My brain has been buzzing a bit lately, and "I'm a genius" has become Yuzu's new mantra.
01
Brother Yuzu was doing his math homework, and he asked me how to do it.
I looked at the question, there was some shadow of the Olympiad, and I really didn't talk about similar topics in class. Of course, I won't do it either, but I searched the internet anyway to find a solution.
I am now learning and selling, and I told him the idea of explaining the problem, and he looked like he suddenly realized after listening to me, and turned around while it was hot to finish the question.
He looked at the topic he had just finished writing, probably because he felt that he was too good, and he had finished such a twisting topic, and said with a smug smile: "I'm a genius." ”
I'm confused, isn't this question what I just told you, my wife?
Brother Yuzu continued to say unashamedly: "Isn't it that if you tell me once, I'll do it? Look at this calculation process, did I write it myself? This is not a genius?"
I didn't know what to say for a while......
Well, you're a genius, you're a talent who finds ways to put gold on yourself every day. Confidence is a good thing, but blind confidence is a real headache!
According to my incomplete statistics, in the matter of blind self-confidence, whether it is a big boy or a small boy, the symptoms of boys are generally more serious.
My family not only has the "little genius" of Brother Yuzu, but also the "big genius" of his father.
Although Yuzu's father Fangling is over 40 years old, deep in his heart, he still lives a simple and happy child.
Every day before going out, Yuzu's father will look left and right in the mirror, look up and down, gently touch his stylish inch, and let out a heartfelt sigh: "It's so handsome!"
In this way, year after year, day after day, he was impressed by his handsomeness, and my ears heard too much, and I also thought that he was too handsome.
He plays games, no matter whether he wins or loses, there are only two endings: if he wins, he is too good, and if he loses, his teammates are too good, even if he is so good, he can't take it.
In short, he is the absolute strongest, the most powerful one.
As the family members of Yuzu's father and Yuzu brother, I can't evaluate them completely objectively, there are always some family filters, I really don't see their capital so confident.
This is in response to the sentence in the talk show, obviously so ordinary, but so confident!
02
It stands to reason that self-confidence is not a bad thing, after all, it is much better to feel that you are powerful than to look down on yourself in life and death.
But ah, when it comes to studying, blind confidence in elementary school students really makes the old mother tired.
Blind self-confidence, and sloppiness are a pair of good brothers who are inseparable.
One of the most common mistakes in Yuzu's mathematics is copying the wrong questions.
The number in the question is obviously 1200, he can copy the two 0s, and talk to himself while doing the question, this question is too simple, the addition of two digits, who to look down on?
The questions are all copied wrong, and the answer must be wrong. But people never think that copying the wrong questions is a big problem, and when they judge their own scores, they are very careful and cautious in deducting points.
If you do 10 calculation questions, you can still give yourself a score of 99. A full score of 100, no matter how many questions you do, you will be deducted 1 point for a wrong question.
According to his algorithm, even if all 10 questions are wrong, you can get 90 points, which is a very harmonious way of calculating points, which is very in line with happy education under the trend of double reduction.
Brother Yuzu's confidence in learning is the same as his father's confidence in games.
Seeing the question that he couldn't do, Brother Yuzu's first thought was that the topic was wrong, and the second thought was that the topic was out of outline.
He will definitely not take the initiative to find reasons from himself, he can't have knowledge points that he hasn't mastered, and he can't have questions that he hasn't figured out.
When he asked me about the question, I would ask him to read the question, and as I read the question, I would ask him what it meant, and as he read it, he realized that the question was not wrong, and he did not exceed the outline.
But he won't feel that it's his own problem, he will use his barely 90 language level to force that the topic is not clear, if only it was changed to something or something.
Brother Yuzu is just like his "genius" father, he can't make mistakes in learning and playing.
Even if something goes wrong, it's the moon's fault.
One day, the father and son played a game PK, and at first Brother Yuzu did not perform well, and Yuzu's father reminded him to "pay attention to details".
In addition to reminding, Yuzu's father also showed off his gorgeous operation very much.
As a result, within a few minutes, Yuzu's dad overturned and made a mistake in some mediocre operation, a very low-level mistake.
Brother Yuzu didn't forget to remind his old father to "pay attention to details", and then showed another wave of operations, ashamed of his old father.
This sudden reversal of the old face of Yuzu's father was a little uncontrollable, but how could he admit defeat. He brazenly said, "I was stuck just now, otherwise I would have won a long time ago!"
Look, how can a genius make a mistake, even if he is negligent, he will be blamed by the Internet.
03
I just thought, I'm such an ordinary ordinary woman, how can He De live with these two smart people?
The blind confidence of the big smart guy is distressing, but sometimes I am inexplicably envious when I see them so obsessed with me, I don't have so much self-confidence.
When I was a child, I took the first place in the exam, and I didn't think that I was excellent, I only thought that I happened to be able to do the exam questions, and others happened to fail the exam, so I won the first place by chance;
I got an offer after graduating from university, and at the same time I got an offer from a top university and a returnee, I just think I was lucky to meet the interviewer's eyes;
I feel lucky that I have achieved the honors after work and passed the law exam by self-study, and I just performed well in the assessment cycle, and I will know just a little bit about the questions I will take.
This lack of self-confidence did not make me give up on myself, but I also missed a lot of good opportunities.
In contrast, Brother Yuzu's blind confidence is distressing, but it also has a lot of benefits.
For example, Brother Yuzu did not do well in the final exam, and I was worried that he would feel disappointed and extinguish his enthusiasm for learning. As it turned out, I was overthinking.
Although the exam was indeed not as good as expected, and the teacher said that it was not as good as usual, they were very satisfied and achieved the small goal of scoring 90 points.
And ah, as long as there is one person in the class who is worse than him, he will feel that he is super good and will never question his ability.
No matter what he does, as long as he makes some small achievements and no big messes, he will sigh from the bottom of his heart, "I'm really a genius".
Even if the basketball game is tied 2-20, he doesn't forget to praise himself, the opponent is so good, his teammates are so good, he can still score a goal, what is not a genius?
As the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, and driven by the two smart eggs, I feel more and more that I have become more and more powerful.
Now that the pace of society is so fast and the involution is so serious, it is also a blessing to be able to be stupid and happy without doubting yourself without internal friction!