01
After learning that the brother-in-law was going to buy a wedding house and that there was a gap of 300,000 yuan in the down payment, her husband kept grinding hard on Xiaolu and persuaded her to help his brother fill the gap.
Her husband's plea made Xiaolu a little embarrassed. They only have 200,000 yuan in savings, which is still plus the 100,000 dowry money given by Xiaolu's parents.
It's just that if she lets it go, her husband will blame her, and her in-laws will also complain about her. After thinking about it for a while, Xiaolu decided to lend 200,000 to his brother-in-law, and as for the remaining 100,000, let him find a friend to find a way.
02
Xiaolu and her husband have been married for 5 years, but they have successively subsidized her in-laws' family by 100,000. This includes furniture and appliances that need to be replaced by the in-laws, and the in-laws who see a doctor and take medicine.
In short, if there is something going on in the in-law's family, she will find her husband and ask for money as soon as possible. Every time this happens, Xiaolu turns a blind eye.
She also has parents herself, and she also knows her husband's filial piety, as long as it is not too excessive, she generally will not stop it.
may have eaten Xiaolu's soft-heartedness and his son's filial piety, and the number and frequency of her in-laws asking for money have increased a lot.
The husband complains about his parents' constant demands, but on the other hand, he responds to his parents' requests. If it's really a central sour, only he knows it.
03
Actually, my husband also has a younger brother who is two years younger than him. However, this little uncle has been idle, and has been hiding at home and playing games since graduation.
After being persuaded by many people for a long time, the little uncle reluctantly went out to find a job. But when he was looking for a job, he fished for three days and dried his nets for two days, looking like a hanger.
The uncle is playing to work, and naturally he will not have much salary and income. Sometimes the money is not enough to spend, and the brother-in-law still asks his in-laws for money, and he is justified in gnawing old age.
The in-laws felt sorry for the younger son who was suffering outside, and the younger son would give as much as he wanted, and he didn't frown once. When the in-laws ran out of money, they asked the eldest son for it, and the eldest son responded to his needs anyway.
04
For the uncle's incompetence, the most anxious in the whole family, except for her husband, is Xiaolu. It's just that every time the couple mentions this, the in-laws avoid talking about it, saying that the youngest son is not married and is not sensible, so let him play for another two years.
Xiaolu could only shake her head and sigh when she heard this, forget it, whose son is in a hurry, her in-laws are not in a hurry, what is her sister-in-law in a hurry, she still worries about her son.
Since then, Xiaolu has rarely taken care of her in-laws and uncles. It's just that from the call my husband received from my mother-in-law, I intermittently learned that my brother-in-law was in love, broke up, and fell in love again.
It wasn't until one day that her mother-in-law's call came to her that she realized that her brother-in-law was really here this time and was going to get married. But if you get married, you have to buy a house, and if you don't have a wedding house, which girl is willing to marry him?
05
The mother-in-law may have taken a fancy to the bride price of her mother's family behind Xiaolu, or perhaps she grasped the filial piety of her eldest son, and found them without hesitation to ask for money to buy a wedding house for her younger son.
The mother-in-law said that they barely took out 200,000 yuan after emptying their family, and the youngest son's down payment for the marriage house was 300,000 yuan, the bride price was 100,000 yuan, and the banquet was 100,000 yuan, and 500,000 yuan inside and outside the house.
The mother-in-law went on to say that there was a gap of 300,000 yuan in the marriage of the youngest son, so Xiaolu and the eldest son could watch it. When my husband heard this, he had a big head. But after his mother-in-law splashed and rolled, he compromised and relented.
It's just that as soon as my mother-in-law left, my husband asked Xiaolu to go back to her parents' house to borrow money, saying that we have 200,000, and you can go back to your parents' house to borrow 100,000 yuan, make up 300,000 yuan, and let my parents pass this pass first.
06
Xiaolu asked her husband, who will pay back the 100,000 yuan I borrowed from my parents' house in the future? Will you pay it back, or your parents, or will my brother-in-law pay it back?
Xiaolu sneered and refused to go back to borrow money. But she didn't want to save her husband's face like this, so she decided to take the initiative to lend 200,000 yuan to her brother-in-law.
It's just that when she and her husband sent 200,000 yuan back to their brother-in-law, her mother-in-law was a little angry when she learned that she only borrowed 200,000 yuan instead of 300,000 yuan.
The mother-in-law said angrily: Didn't you just buy a new house? Now the house you live in is idle, you should give this idle house to your brother-in-law, so that he will not spend a lot of money to buy a house.
07
Xiaolu pretended not to hear her mother-in-law's words and didn't pick up the stubble, but her mother-in-law didn't give up, and in the end, she got angry and directly scolded Xiaolu for being ignorant and should give her a suite.
Xiaolu looked at her husband, who was also very embarrassed to stand in the middle, mediating on both sides, but no one was willing to listen to him. Looking at her husband's embarrassment, Xiaolu felt that this foolish and filial man was very pathetic for the first time.
Xiaolu didn't stay any longer, and left directly with her bank card. Since the mother-in-law is too little, she will not give a penny. Anyway, the brother-in-law is not her son, she doesn't need to beat the dog with meat buns, there is no return.
For a long time after that, my mother-in-law cried to her husband every day, and my husband was so troubled that she turned her head to intercede with Xiaolu. But Xiaolu just sneered and threw out two options for her husband to choose: either divorce or cut off relations with your parents.