In our lives, children are always given endless love, but what they really need is not just unconditional love, but sincere dialogue and love from their parents.
Imagine that when you are having a hard time at school, or are you confused about something, do you want your parents to give you a simple blame, or are you willing to have an in-depth communication with them and get their understanding and support?
Every child has a story to tell, and every story needs to be listened to and understood by parents. Our children are not lacking in love, they need a place to be able to confide in themselves, to be heard and understood. They are looking for a space where they can express themselves freely, a harbor where they can feel seen and understood.
Good parents are not only about providing material satisfaction, but also about being able to listen and understand their children's inner world. When we talk to children with an attitude of understanding and acceptance, they will feel accepted, understood, and they will feel their own value and presence in this world. This kind of communication will give children great strength and courage to face life's challenges.
Children crave more than just love, but understanding, acceptance, and encouragement from their parents. What they need to hear is "you're great", "you can do it", "you're the best in our hearts", not simply blame and ignore. A word of encouragement, a smile of understanding, can bring great strength and courage to a child.
Let's be a parent who can speak well, listen to the voice of your child with your heart, and respond to their needs with love. When we truly understand our children, accept them, and encourage them, we will find that we have given them far more than we can imagine.