Spring Festival should be a festival to "pass on your gratitude to your parents to your children".

I saw a story on the Internet:

Parents take their children on a trip that happens to be the Tibetan New Year, and they are temporarily staying in a Tibetan home.

On this day, the mother of the Tibetan family stewed a local chicken, and her three-year-old son, Xiao Wangzha, waited on the side and drooled. The meat finally came out of the pot, but her mother asked Xiao Wangzha to put the chicken thighs into his grandfather's bowl.

Xiao Wangzha was a little reluctant, holding the bowl in his hand, tears rolling in his eyes: "This is mine, Wangzha also wants to eat chicken legs." "

His mother patiently told him that his grandfather was getting older, his teeth were getting worse and worse, and he could eat fewer and fewer good things. Wangzha is still young, and there are still many opportunities to eat chicken thighs in the future, and good things must be given to grandpa first.

A 3-year-old child can understand a limited amount of truth, and no matter how noble his filial piety is, he can't resist the temptation of chicken legs in front of him.

Mom was not upset, but there was uncompromising persistence in her eyes. Xiao Wangzha understood his mother's eyes, didn't cry, didn't make trouble, and put the chicken leg in his grandfather's bowl. The parents of tourists on the side were quite moved when they saw this scene.

It should be natural for younger generations to honor their elders, but I don't know when everything has changed. We no longer give the best to our parents as we used to, but choose to leave the best for our children.

Children are born with a blank sheet of paper, active, imitative, malleable, and easy to accept all kinds of information from the outside world. Every word and deed of parents, children will see it in their eyes, slowly remember it in their hearts, and will gradually give children a psychological hint.

If you teach him to honor his parents, he will not let you grow old and have nothing to rely on, if you teach him to take care of others, he will not be selfish, and if you teach him to be grateful, he will not take everything for granted. 

The best education is only taught by example and by letting parents be role models for their children. There are parents who respect the elderly, and when the children grow up, they will not be bad.

2. Let your child get rid of his phone

For children, the Chinese New Year is something to look forward to. It means new clothes, good food, firecrackers......

But parents complain that their children are at home every day during the winter vacation, and they especially like to play with electronic devices. Children only like to watch animations and play games on their mobile phones or tablets all day long, and they can't stop at all.

Mobile phones are like a double-edged sword, they can hurt children, but they can also help children, the key is how to use them.

01. Find activities that can replace electronic products

Some parents say that their children feel bored when they don't watch TV or play with their mobile phones, and they don't know what to do.

Therefore, in addition to using electronic devices, it is important to encourage children to arrange rich entertainment activities and divert attention.

DIY food, ask children to cook a meal for their families, express their filial piety and gratitude, have a long talk with children, let children feel the care of parents, etc.

02. Conduct reasonable guidance

Set reasonable mobile phone use norms, high school students have a slightly weaker self-control ability, and parents have the responsibility and obligation to regulate their children's mobile phone use behavior.

But at the same time, parents should also be aware of the inevitability of the existence of mobile phones, and cannot restrict the use of mobile phones by high school students.

Especially middle school students are in the rebellious period of adolescence, and the more absolute restrictions are, the more they stimulate their yearning for mobile phones. Therefore, parents should guide their children to use mobile phones reasonably and establish norms for their children's use of mobile phones.

03. Get to know your child through your mobile phone

Parents and friends can see what their children usually do with their mobile phones, understand what they lack in reality, and provide targeted help and care.

If you have a lot of chat software, you may need friends, and you need more interpersonal support;

Those who like to play games, are particularly smart, and may need a sense of accomplishment;

Those who read online novels may lack a sense of meaning;

Those who use social software may be looking for a sense of belonging;

If you like shopping software such as Taobao, we need to see if your child's sense of self-worth is very good.

What parents and friends need to do is to find what their children are missing, and then make up for these missing psychological needs in real life.

Write at the end:

Recently, I watched a video in which a girl learned from her grandmother how to make egg dumplings to eat in the New Year.

Beat the eggs, brush the oil, turn on the fire, pour the egg liquid, turn it, sandwich the minced meat, put it together, and a fragrant egg dumpling is done.

The first thing to do well is to thank the grandmother for her hard work.

The girl was also driven by her grandmother to help write the word "Fu", paste couplets, and cut window flowers.

The face is full of anticipation and yearning for the New Year.

One day in the future, when she recalls this Spring Festival, this bright red in winter and the inseparable family affection in the family will definitely bring her warm strength.

I think this is actually the best answer for us to take our children back to our hometown.

The Spring Festival should not be a symbol without a sense of life, and children should not only think of grabbing red envelopes and playing with mobile phones during the New Year.

The best New Year should be a strong New Year's flavor, a ceremony to unite family affection, and an ordinary and warm homely story.

Dear parents, this Spring Festival, please use the fireworks in the world to give your children a happy memory.