"Be generous, steady, don't eat a bad belly!" is what parents and elders in Northeast China often say when educating their children.
Northeast people go out to eat, to chopsticks, napkins are for children to go, in this environment, many children are like a little adult since childhood, not scared, take advantage of calm.
Being able to speak seems to be a natural skill of Northeast people, and some netizens shared that when he was a child, his grandmother often taught him a sentence that was, "When you see people talking, how can you not speak." ”
Seeing people say hello and what people say when they meet them is the most basic respect and politeness for people in the Northeast.
There is also a Northeast word "Chuang Dang", which I had never heard before I came to the Northeast, and I only learned after arriving in the Northeast that Chuang Dang is to be outgoing and generous, not afraid to cower.
In the Northeast, adults often say, "This girl can break through", "This kid is wandering", which is definitely a very high-level appreciation.
Is there no introvert in the Northeast? That is, the I person who is very popular now.
That's definitely not, there are also introverted people in the Northeast, the opposite of Dafangfang, if you don't like to be silent, social fear, adults may say that children are cooing, eating deflated, and finishing calves······
But that's because my own adults said that in the Northeast, outsiders will not say it in person, and generally when they meet introverted children, they will definitely say, "How stable is this child", "Although this child doesn't say it, everyone understands it in their hearts!" and "The child is showing up". In short, it will fill up the emotional value.
However, in the Northeast, introversion is also relative, and if an introvert takes the initiative to talk to him, he can continue to keep the conversation from falling underground.
The I people in the Northeast are also the I people who are generous. Like Mao Buyi and Li Xueqin.
Friends from the Northeast, friends who have been to the Northeast, do you agree?