There are no big mistakes, but there are constant small mistakes, which is a phenomenon that is often seen in study and life.
Many parents will say, "Children are just careless and sloppy, and they can get high marks if they check carefully". But I don't know that adults don't pay attention to it, which leads to the "sloppy" phenomenon of children's learning and life, and their grades have been in the middle.
I've heard this since I was a child, and I've been hearing that I'm a mother, and everyone is still using "carelessness" as a shield. Many parents are blinded by "carelessness".
Just after the final exam, the mother asked the child how he did in the exam?
Xiaoli said happily: "I did okay in the exam, I checked it several times, and it was no problem above 95." ”
At the parent-teacher meeting, the mother looked at it, well, it is indeed as the daughter said, 95, not above. If you look at the mistakes carefully, there are 4 points wrong in the calculations. Looking at the other students in the class, half of them were deducted points because of the number of calculations, and some even deducted 7~8 points. If you deduct 2-3 points from other places, your score will drop by 90, which is a pity.
If there is no conversation with the child just after the exam, Xiaoli's mother also wants to comfort herself like this. You can't fool yourself.
The word "information recognition" suddenly appeared in my mother's head. This is what I saw in "Becoming an Exam Master" a few days ago, about the essence of sloppiness. Because the child has a question, that is, he copied the wrong number, which led to the wrong calculation. When I think about reading with my children, I often skip words and make mistakes. I thought it was a small problem, but I didn't take it seriously. Now it seems that if you don't want to solve the small problem, in the fierce competition of hundreds and thousands of students with 1 point in the college entrance examination, the child is likely to miss out on the ideal university, but fortunately it has been discovered now.
What should parents do if they find that their child has a lot of problems?
1. Develop good study habits first
In addition to good methods, good grades are inseparable from good habits. Good study habits: review, homework, preview, regular review, consolidation of knowledge, sorting out the set of mistakes. However, many children think that they can do it and are reluctant to do the exercises, and they find it troublesome and do not organize the wrong problem set. It is recommended that adults help children develop good study habits.
2. Cultivate a good habit of checking children
Although some children do not see the problem after several checks, developing a good habit of checking will still reduce the likelihood of children making some low-level mistakes. For example, the calculation problem should check the calculated number, reverse extrapolation to verify your own solution ideas, etc. These inspection habits can be gradually developed from daily homework and practice.
3. Improve your child's concentration
I don't pay attention to my homework and I am easily affected by things around me. If you can't develop the habit of focusing on homework every day, how can you ensure that you will not be affected by other invigilators who go back and forth when you listen to classes and exams at school?
4. Enhance children's sense of time
Some children are slow to do their homework, and the problems that can be solved in 5 minutes have to be completed in 15 minutes, resulting in a longer homework time. In addition to attention problems, it has a lot to do with children's weak concept of time.
"Becoming an Exam Master" introduces the essence of six different types of sloppiness, 1. Confidence recognition, 2. Lack of knowledge, 3. Lack of ability, 4. Bad habits, 5. Excessive pressure, 6. Attitude problems, which is actually a very complex psychological phenomenon. The corresponding solution is also given in the book.
Like what:
Information recognition plays an important role in both the liberal arts and sciences. Where there is text, it is necessary to identify information and extract key information. If the ability to recognize information is weak, the child may not be able to read the question or misunderstand the question, resulting in the whole question being done incorrectly.
The book uses a psychological study to ask the top 10 and bottom 10 students to do exactly the same set of math problems with a low level of difficulty. In the process of doing the questions, the scientists analyzed the students' brains through brain wave tests.
The results showed:
1. The top 10 students have more active auditory centers than the bottom 10 students. And the accuracy rate is also high.
2. The last ten students blamed sloppiness for their mistakes.
This shows that students with good grades not only use vision to input and do questions to the brain when they read the questions. At the same time, it also mobilizes the sense of hearing, re-identifies the information that has been obtained, and judges the accuracy. That is, they have been meditating in their hearts all the time, mobilizing their senses of sight and hearing.
Allowing children to read aloud is also mobilizing both visual and auditory senses to enhance information recognition ability.
There are also the next 5 sloppy types, which seem to be common, and we can understand their meaning as soon as we say it, but if we want to correct it, we need to understand why first, and then think about how to do it, so that we can be more efficient.
Interested friends can also read this book "Become an Exam Master". Not only does it help children overcome sloppiness, but Dr. Tsinghua also helps you analyze why you study well and don't take the test, so that you can truly understand the underlying logic of the exam, correctly understand the exam, and achieve ideal results.
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