It is said that there is no rule and there is no circle, and family style and family discipline are really very important! The province we are going to talk about today is recognized by many localities as the province with the best morality and etiquette.
The main seat is the elders sitting, and the elders are respected! Shandong, February 6, Qingzhou, Shandong. The family sat around for dinner, but at this time, a child saw that there was a vacant seat and sat down directly, what he didn't expect was that he had no intention of sitting on the grandfather's main seat, and the child's father found that he corrected the education in time: the main seat was given to the elders to sit!
Seat map
Is there such a rule for a meal?
There really is, there is etiquette, righteousness and shame everywhere. A seat represents not only etiquette, but also a tutor. Since ancient times, China has been a country of etiquette, which is the tradition of the older generation and the eternal educational philosophy. Respect for elders, respect and order, and do not lose courtesy.
Seat map
Usually, if you can't tell the difference between east and west, north and south, how can a family of four sit?
Generally speaking, the physiognomy gate is the main position and the back is the last position. Secondly, sit on the north and face the south for the main seat, sit on the north and face the south, and the east side is the upper position, if you really can't tell the difference, you can see that your elders often sit there to eat and drink tea.
Some netizens also said that generally speaking, there is nothing else to discuss on our side except for the banquet, and there are a few times when I eat at the banquet, I sit in the position of serving the food, and then some elders are worried that I will be burned to change positions with me
Netizens
In fact, many places have seating requirements, such as serving meals to the elders first, eating elders must use chopsticks before eating, and the bedroom on the east side of the house must also be lived by the elderly!
This netizen is more extreme: There are so many poor rules, anyway, I don't have it here, and it's different to sit in that position.
Netizens
If you say that if your parents and grandparents don't talk about you, you can do anything at home. But can you still not associate with others, there are some things that you can not do but you can't not understand. Everyone else talks about etiquette, and it's not good to offend others if they don't understand it. In fact, you are at home, maybe you are used to it, this is the generosity of the family. If you're out there or in front of relatives and friends, you can't just do it. It's the rule. Outside, the elderly are the mainstay, and the guests are the mainstay. You're already an adult, but your child has to understand it too. It's an educational issue.