On the last day of 2023, a news report:
A Guangdong woman was killed by her husband on the street during the cooling-off period of divorce, and four male relatives of the woman were injured for blocking the assault and are now waiting for the trial.
Facing reporters, the female sister said angrily:
"That man's cheating and domestic violence, my sister was bullied for more than ten years, and finally died at his hands!
We don't have any money, but our family and the rest of the injured don't want compensation, we just ask the law to sentence him to death!"
According to detailed reports, before the incident, the woman filed for divorce due to long-term domestic violence, but the man did not agree to the divorce unless 400,000 yuan was given.
The victim woman would rather give the man 400,000 yuan to get rid of this marriage.
It can be seen that the victim woman has a resolute attitude.
However, no one thought that she would be brutally killed by her crazy husband during the cooling-off period of divorce...
The victim, Xiaoxia (pseudonym in the article), is a native of Zhanjiang, Guangdong.
She is the third of five children in the family.
Growing up, she seemed to be the one who gave herself.
As an older sister, she gets up early every day to do laundry and cook, and goes out late to school.
On weekends, I have to take care of my younger brother and sister, and I have no time for my own entertainment.
In her life, the most outrageous thing she did was to get married.
Xiaoxia on the left, and Xiaoxia's sister on the right
Around 2007, Xiaoxia dropped out of school and went to Shenzhen to work.
In Shenzhen, she met a man named Zhao Moumou.
Zhao Moumou is a native of Henan, and he is well-known for being idle in his hometown.
That is, I couldn't get along in the village, so I chose to go out and find something to do.
was bewitched by Zhao Moumou's sweet words, and Xiaoxia confirmed a relationship with the other party.
It didn't take long for her to become pregnant.
If you are pregnant before marriage, you will be pointed at in Xiaoxia's village, and your family will not be able to raise their heads.
At this time, Zhao Moumou said to Xiaoxia that he was willing to marry her.
Xiaoxia, who thought that she had no way out, agreed to Zhao Moumou's marriage proposal and followed him back to her hometown in Henan.
At that time, Xiaoxia would not have thought that this decision would become her life-threatening talisman.
At first, Zhao Moumou was gentle and considerate to Xiaoxia, and the husband and wife were quite sweet.
Until the birth of their child.
After giving birth to a child, Zhao Moumou's true form was revealed, and he either beat or scolded Xiaoxia.
Every time she was beaten, Xiaoxia had to kneel on the ground to admit her mistakes, and Zhao Moumou was willing to let her go.
It's not that Xiaoxia didn't want to resist.
But there is a huge disparity in the strength of men and women.
And when Zhao Moumou beats someone, he will look at her with that cannibalistic expression, which makes Xiaoxia unable to resist at all.
It's not that I haven't thought about running.
But she couldn't run, because she was reluctant to have children, and Zhao Moumou still knew where her mother's home was.
Zhao Moumou threatened her more than once, if she dared to run, he would hunt down and kill her whole family.
In addition to domestic violence, Zhao Moumou in life will also deny Xiaoxia.
Xiaoxia doesn't wear makeup, and she doesn't like to dress up, so Zhao Moumou will say with disgust: "Why are you so dirty?"
Later, Xiaoxia put on makeup twice, and Zhao Moumou would say: "What do you want to do if you look so good?"
Xiaoxia also has an evil mother-in-law.
Every time I called my mother's house, my mother-in-law would think that she was spending money indiscriminately.
She turned on a TV at home, and her mother-in-law also dropped the remote control.
Married to Henan for many years, because she has to take care of her children, she doesn't have a penny in her pocket, and she hasn't been on the street.
Even the children's diapers were bought by the parents-in-law.
Once, Xiaoxia's friend couldn't stand it anymore, and said that he wanted to recruit a few people and teach Zhao Moumou a lesson.
Xiaoxia hurriedly refused, for fear of causing trouble to others.
She is such a woman.
Kind and cowardly.
It wasn't until a few years later, when Xiaoxia and Zhao Moumou returned to Guangzhou to work, that Xiaoxia's situation improved.
Back in Guangzhou, Xiaoxia worked in the elderly care industry.
When she returned to the workplace, she worked harder than anyone else.
Every week, we work with tour groups to take the elderly group to a nearby park for half a day.
An old man can only earn a few dollars.
But she can't stand the accumulation of small amounts, Xiaoxia has worked all the way from the beginning of the workplace to the company's sales champion.
Earning the first 100,000 yuan in her life, she didn't think about herself, but about her husband.
She bought a second-hand Nissan for Zhao Moumou, and Zhao Moumou drove the car for rent at that time.
Even shortly before the accident, Zhao's family bought a three-story self-built house, and Xiaoxia also contributed a lot of money.
In this way, Zhao's family reluctantly gave Xiaoxia a good look.
Xiaoxia thought that her life would go smoothly, but there were only zero and countless times of domestic violence.
Sometimes Xiaoxia came back late from work and didn't have time to cook, so Zhao Moumou wanted to beat her.
He even harassed her clients and disrupted her business.
That's not all, Zhao Moumou is still cheating.
Xiaoxia saw on Zhao Moumou's mobile phone chat history that he had a conversation with two different women.
all mentioned that the other party should look for him.
She gave her wholeheartedly, but she didn't get the slightest return, which made Xiaoxia feel extremely desperate.
Until the Spring Festival of 2023, Xiaoxia was abused again.
This time, she chose to call the police.
But she didn't dare to let the police take Zhao Moumou away, because she was afraid that Zhao Moumou would retaliate against her after he came out.
After that, Xiaoxia plucked up the courage to file for divorce.
But was rejected by Zhao.
In July 2023, amid endless quarrels and domestic violence, Xiaoxia filed for divorce again.
Unexpectedly, Zhao Moumou agreed.
The condition is to give him a breakup fee of 400,000.
Xiaoxia agreed without hesitation.
She gave all her savings over the years to Zhao Moumou, just to be free.
Then, the two went through the formalities in accordance with the legal procedures and then entered the cooling-off period for divorce, and Xiaoxia also moved to her sister's residence.
However, no one expected that after entering the cooling-off period for divorce, Zhao Moumou suddenly turned his face and refused to divorce.
It's finally about to usher in a new life, how could Xiaoxia agree?
The two froze.
After that, Zhao Moumou began to frequently go to Xiaoxia's workplace to harass and even harass Xiaoxia's customers by phone.
was so frightened that Xiaoxia hid in her sister's house and never dared to go to work again.
During this period, Zhao Moumou forced Xiaoxia to meet many times with telephone threats and other methods, and released cruel words:
"If you don't meet me, I'll kill your whole family!"
Xiaoxia's sister went to ask Zhao Moumou what he wanted, and got Zhao's answer: "I have already explained what happened after death!"
On July 20, Zhao Moumou's threat in WeChat was more powerful than any time, which made Xiaoxia aware of the danger.
After waiting for my sister to return to her residence at 6 o'clock in the evening, the two immediately called the police after discussion.
According to Xiaoxia's sister's recollection, they showed the chat records to the police at the police station, but the other party had no intention of going to the police.
During this period, Zhao called Xiaoxia again, and the police picked up the phone and picked it up.
However, the police only advised Zhao Moumou not to say scary things and not to mess around.
Coming out of the police station, Zhao Moumou threatened Xiaoxia that she must meet before 10 o'clock that night.
There must be an end to the matter, and I am afraid that it is not a way to drag it out like this, so in desperation, Xiaoxia can only agree.
But Xiaoxia still has an extra heart, what if Zhao Moumou has a hot mind and commits murder?
For fear of being hurt by Zhao, Xiaoxia specially called several male relatives and friends to come to help.
They are Xiaoxia's younger brother, cousin, uncle, and cousin hotel employees.
However, no one thought that when Xiaoxia brought 4 men to protect herself, she still encountered misfortune.
At 11 o'clock that night, Zhao Moumou appeared on an electric car, and what happened next only took a minute.
Zhao Moumou pushed the electric car and rushed up directly.
He held a knife in his right hand and stabbed Xiaoxia and the others recklessly.
Xiaoxia was stabbed in the heart and died on the spot.
Xiaoxia's brother was stabbed in the right chest and left forearm, and the degree of injury was second-degree minor injuries;
The injuries sustained by the other three victims were all minor.
Subsequently, several people who ignored the pain desperately pressed Zhao Moumou to the ground, and at that moment, Zhao Moumou's entire face swelled, showing a poisoned iron blue, like a devil possessing his body.
Sister Xiaoxia's mournful cry resounded throughout the road:
My sister is dead!
Soon, the police and ambulances came to the scene, the injured were transported to the hospital, and Zhao Moumou was also taken away by the public security organs.
The procuratorate believes that Zhao Moumou should be investigated for criminal responsibility for intentional homicide.
Zhao Moumou, who has never had a good face for his wife, finally knew that he was afraid.
He sent a letter from the detention center to Xiaoxia's mother's house, which was 5 pages long.
In the letter, he called Xiaoxia a good wife and mother.
The conflict between husband and wife was summarized by him in one sentence as incompatible personalities and verbal harm to each other.
He also said that after each conflict, he bowed his head and even knelt down to apologize.
Until this divorce, he intends not to back down.
For his wife's resolute divorce, he accused him of "abandoning her husband and children":
"How many men don't get angry and don't think too much, and how many men can bear it?"
"What is the purpose of being so indomitable and tough to the end? Have you ever thought about how I feel in my heart? Who has ever given me a trace of dignity?"
On the last three pages of the letter, Zhao Moumou was self-criticizing and pleading, and repeatedly mentioned the two children he had with Xiaoxia.
"Can you bear to see a child lose both parents at such a young age?"
This letter was sent by Zhao Moumou to Xiaoxia's parents, but it was intercepted by Xiaoxia's sister.
"I couldn't find any reason to show my parents. ”
Her gentle and kind sister has been bullied by Zhao Moumou for more than ten years, and it shouldn't be this ending.
Sister Xiaoxia said, although we don't have money, we don't want compensation.
We have only one demand.
Zhao Moumou must be sentenced to death.
As mentioned earlier, Xiaoxia is kind, but cowardly.
Because of fear, because of children, because of family... She didn't dare to divorce, and she didn't even have the courage to resist Zhao Moumou.
even expects to let Zhao Moumou "change his evil and return to the right" in the way of self-dedication.
She doesn't understand that the nature of the country is easy to change and difficult to change.
Domestic violence, only zero and countless times.
The best thing to do in the face of a bad partner is to leave first.
Only by loving oneself and saving oneself can we love others and save others.
Fortunately, Xiaoxia finally understood this.
Even if the family is bankrupt, you have to get a divorce.
But the tragedy is that she realized this, but she still died under Zhao Moumou's knife.
In this tragedy, Xiaoxia was killed by the man during the cooling-off period of the divorce.
This also caused everyone to think about the cooling-off period for divorce, and even related topics were even on the hot search.
Nearly 200,000 netizens believe that the cooling-off period for divorce should be abolished.
The one with the highest number of likes in the comment section said:
"If you have to be calm, it is recommended to arrange a cooling-off period for marriage. ”
It is also said that the only purpose of the cooling-off period for divorce is to give you more time to think about "or, just make do with it"...
Of course, this is not to say that there is anything bad about the cooling-off period for divorce.
As a system, the divorce cooling-off period has its special role, but for this kind of divorce incident where the party who has been subjected to domestic violence for a long time and is strongly requested to divorce, can the divorce cooling-off period be skipped?
It's like this case.
Xiaoxia would rather give Zhao Moumou 400,000 than divorce, which shows her resolute attitude.
If they can part ways in time, will Zhao Moumou be completely dead, and will no longer be lucky to entangle Xiaoxia, and Xiaoxia will not be killed?
Unfortunately, there are no ifs.
Finally, I would like to say a word to women:
When choosing a life partner, it's important to be cautious.
A pair of bright eyes and a calm heart are the keys to finding happiness.
A good partner can spend a lifetime with you, making you feel warm and satisfied in every corner of your life;
And a wrong partner can make you suffer endless pain, even life-threatening.
Therefore, before entering the palace of marriage, it is important to think carefully and not leave regrets in your life.