When I watched "The World" for the first time, I felt that Qiao Chunyan was very complicated. She has a deep sense of righteousness and deep-rooted selfishness.
But when I revisited it later, I found that Qiao Chunyan and Zhou Rong starred in the normal world. And from Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan, what we have to learn is the main body of goodness.
I watched "The World" 3 times, and found that people who have been soaked in bitter water for a long time will unconsciously give birth to a kind of compassion for the world, just like Zheng Juan.
But there is also a kind of person who struggles to survive in the cracks, and gradually forgets his original intention and loses his humanity.
Looking at "The World" again, I found that Yu Hong asked Zheng Juan for a house, which is really the most ruthless irony of human nature.
Qian Zhongshu said in "The Siege":
The viciousness of a loyal and honest person, like the grit in a meal or the uncleaned thorns in a fillet of boneless fish, will give people a kind of harm that is not expected.
This incident really caught Zheng Juan and Bingkun off guard. Just like Bingkun said: Yu Hong is not such a person, among her friends, she catches up with Yu Hong and is the most honest, how can she still ask for a house clearly?
The matter of asking for a house, put on Zheng Juan and Bingkun, can't be opened no matter what.
The first time Yu Hong asked Zheng Juan for a house, it was when she and Catch Up had nowhere to go. Zheng Juan thought at the time that the house was empty and empty, and Yu Hong and his wife could still support their popularity when they lived in it, and they didn't think of collecting rent.
At that time, Yu Hong was a solid-eyed person, although life was not easy, he still sent the rent to Zheng Juan on time every month.
At that time, the families of their "six little gentlemen" supported each other, regardless of each other. Yu Hong was so tired that she fell asleep, and she had to give Bingkun's mother a massage. When Bingkun went to prison, Yu Honghe was even more helpful to Zheng Juan.
At that time, Yu Hong's family and the catch-up family were basically at the same level, and even compared to Zheng Juan, whose son died and her husband went to prison, Yu Hong and catch-up were in a better situation.
At that time, they were so poor that almost all of them were in the background, and they had no extra wealth to help others, and all they could offer was their own heart.
There are no many interests and wealth involved, and their relationship is clean and pure.
The tilt of the scales comes from catching up with the sick and lying on the rails to commit suicide.
At that time, their son was going to be admitted to university, Yu Hong lost his job again, if it wasn't for his sister who caught up, Sun Xiaoning left 20,000 yuan for Sun Sheng to do tuition, and the Sun family was really at the end of the road.
Among the bunch of people who used to have a good relationship, everyone's life is getting better and better, and it seems that only Yu Hong's situation is regressing. At this time, Yu Hong's mood had changed.
She began to become embarrassed and arrogant. On the one hand, she wants to continue to socialize with everyone and continue her previous friendships. When the other party met, she was afraid that everyone would look down on her, so she deliberately avoided everyone.
The child's maturity is the only thing she can be proud of, but he is still fledgling and cannot bring actual decency on the bright side, she secretly competes with herself in her heart, and also with her former partners.
She longed for the day when she could be on the same level with them again.
Later, the light word piece was demolished. Catching up with the cancellation of the account, Sun Sheng's hukou moved to the school, and Yu Hong was a person without a hukou in the light word piece. At this time, in the face of huge interests, she was completely unbalanced.
"Don't suffer from widowhood, but suffer from unevenness", which has become Yu Hong's heart disease. Seeing that her friends who used to be in the same boat all lived in big houses and were assigned to the storefront, her mentality collapsed.
Is Yu Hong really as difficult as she said? I don't think so. At that time, Sun Sheng had already been admitted to graduate school, and she was not far from supporting herself, and she also said that she could complete her studies through work-study and no longer need to spend her mother's money.
The sister-in-law, Sun Ning, also promised that she would pay for all the expenses of her nephew's follow-up schooling. Yu Hong herself also found a job as a cleaner in a logistics company and has a stable income.
When Qiao Chunyan came to fight, Yu Hong said that she was in the light of words, because she couldn't even get the money for renting a house because of the demolition, and this was not the case.
When Yu Hong came to ask for a house, Zheng Juan thought she was here to borrow money, so she made it clear that Bingkun's second-hand car was sold for 30,000 yuan, and she could be lent it to use first, if it was not enough, everyone would find a way.
What Zheng Juan didn't expect was that Yu Hong didn't come to borrow money, but to ask for a house.
Qiao Chunyan felt that Bingkun's family was partial to Hongduo, so she went to the door to fight, and because of this incident, she became the biggest nail household in the light word piece, which is not decent, but Yu Hong is not decent, but her calculation is more advanced.
Yu Hong only dared to ask for a house because of Zheng Juan's kindness. Before asking for a house, she had already done a series of investigations and thought of all the ways to deal with it.
First of all, he complained: When people are old, they don't have anything in their hands. Seeing Zheng Juan's sympathetic expression, she took the opportunity to ask for a house.
Later, when I learned that Zheng Juan did not have the property right of the house, I blurted out: You go to the street and ask.
In fact, Yu Hong's calculations were there from the moment he learned that the light word piece was going to be demolished.
When Yu Hong saw that in the end, Yu Hong would rather rent out the store for three years at a time than expand the store to Bingkun, I thought of a passage from Keigo Higashino's novel "Malice":
I just hate you, obviously you are my closest friend, obviously you are so kind, you know my obscene past and you still help me keep it secret, obviously you have been helping me realize my ideals. But I just hate you, I hate that you now have a bright future, I hate that you have achieved my ideals first, and I give you all my hatred for myself.
How ironic that gratuitous malice breeds, but originates from good intentions. In the face of interests, all living beings are unobstructed.
Actually, Yu Hong should thank Zheng Juan for her kindness and great love, but if Zheng Juan is a little selfish in this matter, there will be a big drama in which friends turn against each other.
If Yu Hong asks for a house, I still have a little compassion, then Yu Hong's refusal to give the store to Bingkun to expand and operate is the real embodiment of "Shengmien, Doumi Hatred" in reality.
We have no right to stand in the perspective of Zheng Juan and Bingkun to complain about them, after all, such a thing, as long as there is no objection from both parties, any speculation by outsiders is superfluous.
Japanese director Yasujiro Ozu once said: Movies are determined by the aftertaste.
A good movie is a movie that you can't forget for a long time after watching it, and it will really change your life a little bit. The same goes for TV dramas.
I hope we can also be inspired by the stories of Zheng Juan and Yu Hong. Or, just like Zheng Juan, kindness can also be afforded. Or just be a layman and learn to say no to everything that is unreasonable.
But don't be that kind of person who is unwilling to pay and resentful.