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As the saying goes: Raising children to prevent old age! Once a person is old, he cannot be cared for by others, and it is natural for his children to support the elderly.
However, as the aging problem becomes more and more serious, the pressure on young people to provide for the elderly has doubled.
"There is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness" has become a cruel reality that modern old people must face.
The protagonist in this case, Mrs. Yang, is in her old age.
In order to solve her own pension problem, she made enough calculations and even used the "Analects".
So much so that a hundred years after Mrs. Yang, her children are grateful to her, what's going on?
Legacy One: Salary card
Mrs. Yang had two sons and a daughter, and her husband died when the children were still very young.
When she was young, Mrs. Yang was a factory worker, and the factory gave her a house of more than 40 square meters.
In this small house, Mrs. Yang raised her three children by herself.
When the children became adults, Mrs. Yang arranged for her second son to take her place in the factory, and the eldest son couldn't find a job and returned to his hometown in the countryside.
Later, after being introduced, the eldest son met Liu Gailan from a neighboring village, and then the two got married and gave birth to a son and a daughter.
Later, the second son and the youngest daughter also became separate families.
In that old house of more than 40 square meters, only Mrs. Yang is guarded by herself, which is also the only property in Mrs. Yang's name.
But as Mrs. Yang gets older and older, she is gradually unable to do her best in life and urgently needs someone to take care of her.
Considering that the second son works in a factory, he is the closest to himself.
Mrs. Yang chose to let her second son's family move into this house and live together. But the good times didn't last long, and the second daughter-in-law always quarreled with Mrs. Yang because of some trivial matters in life.
Mrs. Yang knows that the treatment of the factory is not as good as before, and the second family's life is barely enough to support the family's expenses with only the salary of her son.
In this regard, Mrs. Yang also chose to turn a blind eye.
Who knew that the second daughter-in-law was unwilling to suffer a loss, and actually targeted her private money.
One day, the second daughter-in-law asked Mrs. Yang to take out her retirement salary card and give it to her.
But Mrs. Yang also has her own concerns.
She thought that if she got sick and was hospitalized one day, she would take it out and use it, which could be regarded as helping her children reduce the burden.
But when the second daughter-in-law heard this, she immediately became angry, raised her voice and shouted:
"You're so old now, do you still think you're in good health?
Mrs. Yang felt sad after hearing this, she was old and couldn't do anything.
That night, Mrs. Yang gave the salary card to her second son.
Mrs. Yang's salary card has a pension of more than 2,000 per month, which can be regarded as a "huge amount of money" for a family that is not wealthy.
It didn't take long for the eldest daughter-in-law Liu Gailan to know about the salary card, and the more she thought about it, the more angry she became.
She felt that the second daughter-in-law was too domineering, not only living in her mother-in-law's house, but also taking away the only savings left in her mother-in-law's hand.
The elderly are old, and they don't spend money, and once they need to use money, it is a large expenditure.
At that time, the two brothers will share their mother-in-law's pension expenses equally, and no matter how they think about it, they will suffer a loss.
For this reason, Liu Gailan came to the door several times to quarrel with her younger siblings.
However, before the quarrel was over, Liu Gailan's worries became a reality.
After a serious illness, Mrs. Yang's health became worse and worse, and she could only stay in bed later, and she couldn't live without people.
According to local customs, the daughter who marries out does not have to support the elderly, and will not share the inheritance of the elderly in the future, and the sister-in-law's health is not good, so she cannot take care of the elderly at all.
When the second family saw that the old man couldn't take care of himself, he hurriedly went to find the boss and wanted the boss to come and serve the old man.
Liu Gailan was completely furious.
Her family's economic conditions are not as good as the second family, and her husband still has spondylitis, so he runs to the hospital twice in three days, and he has no energy and no money to serve an old man.
But Liu Gailan also knew that it was the obligation of her children to support the elderly, so she put forward a condition:
If you want to take care of the elderly yourself, give yourself the retirement salary card of the elderly.
The second daughter-in-law exploded when she heard it, and ridiculed Liu Gailan for only recognizing money and not people.
But in order to solve the trouble of her mother-in-law, she still handed over her salary card and mother-in-law to Liu Gailan.
At the same time, it was emphasized that after taking the salary card, the mother-in-law could no longer be sent back.
During this period, Mrs. Yang watched her two daughters-in-law kick her around like a ball, and she was chilled, but she didn't say anything.
She knows that people are old and useless, and they are a drag everywhere.
Since then, Mrs. Yang has lived with her eldest son's family, and Liu Gailan has also begun to serve her mother-in-law.
A few years later, Mrs. Yang's eldest son had several surgeries for spondylitis and began to recuperate in bed at home.
Liu Gailan waits for the old all day long, and then serves the young, and her children don't care about it.
But her efforts were all seen by Mrs. Yang.
Heritage 2: The house
In order to make up for her eldest son's family, Mrs. Yang decided to leave her old house of more than 40 square meters to them.
The next day, Mrs. Yang called several elders in the village, as well as a respected second uncle Wang, and said in front of them that she wanted to make a will.
The main content is to transfer the house to the eldest family after he leaves.
Since Mrs. Yang didn't know how to write much, she asked people to print out what she said, and then signed her name and date on it.
Second Uncle Wang and several witnesses also signed their names on it.
Mrs. Yang also asked people to record the process and take a video.
In the end, she also said to her eldest daughter-in-law Liu Gailan that she hoped that the family could get along in harmony and not hurt their feelings because of these things.
Mrs. Yang finally specially instructed Liu Gailan:
If there are any problems with this will in the future, you must find Uncle Wang, who can help her solve the problem.
After Liu Gailan served her mother-in-law for 6 years, Mrs. Yang died.
In the past 6 years, Liu Gailan has served her mother-in-law every day, and the two have been together day and night, and there has never been a discord between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Liu Gailan thinks that she is worthy of her mother-in-law and her conscience.
After the death of her mother-in-law, Liu Gailan's husband's health also deteriorated, and soon he was completely unable to take care of himself, and the family was already very poor by her husband's injury.
And Liu Gailan's son is 30 years old, and he has never dared to meet each other because of poor family conditions.
One day, Liu Gailan heard that the old house left by her mother-in-law was going to be demolished, and according to the policy, there should be a demolition payment, about 100,000 yuan.
Liu Gailan felt that life was going forward again, and this money could not only subsidize the family, but also hold a wedding for her son and daughter-in-law.
So Liu Gailan hurriedly came to the local demolition department to handle the demolition registration.
However, to her surprise, the demolition department told her that the house had been registered by the second family.
In desperation, Liu Gailan took her mother-in-law's will and asked for a house, but she was blasted out by the second daughter-in-law, saying that this house was given to them by her mother-in-law, and whoever came to grab it would fight with whom.
After several negotiations, both sides insisted on their own words.
Liu Gailan really had no choice but to take the second family to court.
In court, the second child said that the house was left to him by the old mother, and the house had been transferred to him before the old mother died.
说着还拿出了一张纸递给了法官。
This is a copy of the property of the house, and the owner of the house written on it is the second child.
The second child also added that the original title deed of the house has been handed over to the demolition department.
And Liu Gailan took out the will and video made by her mother-in-law, saying that the house was her own, and it was illegal for the second child to take the original real estate certificate to the demolition department without permission.
As he spoke, he began to quarrel again.
There are two robberies of a house, one with a will and the other with a real estate certificate.
The court had no choice but to adjourn the trial for the time being.
A few days later, the court completed the investigation, and Liu Gailan was notified by the court to look at the materials.
This is exactly the registration and filing materials of the house in the real estate center, and the owner of the house above is the second child.
It is also stamped with the seal of the Real Estate Center.
According to Article 1133 of the Civil Code:
In other words, Mrs. Yang disposed of her legal property at will in the form of a will.
But she had already transferred the house to her second son before her death, and after completing the transfer procedures, the second child became the owner of the house.
Mrs. Yang's will was made after the transfer of ownership, and the house was already the second child at that time, so the will in Liu Gailan's hand was invalid.
In the end, the court ruled that Mrs. Yang's will did not have the right to dispose of the house, and rejected the plaintiff Liu Gailan's claim on this ground.
Liu Gailan instantly sat on the ground with the verdict in her hand, crying: "It was my dead mother-in-law who deceived me." ”
I have supported my mother-in-law for many years, but in the end I couldn't get anything.
At this time, Liu Gailan suddenly thought that when she made a will, her mother-in-law specially instructed herself that if there was a problem with the will, she must find Second Uncle Wang.
At the time, she only felt strange, but she didn't think much about it.
Now that I think about it, my mother-in-law must know something.
So Liu Gailan hurried back to the village and found Second Uncle Wang.
The Hidden Third Legacy
Liu Gailan told Second Uncle Wang about the lawsuit with the second child because of the house.
After hearing this, Second Uncle Wang said that he had indeed heard about this matter before Mrs. Yang's death.
It turned out that when Mrs. Yang was living in the second child's house, the second child took a document for her to sign.
Mrs. Yang didn't know any other words except her own name, but she vaguely felt that it might be related to the house.
The old man was cautious and did not dare to sign indiscriminately.
But at that time, many people came to the house, and after tossing for a long time, the second child half-deceived and half-forced the old mother to sign.
Later, Mrs. Yang moved to live in the old family, and the eldest daughter-in-law Liu Gailan took care of herself so hard, so she decided to leave the house to the eldest family, so she wrote the written will.
Maybe the old man really intended to give the house to the boss, but it backfired, and the boss's family was happy.
Just as Liu Gailan was about to leave in disappointment, Second Uncle Wang suddenly stopped her.
At the beginning, after making a written will, Mrs. Yang was always relieved.
After all, he had signed something related to the house before, and the old man was worried that there was something wrong with the written will, so he found Second Uncle Wang alone and said that he wanted to make another oral will.
said that if there was a problem with the written will in the future, he would ask Second Uncle Wang to hand over an iron box to his eldest daughter-in-law, Liu Gailan.
If there is no problem with the will, and the old family gets the house successfully, they will hand over the iron box to the second child.
Liu Gailan took the iron box handed over to her by her second uncle, and after smashing the lock, she was dumbfounded when she looked at the contents of it.
A piece of white cloth was wrapped in a gold bracelet and more than 50 silver dollars.
Second Uncle Wang told Liu Gailan that these were some old objects from Mrs. Yang's lifetime, and I didn't know if they were worth anything.
Mrs. Yang is old, but she is not confused at all.
She knew that the two daughters-in-law had always been at odds with each other, and had quarreled several times before over the support of the elderly and the retirement salary card.
So Mrs. Yang has never dared to take these things out, for fear that her children will cause disputes again.
That's why I thought of dividing the house and these things into two parts, one for the two sons' families.
The value of these things is certainly not much compared to the demolition cost of a house. But after Liu Gailan got the things, she deliberately ran to her mother-in-law's grave and burned paper to thank her.
After the second family got the house, they also knew that they had taken advantage of it, so they never troubled the old family again, and it was also the mother-in-law who had a conscience and knew that she felt sorry for the juniors.
This is the genius of Mrs. Yang.
There is a saying in the Analects that says, "Do not suffer from widowhood but suffer from inequality, and do not suffer from poverty but suffer from anxiety."
People are never worried about the less, but about the unfairness of the distribution, not about living in poverty, but about the instability of life.
Mrs. Yang's property has a total of three parts: a house, a pension, and old objects that can be exchanged for money.
At first, she didn't take out the gold bracelet and silver dollars, saying that she was afraid that her children would have a gap because of this, but in fact, the old man must have known that these things were not worth much.
No matter who ends up with the things, after she leaves, the two daughters-in-law will inevitably fight over the house, after all, the house is more valuable.
Whether intentionally or unintentionally, Mrs. Yang did use the house to hang her two sons to support her old age at the beginning.
Living in the second child's house, he transferred the house to the second child, and the second child took the salary card and the house, so he naturally would not treat the old man harshly.
After Mrs. Yang lived with the eldest family, the second daughter-in-law did give the salary card to the eldest daughter-in-law although she was unwilling.
Because by then she already had a house.
But the eldest family didn't know about the transfer of the house, and the interesting thing is that Mrs. Yang never told the boss about it.
When Mrs. Yang made a will, she also emphasized that she would transfer the house to the old family after she left.
It can be seen that before his death, the eldest ran to ask the second child for a house.
At that time, the two families were in a lawsuit over the house, and she became a "sinner" instead.
In short, the eldest daughter-in-law is also grateful to her mother-in-law because of the house, and she has fulfilled her filial piety.
The second will is actually the will that Mrs. Yang really wants to make.
There is only one house, and no matter who gets it, there is always one party who is dissatisfied.
At this time, it is also a great psychological comfort to take out old objects that can be exchanged for money to the party who does not have a house.
Just like a person who has bitterness in his heart, he can fill all his suffering with just a piece of sugar.
A person who is full of hope but has not received anything will be overjoyed when he suddenly has a windfall in the face of extreme disappointment.
It doesn't matter how much, it's better than nothing.
Although Mrs. Yang said that there were not a few big characters, she was well versed in human nature and worked hard to level out a bowl of water.
When she made her first will, did she really not know that the house was already the second?
Did she really cheat on her eldest daughter-in-law?
These are also known only to Mrs. Yang herself.
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