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In marriage, I am most afraid of betrayal by my partner, once the relationship is contaminated with flaws and there is an extramarital affair, it is difficult for a good couple to go on smoothly.
Especially women, if they have an extramarital affair, it is difficult for men to forgive.
From secular notions, one can forgive deviant men who feel that they are prodigal sons and allowed to be given a chance.
On the contrary, it is difficult for people to forgive deviant women, they only feel that they do not abide by women's morals, they have no way to accept them, and they are very cruel.
Because of this, when individual women fall into the trap of extramarital affairs, they will continue to cover it up, fearing that the extramarital relationship will be exposed.
However, no matter how they hide it, some of their words and deeds on weekdays will seem abnormal, and it is easy to see.
Especially husbands, who have been with women for a long time, are likely to peek out some clues from some abnormal behaviors of women.
In the final analysis, when a woman has an extramarital affair, most of them will have the following manifestations, which are difficult to hide.
1. When I returned home, I looked nervous
In marriage, if a woman truly loves you and is loyal and dedicated to her feelings, they will be very real and behave naturally in their words and deeds.
When they get along with you, they never hide anything, but treat each other honestly and affectionately towards you.
However, if a woman has an extramarital affair, her performance will change dramatically, and it will no longer be natural and true what she used to be.
At this time, when the woman returns home, she will look very nervous and deliberately avoid you, not wanting to get tired of being with you, for fear of being found abnormal by you.
As a result, they always hide to the side, almost don't want to communicate with you, and even if they have to talk to you, they look evasive and mysterious.
Such a woman almost does not dare to look at you, and there is an indescribable tension in the eyes of looking at you.
Especially when she sits alone on the side, when you suddenly appear, she will instantly be nervous and a little at a loss, and it doesn't look normal.
When Miss Zhu was married for six years, she accidentally had an ambiguous relationship with a boy, she mistakenly thought that she had found true love, blindly invested in her feelings, and couldn't extricate herself.
Whenever she has free time, she will go out to meet boys, and the two of them are tired of being together, so they will naturally have an intimate relationship.
Later, Miss Zhu returned home, especially afraid that her husband would find out her secret, so she deliberately avoided her.
She is always on guard against her husband, becoming more and more nervous, and she is also very mysterious, sometimes her husband asks her what is wrong, she will pretend to cover it up, but the nervousness and uneasiness in her words make her unable to face her husband like before.
Especially when her husband looked at her, she didn't dare to look up, and always twisted her head to the side, which was completely different from before.
Moreover, when she was holding her mobile phone and chatting with the boys outside, if her husband came over, she would be at a loss, and she would no longer be the real and gentle woman she was at the beginning.
Because of this, her husband gradually noticed that his behavior was abnormal, so he paid attention to her whereabouts, and finally found out that she had an extramarital affair, which caused the marriage to be on the verge of collapse, and the relationship between husband and wife was indifferent and estranged, which is a pity.
Therefore, as long as a woman has an extramarital affair, she will be nervous and uneasy when she gets along with her original partner, and men should pay attention to it.
2. Deliberately alienating you and refusing to live between the sexes
From a practical point of view, after a woman has an extramarital affair, her most typical manifestation is to deliberately alienate her husband and refuse to live sexually.
Such a woman, because she has received emotional comfort and satisfaction outside of marriage, cannot continue to accept the intimacy of the original partner.
They have already consumed all their energy when they are with their lovers, and even mistook their lovers for true love, resulting in a lower sense of expectation for the original partner and no longer longing for intimacy.
So, when they are at home, they always distance themselves from you, don't give you a chance to get closer, and seem very disgusted by some intimate behaviors.
For example, you want to hug her like before, and suddenly you find that she will break free from your embrace and never have the same affection as before.
Another example, you want to kiss her with great expectations, but she finds an excuse to perfunctory you, either because she is tired, or because she is annoyed by you and disturbs her rest.
In this way, she constantly snubs you, distances herself from you, does not accept intimate actions, and even separates from you, making the marriage a nominal one.
After 11 years of marriage, Miss Ding went to a party and met a humorous man.
The man saw that Miss Ding was very beautiful and had a good figure, so he had ulterior motives for her and wanted to develop her into a lover.
Miss Ding just wanted to be good friends with him at first, and she didn't think that she would betray her marriage, but the man loved her very much, and he continued to pay for her, generous and affectionate.
Gradually, Miss Ding had a good impression of him, so she accepted his overtures and allowed him to have some ambiguous behavior.
When the man saw that Miss Ding lowered his guard, he seized the opportunity and boldly pursued it, and soon had an ambiguous relationship with Miss Ding.
Later, Miss Ding fell into an extramarital affair and found it difficult to sober up, mistakenly thinking that the man really loved her, so she lost herself.
Since then, when Miss Ding returned home, she had no interest in her husband, always estranged him, and never wanted to be close to him again.
As long as her husband comes over and wants to have intimate behavior with her, she will find various reasons to prevaricate, and then refuse to have intimate contact.
Later, Miss Ding also proposed to share the bed with her husband under the pretext that she was busy with work and tired, and the marriage died in name only, which is a pity.
Therefore, after women have extramarital affairs, they will almost reject their original partners, and they can no longer accept physical intimacy, and men should be vigilant if they sense that something is wrong.
3. I began to dislike you and had an indifferent attitude
Women who have extramarital affairs also have an obvious manifestation that they will dislike their original partners and become particularly indifferent in their attitudes.
When they are at home, they always like to accuse the original partner, they are disgusted in and out of their words, and they look at the original partner everywhere unpleasantly.
Moreover, they will also compare the original partner with others, thinking that the original partner is not excellent, not as capable as others, and constantly attacking the original partner, and the relationship instantly becomes indifferent.
Whenever they communicate with their original partners, their words will be thorny, and all kinds of disgusting words are particularly hurtful.
For example, they will count you down: "Why are you not good at all?", "How did you marry you in the first place?", "Everyone else is so successful, look at you, what are you capable of?", and so on.
From these indifferent words, you can often see that a woman's feelings for you are indifferent, or even not in love.
Their minds are on their lovers, and they always think that their lovers are better, so they will deny the original match, which is particularly blind.
It can be seen that after a woman has an extramarital affair, their attitude changes very obviously, once they don't love their original partner, they will dislike it when they open and close their mouths.
In marriage, a man may wish to observe a woman's words and deeds, and if he notices something wrong, he should be vigilant to avoid being hurt in the future.
Ye Feifei YFF emotional message:
To sum up, when a woman has an extramarital affair, most of them will have the following manifestations:
When I come home, I look nervous, I deliberately alienate you, I refuse to have sex with you, I start to dislike you, and I have a cold attitude.
Men and women have been together for a long time, and if you find that their words and actions are too abnormal, don't neglect them.
For betrayed women, if they can't repent and are obsessed with extramarital affairs, you have to plan ahead and avoid consuming yourself.
At the same time, you should also take measures to stop the behavior of women and not indulge them, so that the marriage can be saved in time.
Finally, it is also necessary to remind individual women not to be greedy for extramarital affairs, if you love blindly, and when you lose yourself and lose your original happiness, the future outcome will be very miserable.
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