Jin Sha and Sun Chengxiao, who are 19 years apart and were persuaded by the whole network, are really getting married this time!
It has been three months since Jin Sha and Sun Chengxiao officially announced their relationship.
And the program "School Trip of Love" they participated in together has also come to an end.
Now in the show, Sun Chengxiao not only read a letter written by her mother to Jin Sha, but also made a simple on-site marriage proposal, and Jin Sha also agreed. At the same time, Sun Chengxiao also revealed that after meeting her parents during the Chinese New Year, she will put marriage on the agenda.
Although the official announcement of their relationship at the beginning, Jin Sha and Sun Chengxiao, who are 19 years apart, were once persuaded by the whole network, but the state of the two inside and outside the show was still supported by many netizens.
This time, they entered a new stage and started the topic of marriage, no matter how much netizens talked about it, they couldn't stop it.
1、
In the latest episode of "Love's Study Trip", Jin Sha said that outsiders think that she and her little boyfriend are pink bubbles that pop as soon as they poke, but in her opinion, it is more like a pink wall, which is not so easy to puncture, but stable. In addition, she also said that they have their own special way of getting along with each other, and they will continue to live their own lives.
Jin Sha believes that he has made the right choice.
Of course, there are no absolutes, only relatives.
Sun Chengxiao, on the other side, also said his family's opinion of Jinsha, not only liking, but also praising it.
Especially in Sun Chengxiao's mother's letter, she used a lot of words to praise Jin Sha.
"The little bird is human, youthful and splendid, lively and cheerful. Sometimes like a big sister, guide Xiaoxiao and help Xiaoxiao, and sometimes like a girl, she is innocent and loveable. ”
At the same time, Sun Chengxiao's mother also expressed her view of love and supported them.
"I think true love is never about family background, property, identity, etc., all external things, but from the inside of life, the soul and the heart-pounding feeling. ”
Sun Chengxiao's mother is not only literate, but also very open-minded and literate.
It is true that with such a show, Sun Chengxiao's mother can't mess around.
It is also worth noting that Sun Chengxiao's mother still considers it more from the perspective of her son, among which Sun Chengxiao mentioned that her mother said that since he and Jinsha have been together, they have become happy and happy, and they have a sincere smile from the heart. In other words, the mother saw the happiness of her son.
Looking at the description in the letter, Sun Chengxiao's mother is indeed very good at complimenting, but one point also reflects the hidden dangers.
It was mentioned in the letter that Jinsha would guide and help her son like a big sister.
After that, Sun Chengxiao said that her father and grandmother praised Jin Sha, and also said that Jin Sha was very good at taking care of Sun Cheng Xiao.
This is the benefit of "mother-child love", which is naturally also a problem.
Sun Chengxiao's family can see it at a glance, this is not only to find a girlfriend for Sun Chengxiao, but also to find a girlfriend who can take care of people.
Perhaps, in the eyes of Sun Chengxiao's family, Sun Chengxiao is indeed not mature enough, and she really needs someone to take care of her outside. However, from another point of view, it is unfair to Jinsha.
Of course, not only Jinsha will take care of Sun Chengxiao, but Sun Chengxiao will also take care of Jinsha, but obviously in different ways and concepts. Just like Jin Sha said, her boyfriend goes out with this and that. However, after all, there are huge differences in the whole experience, identity, achievements and other aspects, and naturally there is an imbalance in "care". But perhaps this is also what Jinsha may lack and need.
So what do Jinsha's parents think of them?
Jin Sha said her father's evaluation of Sun Chengxiao.
In the eyes of Jinsha's father, Sun Chengxiao was just too nervous in the show, didn't pretend to be anything, and needed time to digest. also expressed his belief that his daughter's vision would not be wrong, and the boy she liked must be very smart and considerate.
On the surface, Jinsha's father approves of his daughter's choice, but in fact, what can he do? As his own daughter, for his father, he still has to choose to believe and support.
With the support of both parents, it was another step forward for Jin Sha and Sun Chengxiao. So, at the scene of the show, Sun Chengxiao simply proposed.
"I invite you to be my family after me".
Jinsha agreed.
Although it is very simple and not formal, Sun Chengxiao still expressed their intention to get married in the future, which is the result of their joint discussion.
Anyway, from falling in love to getting married, Jin Sha and Sun Chengxiao have withstood certain tests, and there are more tests in the future, that's all for later.
2、
Before the broadcast of this episode of "Love's Study Trip", the second season of a talk show "Open Mic Tonight" in which Jin Sha participated was also broadcast. In the show, Jin Sha responded to the love problems that the majority of netizens were concerned about in the form of a talk show.
In the show, Jin Sha said that her boyfriend is very careful, and every time he goes out, he brings an umbrella, a water cup, a garment steamer, etc.
She bluntly said that her aesthetic is to like boys to be introverted, stupid, and not to be rhetorical.
And Jin Sha thinks that Sun Chengxiao just fits these things.
She also revealed that when she met Sun Chengxiao, he was still in his junior year, and he was scared at first, after all, the age gap was too big, but then he slowly got along.
"The female junior holds the gold brick, the male junior holds the gold brick, I like it, the female junior is nineteen, and the world lasts forever. ”
As for the persuasion of the whole network, this time she compared the white lady with Xu Xian, facing the white lady who was more than 1,000 years older than Xu Xian, Jin Sha bluntly said that she was nothing at all.
In the end, she also expressed her view of love.
"No matter how old or how many years there are, I always believe that love is intangible and priceless, more important than the inner soul, and there should be no regrets. How many people will say in the love dictionary that when you were brave together, will there be a different ending, and will you also have a thousand words buried in a silent dream. Under his feet is forty plus, the reality and thorns to be faced, and the sky is still eighteen years old. ”
Naturally, these expressions are all processed talk show language.
Of course, it is also Jinsha's cognition of love and love.
In any case, in the present days, the outside will not interfere with their progress, they are going to the end.
3、
On Weibo, Jin Sha also responded to emotional problems more than once.
Recently, she blogged:
"You are my gift in life, even if many people don't understand it, maybe because it's just a clip in the show, you will have a solidified feeling. At the age of 40+, I can still experience the beauty of love, and I feel very lucky that our feelings have not hurt anyone. ”
As a star artist, if you make your relationship public, you naturally have to accept all kinds of comments from the public.
What sounds good and what doesn't sound good need to be faced, but you can choose to accept it.
Sometimes the public is not completely malicious, not incomprehensible, not solidified, more in this circle, or in reality, there are too many unbearable cases.
Although you can enjoy the sweetness and beauty of love now, the risks are always there.
Just like in "Love's Study Trip", experts have also bluntly said that their readiness for marriage is slightly insufficient, but whether it is an expert or others, it is useless to say more, because the choice is still in their own hands, and everything good or bad needs to be felt and borne by themselves.
In short, it is still quite difficult for Jin Sha, making a bold choice at this age, and it has reached the point of talking about marriage, which is still admirable to some extent. No matter what the outcome is, you can bear it for yourself! Whether it is love or marriage, only when they manage it together can they have a better future.