After watching 6 episodes, now I finally understand that it's obviously a film, but the reason why the male protagonist can't do that at all is not only the pressure of life, but also about himself. Today, let's take an in-depth inventory of the 6 reasons why the male protagonist can't do it.
The depression of entrepreneurial failure
The male protagonist Samer himself is actually quite powerful, although his appearance is not good, but a top student of Seoul National University, after graduation, he started a business with his good friend Jeong-so, determined to make a big difference, but the business failed, which directly led to bankruptcy and became a black household.
Zhengxiu restarted his business "successfully" because of the help of his mother's family, and Samer could only rely on his daughter-in-law's guarantee to buy a low-profile taxi and start a driver's business, in his heart he was not convinced, he didn't feel that he was incapacitated, but he was unlucky.
Although he has a job as a taxi, Samr doesn't want to struggle at all, he just wants to mess around, go out every night, have a meal and sleep under the bridge, the whole person has no fighting spirit and is languishing, in this case, his desires are as fragile as his will.
No matter how much his wife Youzhen tempts him, do you say he is under pressure? Yes, but in fact it is not big at all, most of the time it is Youzhen who is working to support him, in this case, why is it not good in that regard, it is that his will is depressed and he has lost the "fighting spirit" that he should have.
Youzhen is too strong
As Samr's wife, Youzhen is very strong, I still remember when they were first passionate, Samuel had already met naked in the corridor, Yuzhen was still teasing him in the house, asking Samr to answer questions, and if he was not satisfied, he was not allowed to enter the house, even if he was affectionate, he was also Youzhen strong, and he must be on it.
In daily life, Youzhen never sits in the co-driver, but sits in the back seat, like a boss. On the other hand, Samr is always submissive in front of her, and he doesn't seem to dare to disobey the slightest, and in the face of such an unbalanced relationship between husband and wife, it is difficult for Samr to play.
He had some ideas and wanted to make love to Yuzhen, but Yuzhen excused himself and said that he was tired today and another day, which directly extinguished Samr's passion. The next day, Tomoma was wearing sexy underwear and wanted to make out with him, but Samuel couldn't stand up, so Tomuma just shook his face.
Youzhen thinks that she is feeling, and wants Samr to be the same as her, if she can't do it, she just doesn't love her, so strong, how dare Samr do it?
Semer is not in good health
Tomo's strength has put pressure on Samr psychologically, and physically, in order to prevent Samer from losing his hair, she has been letting Samr take hair loss pills. This medicine does inhibit hair loss, but it has a very fatal side effect, and that is the lack of desire.
To put it bluntly, as long as Semuel keeps taking this medicine, then he will never lift it, and he will not be able to make love with Youzhen, this side effect, he has not told Youzhen, worried that she will not be able to stand it, until they quarreled, and Samir, who couldn't help it, finally told the secret.
So it's not that he doesn't want to, but he can't do it, it hurts his self-esteem very much if he doesn't do it, Yuzhen is still forcing him, which makes Samel's fragile heart hurt even more, so hair loss and ability, choose one of the two, Youzhen, what will you choose? Youzhen didn't answer in the end.
She doesn't want Samr to be bald, and she wants him to be capable, how can there be such a good thing as the best of both worlds?
Tomo's physical derailment
In fact, the reason why the male protagonist Samuel is really not good is because of Youzhen. At the beginning, Samr wanted to make love to her, but Yuzhen refused, and the next day Yuzhen wanted to make love with him, but Samel couldn't, and the angry Yuzhen ran away from home, hid on the stairs and cried secretly, crying and crying, and called his ex-boyfriend by surprise.
Originally, Yuzhen just wanted to have some wine and talk with her ex-boyfriend, after all, she was sad and felt that she was no longer attractive, which couldn't arouse Samel's desire. As a result, something happened while drinking, and her ex-boyfriend came to feel it, and she thought about only walking into the body without any feelings.
What she didn't know was that Samr was worried about her safety and followed her from the moment she went out until she walked into a room in a five-star hotel, where Samr waited for three hours.
Youzhen's cheating has caused a very big shadow on Samer, in order to protect their marriage, Samr has never said it, but his feelings for Youzhen can no longer go back to the past, he has no feelings, and now when he thinks of her passion with other men, he can't be even more heroic.
Samr mentally derailed
Yuma derailed physically, and Samr also derailed mentally. Samr is a cleanliness person, he loves to clean, and a neat cleaning will make him happy. Samr takes care of all the housework, on the one hand, he loves Yumo, and on the other hand, he has pleasure in cleaning.
So when he found out that his neighbor was also a woman who loved to clean, his heart unconsciously moved closer to her, and they agreed to clean once a week, one week at the neighbor's house and one week at his own house, and in this way they spent several happy weekends.
Although Samr said that he did not cheat, the love in his eyes could not be hidden, especially looking at the eyes of his neighbors, when they blackmailed and were sent to the hospital, Samel came to his senses, and the first contact was not his wife Yuzhen, but the neighbor, which shows that the person he wants to open his heart to is not his wife.
And if it weren't for the neighbor's husband coming home suddenly, the relationship between Samr and the neighbor might not just be cleaning together, so he was originally very resistant to Youzhen's strength, but now he has no desire for her, so how can he be erect?
A respite
In fact, after Samel's business failed, he had more or less physical and mental problems, the pressure of reality, the trivialities of life, the blame of relatives and friends, and the expectations of his wife, these are like huge stones, pressing on Samel's shoulders, so there is only escape.
Avoiding work, avoiding relatives and friends, and not even daring to look directly into your friends' eyes, how could Samr in this situation, and still have the leisure to think about those things? On the contrary, after the divorce, Samel was relieved, he returned to his father, and planted strawberries with him, and it lasted like this for a year, and the whole thing eased.
Writing this, I thought of a song by Mao Buyi, on an ordinary day, Samr may just need a respite and a chance to regain his strength. A year later, he came back to life and matured, and when he met Yuma again, he finally became a hero.